Passive for sure lol. You can't scare a *****. Though women love to feel intimidated works like a charm if correct methods are applied. Talking highly of yourself is always a game winner regardless just always stand your ground so to speak. Be aggressive wit new pootang cause... **** there feelings it's about me!
Are you aggressive or passive when it comes to getting at females ?
- 40,507
- 41,286
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2002
Passive aggressive, maybe??
- 15,853
- 3,476
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2006
We're men. we're suppose to be the natural aggressors. Some of us can't just sit back and let women come to us
- 23,133
- 36,708
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2013
A lot if guys delude themselves into thinking that way. Putting the ***** on a pedestal. But if you think you gotta be the aggressor, play on, player. 
- 40,507
- 41,286
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2002
[quote name="a blinkin"url="/t/567380/are-you-aggressive-or-passive-when-it-comes-to-getting-at-females/60#post_18588722"]A lot if guys delude themselves into thinking that way. Putting the ***** on a pedestal. But if you think you gotta be the aggressor, play on, player. [/quote]
So, when you're over a chicks house on the couch, they jump your bones?
[/quote]So, when you're over a chicks house on the couch, they jump your bones?
- 781
- 396
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2012
Passive here. I will flirt with women but never blatant and direct. For example, I would never walk up to a girl and say "I find you attractive......" I have a lot of friends that do and that works for them sometimes.
However, to the guys that get hit on by girls, does that sometimes turn you off? For me it does. I like to feel like the alpha in any relationship, so when I women approaches me it sort of immasculates me. Conquering the P is always gratifying, so when the P pursues you I get a weird turn off feeling.
However, to the guys that get hit on by girls, does that sometimes turn you off? For me it does. I like to feel like the alpha in any relationship, so when I women approaches me it sort of immasculates me. Conquering the P is always gratifying, so when the P pursues you I get a weird turn off feeling.
- 6,378
- 1,505
- Joined
- Nov 2, 2011
- 40,507
- 41,286
- Joined
- Oct 8, 2002
Gurl, you better say more than that in this thread.
- 781
- 396
- Joined
- Dec 14, 2012
This.
In high school and maybe college women will sometimes blatantly hit on a guy.
Now that I'm 28 things change. Older women no longer do that. They do still have the same urges as they did when they were younger, but they will do different things. They will, "drop a hankerchif and wait for you to pick it up...." type of thing. Basically, she will put herself in a position for a man to pursue her if that makes sense. You have to be able to read body language.
airthompson
Staff member
- 13,727
- 9,324
- Joined
- Jul 30, 2008
Same goes for aggressive.
It depends on what OP means by getting at. Does it mean approaching, or making a move psyically?
- 911
- 359
- Joined
- Jan 4, 2013
Passive
Married now, but when I was single waaay to passive. Always that simp that never caught on when a girl was light weight flirting. One thing that ALWAYS worked for me was "it's in the eyes, chico. "
Once you get the right eye contact, you KNOW its time to pounce.
Married now, but when I was single waaay to passive. Always that simp that never caught on when a girl was light weight flirting. One thing that ALWAYS worked for me was "it's in the eyes, chico. "
Once you get the right eye contact, you KNOW its time to pounce.
- 23,133
- 36,708
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2013
I think my response was more geared toward the title of the thread where I presumed the op was asking how we approach the females.
But. If I made it to a chick's house, then it's pretty much game over. We both know what inviting someone over could lead to. Once you're over there, get a feel of the situation, and gauge your best course of action. If she seems like she legit just wants to chill, just chill with her. The panties will end up on the floor one day. If she's giving of the "why are we wasting time talking when we both know I'm dtf" vibe, then you gotta make the first move, I do this aggressively, to clap the cheeks. But it's like I said, you've gotta know how to interpret their body language.
paulprince3730
Banned
- 4,948
- 1,056
- Joined
- May 23, 2013
paulprince3730
Banned
- 4,948
- 1,056
- Joined
- May 23, 2013
- 31,469
- 1,915
- Joined
- Sep 16, 2003
This assumes that someone is only passive out of fear. It could be part of someone's personality.
- 67,841
- 102,860
- Joined
- Apr 30, 2010
Your aggressive *** just lost her to a smooth *** ***** with that passive game.
- 7,121
- 1,156
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2011
Passive but great at reading signs and knowing when to go for the kill
I'm never that dude that is hollering at everything that moves but I'm not that dude that tries too hard to be laid-back/chill and never ever approaches
When in doubt I'm more likely to chill though
I'm handsome doe so a lot approach me
I'm never that dude that is hollering at everything that moves but I'm not that dude that tries too hard to be laid-back/chill and never ever approaches
When in doubt I'm more likely to chill though
I'm handsome doe so a lot approach me
- 15,853
- 3,476
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2006
A lot if guys delude themselves into thinking that way. Putting the ***** on a pedestal. But if you think you gotta be the aggressor, play on, player.
How is it putting it on a pedestal to be a little aggressive?
- 15,853
- 3,476
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2006
A lot if guys delude themselves into thinking that way. Putting the ***** on a pedestal. But if you think you gotta be the aggressor, play on, player.
How is it putting it on a pedestal to be a little aggressive?
- 8,192
- 1,861
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2012
stupid passive, they'll be dropping mad hints but i'm too dumb enough to pick them up. they eventually move on
All of this rolled into one. I'm learning from my mistakes though. Had this mad cute girl on my ****, even rubbed on my in class and I still dropped the ball.
- 1,398
- 505
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2012
haven't read the rest of the thread yet. i'm either out lookin or no dambs given. if i'm out lookin, i'm aggressive. life's too short to hem and haw around. i go up, introduce myself and let em know i feel a certain kinda way. they reciprocate or show interest, digits are had and sometimes we go kick it somewhere. sometimes her friends get in the way but *shrug*. other times she's not feelin it, that's okay too. no time in this world to go soft at females anymore.
back in the day you could scope out a table for awhile; feel things out. make a strategy like. but nowadays, chicks is too grimy and dudes is SO thirsty that you gotta just make your play while you have time. no lie, scoped this chick at some bar a couple of my friends wanted to try. saw the hostess, spit mad game at shorty ALLLL night; she wasn't having it because she said she had a boyfriend. end of her shift when i'm sittin at the table with my friends, she comes over for a hug, slips me the digits and makes sure i'm gonna call. way back when, the boyfriend word woulda made me back off. now? just makes me go harder.
- 7,244
- 5,436
- Joined
- Oct 7, 2012
Its better when you don't care !! they like that sh*t.. nd if they don't, who cares.. not you lmaoooooo win /win
- 2,888
- 254
- Joined
- Aug 15, 2004
- 2,367
- 2,580
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2012
I'm passive aggressive lol. You could say I'm the leopard of the dating world. I play it cool then... BAM!!! Before you know it, I'm sneaking out the window while she's sleep....
I hope this doesn't get misread lol. I'm invited in...
I hope this doesn't get misread lol. I'm invited in...