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I just want to add...
Uh, you forgot...
See, but an important facet of the matter that you neglected to...
Ah, screw it, this.
Wifing that chick that let you splash first time yall chilled... A show of hands
Uh, you forgot...
See, but an important facet of the matter that you neglected to...
Ah, screw it, this.
lol... u sound like i know u already.. cool *** dude...thats how it used to be, and obviously with some girls still is to this day. but these youngs gals, they act like how i acted when i was their age. didnt matter if i had the baddest ***** in the club on a friday night i still wanted a saturday night chick, and i aint gonna front sometime the saturday night joint aint even on par with the friday night ***** but maybe she got a nicer pair of **** or maybe she is louder and dirtier when its time to get it crackin. I dunno man, i see it with my own eyes these little broads runnin around here think they have game, or **** in some cases DO have game.
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You are just that special and she doesn't let every dude splash the first night....
Inb4 she cheats on you because she's a JO.
Inb4 she cheats on you because she's a JO.
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For the TL
R folks, I'm practically saying it doesn't matter when you're with the right person but to truly know love and understand the complexities of it comes with experience.For those who do got time to read...
I feel the need to speak on this maybe because... after experiencing and aging quite a bit reading this part is truly important to understand the fundamental difference between love and lust as it comes with time for all of us regardless of gender.
There have been instances (regardless if I'm taken in a relationship or single), that some women no matter how good they look and how bomb their V is, I'll never fall in love for. On the flip side love for me is more than sexual and I can't stress that enough because primal needs can always be met but finding something deeper and more meaningful is a lot more difficult in the long run, especially as you get older.
If I find someone appealing I'll be sexually addicted and attracted to how tight and how well she handles herself recreating all these fantasies for me. However it doesn't translate well to relationship compatibilities and needs that I look for in a potential mother. I would want her to be intelligent, passionate, attractive (without the need) of flaunting her stuff and also very important loyal. Those qualities, even within a woman who isn't even remotely decent (maybe even in greater exaggeration horrible on her sex game) would trump my priorities in a long term potential partner.
Given that as a man, you can (and vice-versa for women) train and advise your S/O on your sexual wants and needs. Because if they really love you (and vice-versa) and I mean that in the deepest and most unconditional level of emotional, physical and intellectual understanding incomparable to anyone else you've ever been involved with.
You would know, that even hitting early (or after a long period of time)...doesn't matter the outcome. Because it's all worth it in the end and all the other relationship problems from here on out, would be meaningless even after you ****** up so many times. That's when you know, you have someone worth while.
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this. and your other posts...
but in my opinion, it all depends on what you're looking for. and what the girl is looking for. if yall both mutually just wanna smash get it in and satisfy your needs, then smashin on the first date it don't even matter.... but if you think on planning to wife up or be in a relationship with this broad, then that's a different story. if i plan to wife up a girl, then the fact of her being DTF from the get go is highly unattractive. cause that being said who am i to her? nothing more than another D and if she dont get it from me then she'll get it from the next dude. so i say if the woman waits it out then i get to see and learn more about her character and what her true intentions are. and how trustworthy she is. trust plays a major role. if she gives it up quick fast, then shes not my type (relationship wise). but if yall just wanna get off then get off. it goes both ways. again it depends what you're looking for. and i haven't and wouldn't wife up the first night P. everybody different tho
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There is always a guy that will make a chick do things that will disgrace her father. You may not be that guy but trust their is one out there that will.
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I put women on a pedestal?
Ok bruh. You sound like you don't know me at all. Congrats on getting a lot of *****. You and me both. The difference is I grew up and realized that there's more to life and I'm not a scumbag trying to get married and cheat like it's the thing to do.
If you think getting laid is an accomplishment or even a challenge to brag about then do what makes you happy, who am I to judge? But please, reserve judgement on me based on me not agreeing with the way women just pass out ***** and think that a dude should settle down with them after that.
Old turning hose into housewife looking dudes.
I guess things have changed.
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Old turning hose into housewife looking dudes.
I guess things have changed.
roll reversal is at an all time high. chicks be crushing dudes out here man.
both yall seem like you been able to do alright in the chick department so I KNOW yall seen the text messages, the facebook screen grabs and whatever else. like its a bragging point to these *******.
these girls be shooting you their fb pw just so you can log in and shed tears along with them at the levels of thirst, hurt, and deception these boys feel in their hearts.
foul
but funny as hell too
just is what it is.
gllahone84
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I put women on a pedestal?
Ok bruh. You sound like you don't know me at all. Congrats on getting a lot of *****. You and me both. The difference is I grew up and realized that there's more to life and I'm not a scumbag trying to get married and cheat like it's the thing to do.
If you think getting laid is an accomplishment or even a challenge to brag about then do what makes you happy, who am I to judge? But please, reserve judgement on me based on me not agreeing with the way women just pass out ***** and think that a dude should settle down with them after that.
Old turning hose into housewife looking dudes.
I guess things have changed.
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This guy knows. Man I just look at it as she could be a jump or she just likes me enough that she really wants to please me. Y'all should continue to kick it and smash and if the vibes is right and you trust her enough to wife her then go and do it. I do say that you should not officially cuff until y'all been foolin' arounf for bout two months tho.
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This
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I disagree.
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Me and you had sex before?
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depends on what happened before yaw "chilled"
if yaw been on 2-3 dates and yaw talk on the phone regularly and the first time she came thru the crib u smash i dont think thats bad.
I would only not wife a female if i smang the 1st time meeting her period
but it dont eem matter now cuz im married lol.....no i didnt smash the 1st time we chilled tho lol
if yaw been on 2-3 dates and yaw talk on the phone regularly and the first time she came thru the crib u smash i dont think thats bad.
I would only not wife a female if i smang the 1st time meeting her period
but it dont eem matter now cuz im married lol.....no i didnt smash the 1st time we chilled tho lol
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Repped. Homegirl showed me her inbox on some new site she just signed up for. One status update and it was like moths to a damn flame.. Hundreds of messages in a week.roll reversal is at an all time high. chicks be crushing dudes out here man.
both yall seem like you been able to do alright in the chick department so I KNOW yall seen the text messages, the facebook screen grabs and whatever else. like its a bragging point to these *******.
these girls be shooting you their fb pw just so you can log in and shed tears along with them at the levels of thirst, hurt, and deception these boys feel in their hearts.
foul
but funny as hell too
just is what it is.
Couldn't even fake a laugh. Just gave her phone back and
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Sir San Diego
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Killed him.
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ricky my man u hit gold...
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Depends on the quality of the woman, not always the time frame
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well see the thing is i have a father who's been in my life at all times and 2 MUCH older brothers.
those are my old heads i listen to.
no disrespect to anybody, but i honestly don't care about NT's old heads.
y'all don't really know me or my girl or even my personality so what y'all say is based on y'all own lives and generalizations.
i can appreciate that dudes in here try to spread knowledge to the young and lost, but i just don't put much stock in it myself because i don't know y'all and vice versa.
honestly, this is all entertainment. i'm very argumentative so i always try to get my points across but at the end of the day me and my girl and patnas be on here laughin at a lot of the **** that gets said.
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this...
you got career gold diggers putting in years of work to clean you out, then you got love at first sight....
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