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Fellas, share your story of getting played (Happens to the best of us)
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that sucks espically if you care about her
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that sucks espically if you care about her
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This one was especially terrible.
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This one was especially terrible.
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My girlfriend and I had a semi-long distance relationship. She lived in Bakersfield ( shouldve seen this as the first sign
) and I go to school in Santa Barbara, so the distance wasn't too bad. She'd always come down to SB to kick it anyways.
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything
)
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude
(I knew it wasn't mine cause when she found out, she had already been broken up with me for 5 months). Words can't express how happy I was. Not just cause I was bitter, but I was like "damn that couldve been me
"
dodged a HUGE bullet right there, cause she had always mentioned how much she wanted to have a baby by me, but I used to brush it off as a joke or some @#$%
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than most
i seriously feel like ALL the good girls are taken or in some kinda situation where you can't get with her, due to her career, school, etc...
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than most
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My girlfriend and I had a semi-long distance relationship. She lived in Bakersfield ( shouldve seen this as the first sign
) and I go to school in Santa Barbara, so the distance wasn't too bad. She'd always come down to SB to kick it anyways.
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything
)
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude
(I knew it wasn't mine cause when she found out, she had already been broken up with me for 5 months). Words can't express how happy I was. Not just cause I was bitter, but I was like "damn that couldve been me
"
dodged a HUGE bullet right there, cause she had always mentioned how much she wanted to have a baby by me, but I used to brush it off as a joke or some @#$%
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than most
i seriously feel like ALL the good girls are taken or in some kinda situation where you can't get with her, due to her career, school, etc...
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than most
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lol @ jesus camp.
That's rough though
That's rough though
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lol @ jesus camp.
That's rough though
That's rough though
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This true, I just don't understand how girls can say things like they love u and all this bs, and the next day be with some one else or act like you don't exist. It's like they move on in a heartbeat.Originally Posted by nawlinsjunkie
My girlfriend and I had a semi-long distance relationship. She lived in Bakersfield ( shouldve seen this as the first sign) and I go to school in Santa Barbara, so the distance wasn't too bad. She'd always come down to SB to kick it anyways.
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything)
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude(I knew it wasn't mine cause when she found out, she had already been broken up with me for 5 months). Words can't express how happy I was. Not just cause I was bitter, but I was like "damn that couldve been me"dodged a HUGE bullet right there, cause she had always mentioned how much she wanted to have a baby by me, but I used to brush it off as a joke or some @#$%
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than mosti seriously feel like ALL the good girls are taken or in some kinda situation where you can't get with her, due to her career, school, etc...
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This true, I just don't understand how girls can say things like they love u and all this bs, and the next day be with some one else or act like you don't exist. It's like they move on in a heartbeat.Originally Posted by nawlinsjunkie
My girlfriend and I had a semi-long distance relationship. She lived in Bakersfield ( shouldve seen this as the first sign) and I go to school in Santa Barbara, so the distance wasn't too bad. She'd always come down to SB to kick it anyways.
Things are going good, then she enrolls in nursing school and says she has less time to visit. I'm an understanding dude so I don't really mind. She calls me every night talking to me for at least an hour, talkin about how much she loves me and @#$% and how she wants the relationship to be a long term one (didn't talk about marriage or anything though so I didnt stress or anything)
One night after telling me how much she loves me, out of @#$@$ nowhere she sends me a text the next morning saying "I think it's better if we were just friends. I love you but I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
Naturally I got heated as @#$% and I called her back, and she ignored it twice...I tried calling her again later that night, and still no response. When I called her again the next night, some dude picks up...right then and there I knew I got played
I asked around and heard that she had been @#$@$% with her EX for the past 2 months...the same EX she came to me crying about, telling me that he basically ruined her self esteem and that she suffers from depression now...she told me she was scared of and that she wanted me to protect her from him and @#$%...dude was on some stalker @#$% and followed us wherever we went, and I almost fought dude at one point when he started to harass her right in front of me . but she told me "don't do it, you're a much better man than he is". and thats how the @#$@$ repaid me, by @#$%@% him behind my back
I didn't get over her for a long @#$ time until one day, I found out she was pregnant by dude(I knew it wasn't mine cause when she found out, she had already been broken up with me for 5 months). Words can't express how happy I was. Not just cause I was bitter, but I was like "damn that couldve been me"dodged a HUGE bullet right there, cause she had always mentioned how much she wanted to have a baby by me, but I used to brush it off as a joke or some @#$%
overall though, that relationship basically destroyed my optimism for ever finding a girl. it was just one instance, and i've been played before that, but this one was the worst cause of all the emotions and time i put in for this girl. i thought that i had finally found a perfect girl, and she ends up being grimier than mosti seriously feel like ALL the good girls are taken or in some kinda situation where you can't get with her, due to her career, school, etc...
