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I understand you intentions, but you should have stated this in the original post.Originally Posted by Still1Rise
My intentions for this thread are not to bash people already married, but yet inform others to think for themselves and decide what lifestyle will Truly be enjoyable.
What I see in many marriages... Most women would never settle down if they didnt lose there looks or have a biological time clock. But they cash in because they know after a while there value will go down and then nobody will want them. Men do not have this problem, but can get caught up in the whole family life before reaching their true potential. The not so attactive ones have to believe in "love" because what else do they have to believe in? They end up settling for Mr. good enough, not someone they truly love. A marriage imo is just a partnership. What makes for a good marriage does not make for a good romantic relationship. I think many women would actually like to be married and feel alone then really be alone.
Marriage for men = human wallet, sperm donor, babysitter.
Overall its interesting to hear different views. Even tho we will never really see eye to eye I appreciate everyones opinion. To each is his own tho.
I bet most girls you encounter do think they wouldn't ever if this were true. But, not the women I associate with. Their value goes down? LOL so they all don't want to get settled down, they all just want to be "leased" by us "men" forever, but since their value goes down in the lease dept. they must get married?
I know men who raise families and still are turning into their full personal potential. I might soon be one of them. Probably not but maybe. Unlike you my personal goals and accomplishment in life are not only to be great in my own individual life and career. I am taking actions as an individual to be fulfilled and as a man who wants to raise and protect a family, which is a separate but also shared fulfillment.
lol unattractive men have to believe in love... there is just no point in discussing this with you we will have to agree to disagree. nomo but look how man "attractive" men are married to the most beautiful women.
Would they now? Women want to be married and forever alone? That's why the divorce rate is do high huh? Oh and I thought they want to just be forever alone and leased?
If that's what you think men are for to a woman in a marriage then again there is no point in discussing the true value of being in a relationship with someone where both of you actually value the title of being married to the other person.