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Originally Posted by JOE CAMEL SMOOTH
is meagaveli a real person? this is absurd.
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Originally Posted by JOE CAMEL SMOOTH
is meagaveli a real person? this is absurd.
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY
chemistry. you can be "perfect", but if you are not perfect for each other, if your personalities don't coincide, then it's really a no go.
this. I'll let %!+! on my "list" slide if he's a good dude and we get along great. I love tall guys tho. They always catch my eye and I'll give them a small pass even if they aren't that cute if they are tall.
Originally Posted by Executive76
how backwards. you're 4'10 everybody makes you look like a kid
some of these comments
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
i've done it but its not a regular thing...most of the time its at a club/party or on a dare...
How old are you? (just curious)Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
This has gotten outta hand.
The reason why I posed the question is simple. Although confident without being cocky, I've never been hit on by a girl. I've never been approached or even smiled at. I do my BEST effort to not mean mug etc.
INS, although when formally introduced to a chick I'm able to make it happen.
-Nice car
-disposable income
-hygienic
-very basic style, dark fitting clothing
-6'-0"
-in shape (although not Ethan Hunt)
-relatively attractive facial structure
-clean complexion
-no physical defects
-not ******ed
-personable, approachable
-personality blah blah blah
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
Originally Posted by Smashing
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by SiMPLYDiMPLY
chemistry. you can be "perfect", but if you are not perfect for each other, if your personalities don't coincide, then it's really a no go.
this. I'll let %!+! on my "list" slide if he's a good dude and we get along great. I love tall guys tho. They always catch my eye and I'll give them a small pass even if they aren't that cute if they are tall.
wow, homegirl is like 2 ft 3 in.
I think you're right.Originally Posted by Club29
"initiate, or masturbate"
i've done it but its not a regular thing...most of the time its at a club/party or on a dare...Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by Executive76
how backwards. you're 4'10 everybody makes you look like a kid
some of these comments
with a guy its like a protected feeling...with a girl she's just tall and cant do anything for me...
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
Damn, that sums it up right there.Originally Posted by Club29
Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
This has gotten outta hand.
The reason why I posed the question is simple. Although confident without being cocky, I've never been hit on by a girl. I've never been approached or even smiled at. I do my BEST effort to not mean mug etc.
INS, although when formally introduced to a chick I'm able to make it happen.
-Nice car
-disposable income
-hygienic
-very basic style, dark fitting clothing
-6'-0"
-in shape (although not Ethan Hunt)
-relatively attractive facial structure
-clean complexion
-no physical defects
-not ******ed
-personable, approachable
-personality blah blah blah
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
most women wont approach, unfortunately.
its always us that gotta talk to them
I heard this somewhere, and it definitely makes sense.
"initiate, or masturbate"
20 y.oOriginally Posted by Dylishis
How old are you? (just curious)Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
This has gotten outta hand.
The reason why I posed the question is simple. Although confident without being cocky, I've never been hit on by a girl. I've never been approached or even smiled at. I do my BEST effort to not mean mug etc.
INS, although when formally introduced to a chick I'm able to make it happen.
-Nice car
-disposable income
-hygienic
-very basic style, dark fitting clothing
-6'-0"
-in shape (although not Ethan Hunt)
-relatively attractive facial structure
-clean complexion
-no physical defects
-not ******ed
-personable, approachable
-personality blah blah blah
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
Girls do approach guys (I don't though. *ducks*) but maybe you should also take some initiative. You seem a bit caught up in the superficial things though, which can help but...the whole package needs to be there. What kind of girls do you like? What kind of things are you into (music, movies, whatever)? You going for quality or quantity? Next time you see a girl that you think you're into, chat her up and see what happens. Personally, the first thing that really gets my attention is when a guy literally TALKS to me. Don't just bumrush a chick asking her name and phone number. Make small talk with someone you think would be receptive and see where it goes.
Originally Posted by columbiasneaks
6'3" football player in the buildinnnnn
i see this slowly turning into the male draft
Originally Posted by toast1985
Yeah I'm 5'9, and I'm too short. These tall dudes got it made, I'm flat out hatin'. I dress nice, I'm good looking, own apartment, inbetween whips (I'll be back up shortly, last whip pooped out a week ago)...and I have very nice physique (6-8 pac abs, nice chest, defined arms).