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its too many lulz in here
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its too many lulz in here
lostsoulswander
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##%!%$! aint !$+*
lostsoulswander
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##%!%$! aint !$+*
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For the love of christopher Reeves for the last time, you are not taking an L. You are experiencing something that is beneficial for your growth. Don't trust anyone with your heart 100% unless its God or yourself and you won't be surprised. Your expectation for these young girls is too high.
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For the love of christopher Reeves for the last time, you are not taking an L. You are experiencing something that is beneficial for your growth. Don't trust anyone with your heart 100% unless its God or yourself and you won't be surprised. Your expectation for these young girls is too high.
hieu23
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ya'll gotta get in that rotha mindset...
i could care less about these h_'s
word to z-ro
i could care less about these h_'s
word to z-ro
hieu23
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ya'll gotta get in that rotha mindset...
i could care less about these h_'s
word to z-ro
i could care less about these h_'s
word to z-ro
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I've never gotten played to the degree of anyone here *knock on wood*, but a good friend of mine did, and it's well-publicized among our social circle since he's always venting about it amongst us and talking !@%% about her.
I'm not him, so it's not going to be too long...basically that girl was dating another guy during high school, then they broke up, and then this guy started dating that girl soon after, both ended up at the same university, dated the entire time they were in college, always hung out and studied together, took weekend trips away and all that, but at the end of the last year of college, that girl started seeing that other guy again, and then dumped my friend after he helped her move out of her college apartment. dude is extra salty about it right now, and i can't blame him, to me it was a case of the nice guy getting shafted, thinking that there were future visions and all, but the girl just wanted something more exciting.
I'm not him, so it's not going to be too long...basically that girl was dating another guy during high school, then they broke up, and then this guy started dating that girl soon after, both ended up at the same university, dated the entire time they were in college, always hung out and studied together, took weekend trips away and all that, but at the end of the last year of college, that girl started seeing that other guy again, and then dumped my friend after he helped her move out of her college apartment. dude is extra salty about it right now, and i can't blame him, to me it was a case of the nice guy getting shafted, thinking that there were future visions and all, but the girl just wanted something more exciting.
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I've never gotten played to the degree of anyone here *knock on wood*, but a good friend of mine did, and it's well-publicized among our social circle since he's always venting about it amongst us and talking !@%% about her.
I'm not him, so it's not going to be too long...basically that girl was dating another guy during high school, then they broke up, and then this guy started dating that girl soon after, both ended up at the same university, dated the entire time they were in college, always hung out and studied together, took weekend trips away and all that, but at the end of the last year of college, that girl started seeing that other guy again, and then dumped my friend after he helped her move out of her college apartment. dude is extra salty about it right now, and i can't blame him, to me it was a case of the nice guy getting shafted, thinking that there were future visions and all, but the girl just wanted something more exciting.
I'm not him, so it's not going to be too long...basically that girl was dating another guy during high school, then they broke up, and then this guy started dating that girl soon after, both ended up at the same university, dated the entire time they were in college, always hung out and studied together, took weekend trips away and all that, but at the end of the last year of college, that girl started seeing that other guy again, and then dumped my friend after he helped her move out of her college apartment. dude is extra salty about it right now, and i can't blame him, to me it was a case of the nice guy getting shafted, thinking that there were future visions and all, but the girl just wanted something more exciting.
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Murda He wrote
I remember that story. Knew something was fishy from jump
