do you REALLY care about whether or not a girl can cook?

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Mom always joking about how we're not gonna find a husband if we can't cook.

Could care less though, being a wife is overrated and boring.

at an 18 year old saying this..you're the new kneesh..your mom wasnt joking, btw

Hey man! It looks stressful!

 

[j dilla himself]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Mom always joking about how we're not gonna find a husband if we can't cook.

Could care less though, being a wife is overrated and boring.

at an 18 year old saying this..you're the new kneesh..your mom wasnt joking, btw

Hey man! It looks stressful!

you're going to be stressed out regardless..life is stressful..better to be stressed out with the person you love

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Mom always joking about how we're not gonna find a husband if we can't cook.

Could care less though, being a wife is overrated and boring.

at an 18 year old saying this..you're the new kneesh..your mom wasnt joking, btw

Hey man! It looks stressful!

you're going to be stressed out regardless..life is stressful..better to be stressed out with the person you love

I guess. The married life isn't for everybody though. I'd rather be stressed out by myself.
I've already told my African parents I'm not getting married...they don't believe me

 

[sofreakinwavy]

Originally Posted by marionthebarberian

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by marionthebarberian

Nyota de la star wrote:

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Mom always joking about how we're not gonna find a husband if we can't cook.

Could care less though, being a wife is overrated and boring.

thats what you saying right now.

Nahh. I'll stick to it.

Just watching my mom...sometimes I wonder if she really is happy. Maybe she is but I don't want that life.

you trying to be a j/o your whole life?

 

[nyota de la star]

who said anything about being a rolling stone though?

 

[angelzdope]

I think that if a woman wants to be a housewife, technically her "job" is to maintain the household. This includes cooking, cleaning, and being theprimary caregiver to the children.

However, if a woman has a career, I don't think she should be judged by the same set of criteria as that of a housewife. Those responsibilities can easilybe shared between husband and wife.

 

[deveroesshopper]

my girl stay cooking or us...
so to answer the question, YES

 

[oidreez]

wife? yes

 

[ii jovo ii]

Im a Chef, she still needs to be able to cook.

 

[datznasty]

Well how many of you same dudes can fix a car? Handy with a toolbox, fix and build things? Won't cower like a +!##* in the event of a potential homeintrusion? Mow the lawn? Are all yall the !!!%%% who pay the extra 8$ at Staple's to have them put the chair and desk together for you.

 

[jbone427]

wifey loves to cook

everytime we out eatin and i tell her i like something she goes "i can make that"
my response "well handle it then"

she takes pride in her cooking, lucky me

 

[regal black]

hell yea I care

 

[airkeung88]

I'm lucky, she cooks very delicious food for me.

 

[marionthebarberian]

Originally Posted by DatZNasty

Well how many of you same dudes can fix a car? Handy with a toolbox, fix and build things? Won't cower like a @$@*! in the event of a potential home intrusion? Mow the lawn? Are all yall the %%@+$# who pay the extra 8$ at Staple's to have them put the chair and desk together for you.

my parents are mexican, so yeah i do all of that.

 

[5dividedby4]

I'm sorry, but I don't understand why the female in the relationship has to know how to cook. Dudes in here saying, "how am I going to eat?"and "how are our kids going to eat?" maybe you should take it upon yourself to learn how to cook. I don't see why the male in the relationshiphas to depend on the female for food. It should be a fair trade. Why can't the male have dinner ready for their wife when the wife comes in from a long dayof work?

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by DatZNasty

Well how many of you same dudes can fix a car? Handy with a toolbox, fix and build things? Won't cower like a +!##* in the event of a potential home intrusion? Mow the lawn? Are all yall the !!!%%% who pay the extra 8$ at Staple's to have them put the chair and desk together for you.

I learned how to fix things before I learned how to cook. I know that's weird for a girl.

 

[agent0024]

I care. Its important to me. I 8nt no plumber or mechanic but I protect the house with plenty heat, cut the grass, take the trash out... get up with the kidsif she has to work and I'm off the next day, etc. For me a woman who can cook, or is willing to learn, is a very special thing these days....

I've had my kids by women who can REALLY cook

 

[marionthebarberian]

Originally Posted by 5dividedby4

I'm sorry, but I don't understand why the female in the relationship has to know how to cook. Dudes in here saying, "how am I going to eat?" and "how are our kids going to eat?" maybe you should take it upon yourself to learn how to cook. I don't see why the male in the relationship has to depend on the female for food. It should be a fair trade. Why can't the male have dinner ready for their wife when the wife comes in from a long day of work?

hey simp.

 

[5dividedby4]

Originally Posted by marionthebarberian

Originally Posted by 5dividedby4

I'm sorry, but I don't understand why the female in the relationship has to know how to cook. Dudes in here saying, "how am I going to eat?" and "how are our kids going to eat?" maybe you should take it upon yourself to learn how to cook. I don't see why the male in the relationship has to depend on the female for food. It should be a fair trade. Why can't the male have dinner ready for their wife when the wife comes in from a long day of work?

hey simp.

hey, grow up. You're the one depending on someone else for a meal.

 

[ryda421]

i understand you want to do things by yourself, but YES, it is a needed !

 

[5dividedby4]

I understand where people are coming from but gender roles in America are changing. A lot more women are going to work now. Things aren't like they used tobe.

 

[cj003]

I know how to cook and so should she. She better cook something up a couple a times a week, I will do the same. I am all for equality in a relationship,meaning im not gonna work a full-time job and cook everyday. I also don't expect her to, but we can cook together, or each of us cooks a couple times aweek.

 

[airphilippines]

Originally Posted by Orange Soda Man

Yes. How else am I supposed to eat?

 

[lonelyboysole]

If im gonna wife her or really feelin her then yes

 

[jthagreat]

My girl wasnt the best cook, but lets say i gave her ample practice and now cooks well.

I can cook as well. but She'll be doin the bulk of the cookin. matter fact she bout to go cook breakfast