...Yet these tall muh +!#@### always get run. Its like God had to make a clear difference between me and that 6'4 dude...Whats crazy is those cats can be ugly as %%!@, and chicks will still give them play. I remember one dude from college, this dude was like 6'4 230lbs, light skinned w/ wavy hair..He had to smash every single chick that ever looked at him. I remember telling him that "God placed you on this earth to smash any girl you want, your like a 1 of 20" or something crazy...and he knew it was true.
Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
20 y.oOriginally Posted by Dylishis
How old are you? (just curious)Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
This has gotten outta hand.
The reason why I posed the question is simple. Although confident without being cocky, I've never been hit on by a girl. I've never been approached or even smiled at. I do my BEST effort to not mean mug etc.
INS, although when formally introduced to a chick I'm able to make it happen.
-Nice car
-disposable income
-hygienic
-very basic style, dark fitting clothing
-6'-0"
-in shape (although not Ethan Hunt)
-relatively attractive facial structure
-clean complexion
-no physical defects
-not ******ed
-personable, approachable
-personality blah blah blah
Just want to know what I'm missing in able for a chick to actually come talk to me.... does this even happen?? ahah
Girls do approach guys (I don't though. *ducks*) but maybe you should also take some initiative. You seem a bit caught up in the superficial things though, which can help but...the whole package needs to be there. What kind of girls do you like? What kind of things are you into (music, movies, whatever)? You going for quality or quantity? Next time you see a girl that you think you're into, chat her up and see what happens. Personally, the first thing that really gets my attention is when a guy literally TALKS to me. Don't just bumrush a chick asking her name and phone number. Make small talk with someone you think would be receptive and see where it goes.
Great post. I agree, although the superficial items were listed first, the society we live in with Ed Hardy True Religion toting, personality-less douche bags getting all the attention....smh
Like many other guys, I find it difficult to just randomly come up with a decent conversation starter on the fly... without knowing the individual regardless of male or female. In the off chance I do see a girl I'm interested in, there won't be much time to muster up conversations about life or whatever; which is why the male species has predominantly resorted to NAME AND NUMBER NOW.
Regardless, the purpose of this exercise is to figure out what it actually takes (if it exists) to have a female approach the male. Remember, this excludes all club life and other wise alcohol supplemented situations.
Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
Seems to be the common consensus. Let's evolve this post and ponder: What is the best way to approach a female without coming on too strong. Cna it be definitive? A conversation starter, without being a pickup line
Originally Posted by toast1985
Yeah I'm 5'9, and I'm too short. These tall dudes got it made, I'm flat out hatin'. I dress nice, I'm good looking, own apartment, inbetween whips (I'll be back up shortly, last whip pooped out a week ago)...and I have very nice physique (6-8 pac abs, nice chest, defined arms).
...Yet these tall muh +!#@### always get run. Its like God had to make a clear difference between me and that 6'4 dude...Whats crazy is those cats can be ugly as %%!@, and chicks will still give them play. I remember one dude from college, this dude was like 6'4 230lbs, light skinned w/ wavy hair...He had to smash every single chick that ever looked at him. I remember telling him that "God placed you on this earth to smash any girl you want, your like a 1 of 20" or something crazy...and he knew it was true.
I disagree with this statement. None of the girls that have approached me are that type of female. Well... only 1Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
I usually just make an obvious observation, if they're looking sophisticated I call them out on it. I rarely compliment natural beauty.Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
Seems to be the common consensus. Let's evolve this post and ponder: What is the best way to approach a female without coming on too strong. Cna it be definitive? A conversation starter, without being a pickup line
Originally Posted by MikeTysontheKiller
I disagree with this statement. None of the girls that have approached me are that type of female. Well... only 1Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
I suppose if there was an end all be all conversation starter, it'd become exactly that.Originally Posted by RenaRene
Originally Posted by brettTHEjett
Originally Posted by RenaRene
Chicks generally don't like to approach dudes. Unless she's that type of female. you should just approach whoever you're interested in, then you wont have to worry about getting passed up.
Seems to be the common consensus. Let's evolve this post and ponder: What is the best way to approach a female without coming on too strong. Cna it be definitive? A conversation starter, without being a pickup line
Try not to be too generic. Say something random, or mention something about your immediate surroundings. Preferably something funny. chicks dig a sense of humor. Then you can get into the formalities like name, locale, etc. the key is not to come off like your coming on....