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Assume that all guys want to **** your girl. While assuming that, understand that there's NOTHING you can do to prevent her from doing what she wants to do. Wether you "Let" your girl hang out with another guy friend or not, if desired, she will play you regardless. You have to pick them right, and trust them enough to respect you and the relationship. If you think your girl's shady, why are you with her? if you trust her, than why are you trying to restrain her?Sure, it would work for that party. However, on some level the party who is attracted remains in a permanent state of active desire, waiting for that one opportunity (rebound, drunk night, etc.) to cash in. That's not a friend, that's penis in disguise. A semi-literal Trojan Horse.
My woman has one male friend, and he has lots of other male friends, so it's whatever. All I'm saying is that I (or many other potential partners) am not gonna be cool with my chick voluntarily hanging around some dude who wants to **** her. No exes, no buddy boos, no work hubbies, none of it.
Call me insecure, call me Ishmael, that's just my belief and it's backed up by every experience Ive ever seen or had regarding the matter.
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