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some people dont care about looks, and truly can like a person regardless of looks, but KNOWING that everyone else thinks she's unattractive...and my question is, have any of you been in that situation?
How many of you are embarassed of your girlfriend?
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then why would they be embarrassed? i cant think of something i really like especially love...that i would be embarrassed of. in that case do you really love it?
and if they got fat or have acne whatever...is it hard to have a conversation with them and express to them how you are losing your attraction? i dont know im just throwing this stuff out there.
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then why would they be embarrassed? i cant think of something i really like especially love...that i would be embarrassed of. in that case do you really love it?
and if they got fat or have acne whatever...is it hard to have a conversation with them and express to them how you are losing your attraction? i dont know im just throwing this stuff out there.
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You being in love with someone doesn't mean you lose touch with reality. I can love a woman but know most people wouldn't find her attractive. Or let's just say she is fat. Doesn't mean I love her any less. Just means I know she isn't what society defines as beautiful.
And yes you can really love someone and not be 100% attracted to them. How many people in this world have the luxury of being 100% attractive to their mate? Small percentage. Unless you are top notch yourself, which most people aren't.
And yes you can really love someone and not be 100% attracted to them. How many people in this world have the luxury of being 100% attractive to their mate? Small percentage. Unless you are top notch yourself, which most people aren't.
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You being in love with someone doesn't mean you lose touch with reality. I can love a woman but know most people wouldn't find her attractive. Or let's just say she is fat. Doesn't mean I love her any less. Just means I know she isn't what society defines as beautiful.
And yes you can really love someone and not be 100% attracted to them. How many people in this world have the luxury of being 100% attractive to their mate? Small percentage. Unless you are top notch yourself, which most people aren't.
And yes you can really love someone and not be 100% attracted to them. How many people in this world have the luxury of being 100% attractive to their mate? Small percentage. Unless you are top notch yourself, which most people aren't.
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Originally Posted by hotshots24
maybe they got fat? acne?i dont know...
You don't have a real relationship if you can't talk to them and try to figure out a solution (ex Diet or Dermatologist) ,while not being embarrassed when their working towards being better.
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Originally Posted by hotshots24
maybe they got fat? acne?i dont know...
You don't have a real relationship if you can't talk to them and try to figure out a solution (ex Diet or Dermatologist) ,while not being embarrassed when their working towards being better.
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Just because you talk to them about FIXING (process that takes times) doesn't mean you will/should be any less embarrassed by it still being an issue. She is still fat with acne, it still doesn't look good. So it will still not be a good look.
Again, that has nothing to do with the amount of love you have for a person.
Again, that has nothing to do with the amount of love you have for a person.
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Just because you talk to them about FIXING (process that takes times) doesn't mean you will/should be any less embarrassed by it still being an issue. She is still fat with acne, it still doesn't look good. So it will still not be a good look.
Again, that has nothing to do with the amount of love you have for a person.
Again, that has nothing to do with the amount of love you have for a person.
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Why would you go out with someone that makes you embarrassed ?
And as for the " I only date 9 or 10 comments" that is why your alone your too shallow
And as for the " I only date 9 or 10 comments" that is why your alone your too shallow
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Why would you go out with someone that makes you embarrassed ?
And as for the " I only date 9 or 10 comments" that is why your alone your too shallow
And as for the " I only date 9 or 10 comments" that is why your alone your too shallow
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Because that person makes them HAPPY. Them making you happy doesn't translate to, "I won't be embarassed about them." If I was with Kim Kardashian and her teeth looked like some piano keys, you mean to tell me that I don't really love her or shouldn't be with her if I am embarassed when she opens her mouth around others? Come on man.
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Because that person makes them HAPPY. Them making you happy doesn't translate to, "I won't be embarassed about them." If I was with Kim Kardashian and her teeth looked like some piano keys, you mean to tell me that I don't really love her or shouldn't be with her if I am embarassed when she opens her mouth around others? Come on man.
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