!st let me get this out before I continue. In no way shape or fashion do I support domestic violence or what Reese did.
but at the same time to reiterrate what has been said before, a lot of females these days attempt to physically challenge their mail counter parts with regularity. You have to understand that if you put you hands on someone you open that door for it to come back to you regardless of your gender. For some of us you say a certain thing and you've opened that door. One of the realest lines I've ever heard in music was by Rick Ross ironically "Never front you take it there it aint no coming back".You create/encourage a situation you have to be willing to accept whatever comes your way as a result.
I'm the only male child of my parents, I have 4 sister, a wife & a little girl. The first thing I told them was that YOU NEVER PUT YOUR HANDS ON A MAN. Because you're inviting him to retaliate and put his hands on you. As a society we have created a false reality for a lot of these girls that men/boys are not supposed to hit them. That's all they hear, we don't teach them that they aren't supposed to put their hands on them, which is a disservice because the first thing we teach little kids is that if someone puts their hands on you, you defend yourself. So in fact we've sent mix messages and as a result a certain population of females these days feel as though they can be as aggressive as they want to with a man and how dare they respond. They have been set up for these types of thins to occurr.
So do I condone it? No. do I understand how it happened? HELL YES. The minute shorty reached to attempt to grab his weapon she acted in an aggressive threatening manner under the assumption that she could do so with no reprecussion. In addition to that as he turned and started walking out the door she said something else further antagionizing him which then escalated the situation even moreso.
So while yeah you can say that he's fould for getting down on her like that, even in doing so acknowledge that one of the first things you're taught about fighting is neutralize your aversary as a means of protecting yourself. But at the same time acknowledge the role that she played by challenging his manhood in such an aggressive manner in front of an audience.
We can all say that we will act differently until we're placed into that situation.