for the dudes that just can't see themselves without being in a relationship....WHY?

[kix4kix]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

I thought the same as you my man, until....I just think that if the right girl comes along, you can remain true to yourself, the right person in fact makes you truer to yourself. Being honest, I have way more solitude now. A chick that can give distance, yet always be there is a rare trait fellas. 

 

[Majorbread]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

pretty much exactly how I feel

 

[Majorbread]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

pretty much exactly how I feel

 

[loveofthegame916]

Personally I feel like I met the girl I was born to be with for the rest of my life

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[loveofthegame916]

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[bns1201]

Originally Posted by size twelve

you get more sex with a steady girl.

i've never heard my hand talk back to me tho. literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

 

[bns1201]

Originally Posted by size twelve

you get more sex with a steady girl.

i've never heard my hand talk back to me tho. literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

 

[mangudai954]

 

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[neverflopped]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

 

[Nouss]

Originally Posted by bns1201

literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

I agree except when I go out with friends and their girlfriends...I am not inviting a jump to accompany me.  

I agree with Anton's sentiments also.

 

[Nouss]

Originally Posted by bns1201

literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

I agree except when I go out with friends and their girlfriends...I am not inviting a jump to accompany me.  

I agree with Anton's sentiments also.

 

[neverflopped]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

 

[an dee 51o]

Originally Posted by bns1201

Originally Posted by size twelve

you get more sex with a steady girl.

i've never heard my hand talk back to me tho. literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

THIS

I've tried it but I can't do the relationship thing. I need to be able to do what I want, whenever I want. I will possibly start looking later in life, but not any time soon. Forever alone

 

[an dee 51o]

Originally Posted by bns1201

Originally Posted by size twelve

you get more sex with a steady girl.

i've never heard my hand talk back to me tho. literally there has never been a situation that crossed my mind where I ever see myself having a gf

THIS

I've tried it but I can't do the relationship thing. I need to be able to do what I want, whenever I want. I will possibly start looking later in life, but not any time soon. Forever alone

 

[veezyv]

Rather spend money on myself than a girl who I'll break up with in a few months.

Also there isnt a girl telling me what I cant do or can do...less stress...not getting "hurt".

If it aint srs, im not doin it...and i know im not srs at all right now

 

[veezyv]

Rather spend money on myself than a girl who I'll break up with in a few months.

Also there isnt a girl telling me what I cant do or can do...less stress...not getting "hurt".

If it aint srs, im not doin it...and i know im not srs at all right now

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by neverflopped

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

By aggressive-I meant she has to not only approach but completely take charge (set dates, seek me out, make the first call etc)


I've bagged incredibly hot women, so the confidence to "initially" meet them is not my problem. Acting and following up on it after I initially meet them and exchange numbers is. But if that's your interpretation of what I just said...cool.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by neverflopped

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

By aggressive-I meant she has to not only approach but completely take charge (set dates, seek me out, make the first call etc)


I've bagged incredibly hot women, so the confidence to "initially" meet them is not my problem. Acting and following up on it after I initially meet them and exchange numbers is. But if that's your interpretation of what I just said...cool.

 

[bigshake]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by neverflopped

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

By aggressive-I meant she has to not only approach but completely take charge (set dates, seek me out, make the first call etc)


I've bagged incredibly hot women, so the confidence to "initially" meet them is not my problem. Acting and following up on it after I initially meet them and exchange numbers is. But if that's your interpretation of what I just said...cool.

QFMFT!

 

[bigshake]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by neverflopped

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

From the outside looking into a relationship I see nothing but Ls. Nagging,

always being there

. I've grown to value and love solitude and I honestly can't see myself spending that much time with one person for the rest of my life

. That's not to say that I'm a "loner", I just love being able to go home to be alone with my thoughts at the end of the day.

-I'm way too laid back, unaggressive to be in a relationship.

-I can be a bit of a workaholic....and it makes me lazy in every other aspect of my life.

-With all that being said, I'm open to being in a relationship but giving up my "independence" has a price. she literally has to be a 10 in every way possible (looks, personality, intelligence, wealth, and ambition). She also has to be super aggressive, and basically wear the pants in the relationship.

you pretty much just said that ur not in a relationship because ur comfortable with ur alone time due to u lacking the confidence to approach your dime piece. But if she approached u then you'll trade that alone time for a relationship in a heartbeat

By aggressive-I meant she has to not only approach but completely take charge (set dates, seek me out, make the first call etc)


I've bagged incredibly hot women, so the confidence to "initially" meet them is not my problem. Acting and following up on it after I initially meet them and exchange numbers is. But if that's your interpretation of what I just said...cool.

QFMFT!

 

[donttalkitlivit]

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Benihana

It all depends on if you got the right girl or not. If you constantly find yourself dating weak/high school minded immature brats, then of course being in a relationship this early in life is not in your cards. Once you find a strong woman that you can trust, she inevitably becomes your best friend, you stop picturing yourself as a "single" man, and you start to enjoy being tied down.

-The Juice

simps

Its called growing up and starting a family. Keep thinking the way your thinking op, you'll end up impregnating a random bird.
Then you'll be stuck wit her drama for 18 years.

 

[donttalkitlivit]

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Benihana

It all depends on if you got the right girl or not. If you constantly find yourself dating weak/high school minded immature brats, then of course being in a relationship this early in life is not in your cards. Once you find a strong woman that you can trust, she inevitably becomes your best friend, you stop picturing yourself as a "single" man, and you start to enjoy being tied down.

-The Juice

simps

Its called growing up and starting a family. Keep thinking the way your thinking op, you'll end up impregnating a random bird.
Then you'll be stuck wit her drama for 18 years.

 

[antonlavey]

^^^I think I was just spoiled in college, I have no idea how $$#$# works in the real world. Meet girl from class at party, bag, repeat. It was too easy.

 

[antonlavey]

^^^I think I was just spoiled in college, I have no idea how $$#$# works in the real world. Meet girl from class at party, bag, repeat. It was too easy.