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i had the urge for a long long time, and what made mine so difficult to deal with is the only reason why we broke up is because i had to move away after college
Who else is fighting the urge to contact their ex?
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Don't do it man. Have some goddam respect for yourself and walk away from the situation with dignity. If she wanted you she would have contacted you. She wouldn't wait for you to reach out to her. You're a grown man, act like it. You're gonna call her, she's gonna act uninterested in w/e it is that you're talking about, then when you finish talking and hang up you'll feel like a worthless piece of a #!!@.
I have a friend who broke up with his girl over 4-5 months ago and still tweets about her but in vague ways like "I miss what we had".."You'll never find another like me" etc.. and I tell him all the time that he looks pathetic doing it but he doesn't listen. I lost tons of respect for him after seeing how lame he is being with his ex
I have a friend who broke up with his girl over 4-5 months ago and still tweets about her but in vague ways like "I miss what we had".."You'll never find another like me" etc.. and I tell him all the time that he looks pathetic doing it but he doesn't listen. I lost tons of respect for him after seeing how lame he is being with his ex
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preachin some good stuff there sir
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My only question is, how old are you OP?
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Stop asking whos with you. Dont be on that misery loves company stuff.
People say all those cliches cuz guess what all those cliches are 100% right.
People say all those cliches cuz guess what all those cliches are 100% right.
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in the same boat OP. Also broke up in the beginning of the year because of an extremely stupid reason
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haha glad she's back in the mix.. and I think about contacting my ex all the time.. but then I don't.Originally Posted by balloonoboy
This the flight attendant chick right?Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
I did last night.
I told her to call me today if we workin things out
Her cooking was on point.
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I have a couple exes but have definitely fell off since we been together. E.G weight gain, not doing anything with their lives, babies.....feels good man
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delete her number and every form of contact you have with her, and keep it moving..
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Originally Posted by JACKEL56
I miss my ex
(wiz voice) eary gad dam day (wiz voice)
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Pretty much everyone is saying. My ex and I broke up 4 years ago from a 7 year relationship and I always wondered if she ever thought or wanted to contact me. I just found out a month ago via Facebook that she has been married for 7 months now. The harsh reality is, once things are done....they are done. You just have to move on and keep on going for the better of yourself. Holding back just slows you down.
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My ex still let me smash. I guess she think we can get back together.
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Don't contact her. She's probably getting her back blown out.
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the way i always think about it is that broken relationships are like a wound. it's going to be ugly for a while and scabbed and whatnot. but eventually it will heal and it won't hurt anymore, even though you may have a scar as a souvenir. but you can't pick at the scab in the meanwhile, it's just going to get infected. let it heal bruuuuh
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It's only fitting that it would be said in the voice of the biggest simp in rap historyOriginally Posted by 504 D1 Prospect
Originally Posted by JACKEL56
I miss my ex
(wiz voice) eary gad dam day (wiz voice)
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Keep it in rotation.
Break up, dead her, disappear, hit her out of the blue / put in alil work, and wio and remind her real quick.
Just dont catch feelings..
Break up, dead her, disappear, hit her out of the blue / put in alil work, and wio and remind her real quick.
Just dont catch feelings..
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What if it an ex calls you? Is it acceptable to talk to her then or should you just not answer? Or should you keep the convo very short? My ex called me a couple of times last weekend to meet up and I denied her invitation. She did me wrong so thats why I chose not to meet her up but am I doing this right?
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Originally Posted by balloonoboy
So out of all the advice, this is the one that you decided was best?
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honestly.. whenever my ex calls to kick it.. we end up sexing.. if you dont catch feelings.. why not? aha
but i will admit.. staying in contact with your ex right after you break up.. not the best idea.. that had me going CRAZY.. i dunno what i was thinking..
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!@#$ it I'm texting her
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don't do it
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If I ever break up w/ my girl.. this will probably be one of the hardest things. Good thing I'm not in your predicament.
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I know it hard to not text or call them, when this happens to me i just delete the number from my phone and after a while the urge goes away and they'll hit you up.
