If you "seal the deal" without taking her out on a date, do you rule her out?

[iblink]

Does she still have potential to be dated, or do you write her off as a bust down who's only good for one thing?

 

[mases apprentice]

depends how your next convo goes. its either "sealing the deal" again or ask her on a date.

 

[classy freshman]

No I don't rule her out. I love a woman who is confident in herself.

Plus, I am me(not to sound like a D or anything)

 

[iceberg slim]

No I dont rule her out. Thats that high school mentality. Casual sex happens

 

[storm2006]

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

No I don't rule her out. I love a woman who is confident in herself.

Plus, I am me(not to sound like a D or anything)

While I feel the same away about myself, I have to clarify what OP is suggesting....is this a girl that I met that night and took home on said night to smang? Or is this a girl who I met at the club, got her number, then met up with her a few times (2 or 3) again at a club or happy hour before smanging? I don't consider the scenarios described in the latter situation to be dates by any means but oddly enough if it was the first situation then I would rule her out but in the second, no because I likely know a lot more about her by that point even though I haven't been on any real "dates" with her.

 

[regal black]

nah not really, I'll keep her around if she's cool.

 

[gsgoonsquad]

She doesn't get ruled out. If she keeps putting out and is cool with it, then she most certainly is added to the roster. Thrown right into the rotation.

 

[shoefreakbaby]

I wonder if she is pondering the same thing about you

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

Heck no.. that boost her stats..

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by Storm2006

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

No I don't rule her out. I love a woman who is confident in herself.

Plus, I am me(not to sound like a D or anything)

While I feel the same away about myself, I have to clarify what OP is suggesting....is this a girl that I met that night and took home on said night to smang? Or is this a girl who I met at the club, got her number, then met up with her a few times (2 or 3) again at a club or happy hour before smanging? I don't consider the scenarios described in the latter situation to be dates by any means but oddly enough if it was the first situation then I would rule her out but in the second, no because I likely know a lot more about her by that point even though I haven't been on any real "dates" with her.

More so the latter. I don't expect any of us to real give a one night stand type chick a legit shot at a relationship.

I'm talking about meeting a girl. Getting her number. You all hanging out at your spot, or coincidentally bumping into each other in public, and then have casual sex.

 

[Peep Game]

Nah, cause I &@^#'em within 20 minutes of meeting them at the club.

 

[boi]

Originally Posted by Regal Black

nah not really, I'll keep her around if she's cool.

 

[megatron]

I don't have to date her to seal the deal, just hanging out or leaving with her at a party can be sufficient. That just means we were both feelin each other. No need to rule her out so quickly.

 

[sillyputty]

Depends on the convo.

She could just be a really cool person thats not into all of that stuff.

 

[toast1985]

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

 

[iblink]

Originally Posted by toast1985

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

Who cares? We already got the tw@

 

[dipsetgeneral]

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

 

[ruxxx]

@ "tw@".

 

[nktran001]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by toast1985

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

Who cares? We already got the tw@

 

[regal black]

took me a while to get that 

 

[Grine]

Sex on the first date for me is elimination for them...

 

[chuck67]

Originally Posted by GSGoonSquad

If she keeps putting out and is cool with it, then she most certainly is added to the roster. Thrown right into the rotation.

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Originally Posted by iBlink

Originally Posted by toast1985

Funny, some of these chicks rule you dudes out too.

Who cares? We already got the tw@

But it doesn't make sense. 
You let her smash with no date, that doesn't mean you are a *&^,

 that doesn't mean you are not the relationship type.

Give her a chance.

Its funny cause your damned if you do damned if you don't.

Let him smash, he thinks you're a %$%.

Don't let him smash, he never calls again, your a prude.

She probably thought, "I like this dude and what if I don't put out he wont like me"

Times have changed ppls minds have been tainted.

"If I dont $%$^ the first night I aint gonna call her"

 

[speakup23]

Originally Posted by Regal Black

nah not really, I'll keep her around if she's cool.

Seriously

It's all about chemistry and connections. If there's a connection, then in no way she's ruled out. Unless shes obvious a %+$ and/or diseased

 

[scotthallwithapick]

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Dates are becoming/became obsolete already. With all the social networking and phone apps/devices (e.i. Skype/Oovoo).
People have already "been on a date" by the time they meet up in person.

1st educated post from you. I agree with this but not just the meet up in person. If I get your number, we could text and tweet each other a lot for awhile and beat.