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There isn't a straight male on earth wishing their son was gay but you can still be accepting and not turn your back on you own kid
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Why SHOULD he be happy about it though?
Should is implying that is the "right" thing.
Lobo,
You seemed to miss my point.
I dismissed the fact that he was gay.
I said that no father would be PROUD/HAPPY of their son looking/acting like that.
Now Magic says he is happy, but I don't think the word happy is accurate. A father can tolerate. A father can accept.
But I don't see any father being HAPPY with their son turning out like THAT. (IGNORE THE GAY part. Focus on the presentation).
Yea I was never focused on his son being GAY.Oh, my point wasn't just in regards to your question, DC. Sorry about that. I'm sure Magic probably thinks his son is over the top. I know you said ignore the gay part, but you seem to be the only one in this thread that does that.
Why should a father be HAPPY (key word being happy) that his son is gay?? Serious question. Also, nobody really answered or addressed DC's question at the base about having their son dress in that manner. Nevermind being loud or anything of the sort, just having their son dress like a girl/woman.Do most men want their son to be gay? Probably not.
Should he be happy about it? Yes.
Why SHOULD he be happy about it though?Do most men want their son to be gay? Probably not.
Should he be happy about it? Yes.
Should is implying that is the "right" thing.
Simply put, what man WANTS their son to be gay?
Do most men want their son to be gay? Probably not.
Should he be happy about it? Yes.
Why should a father be HAPPY (key word being happy) that his son is gay?? Serious question. Also, nobody really answered or addressed DC's question at the base about having their son dress in that manner. Nevermind being loud or anything of the sort, just having their son dress like a girl/woman.
You should find happiness in your son's happiness. If my son found a happier lifestyle, I'll have positive emotions towards it.
One more time.............Go back and read. It says that loud people are annoying in themselves, so being around a loud person would annoy me. Family, or not.Why should a father be HAPPY (key word being happy) that his son is gay?? Serious question. Also, nobody really answered or addressed DC's question at the base about having their son dress in that manner. Nevermind being loud or anything of the sort, just having their son dress like a girl/woman.Do most men want their son to be gay? Probably not.
Should he be happy about it? Yes.
You should find happiness in your son's happiness. If my son found a happier lifestyle, I'll have positive emotions towards it.
Man your initial reaction to your son telling you he is gay is NOT gonna be like "hell yeah! Lets have a party"
Do most men want their son to be gay? Probably not.
Should he be happy about it? Yes.
Why should a father be HAPPY (key word being happy) that his son is gay?? Serious question. Also, nobody really answered or addressed DC's question at the base about having their son dress in that manner. Nevermind being loud or anything of the sort, just having their son dress like a girl/woman.
Go back and read. It says that loud people are annoying in themselves, so being around a loud person would annoy me. Family, or not.
One more time.............
Nevermind being loud or anything of the sort, just having their son dress like a girl/woman.
Man your initial reaction to your son telling you he is gay is NOT gonna be like "hell yeah! Lets have a party"
What makes you think a gay kid is happy that he is gay? You see it all the time, when the most homophobic people are actually sexually confused on the inside, and take it out on others. Hence, the reason why i call it a mental disorder. It causes alot of people who are sexually confused, mental distress, which can also lead suicidal ideation.
Exaggeration, and wrong emotion. That would be excitement.
Happiness however, I would feel.
Why shouldn't I be happy that my son is happy? Isn't the point of fatherhood to provide a good life for your children and make sure they are happy?
What makes you think a gay kid is happy that he is gay? You see it all the time, when the most homophobic people are actually sexually confused on the inside, and take it out on others. Hence, the reason why i call it a mental disorder. It causes alot of people who are sexually confused, mental distress, which can also lead suicidal ideation.You should find happiness in your son's happiness. If my son found a happier lifestyle, I'll have positive emotions towards it.
Exaggeration, and wrong emotion. That would be excitement.
Happiness however, I would feel.
Why shouldn't I be happy that my son is happy? Isn't the point of fatherhood to provide a good life for your children and make sure they are happy?
Right so you'd also be happy if your 16 year old daughter came to you excited she just found out she was pregnant?
So basically whatever makes your son happy is what should make you happy as a father as well. So if your son wants to stay home from school because that's makes him happy, you as the father should just be happy with that as well then for example?? There's a difference between being a father (teaching/mentoring/being of guidance) versus just going along with the flow of whatever which is what it appears some people in here are trying to advocate.You should find happiness in your son's happiness. If my son found a happier lifestyle, I'll have positive emotions towards it.
Okay, so you wouldn't approve or more importantly be HAPPY that your son dressed in women's clothing or him being flamboyant then. Thanks for clarifying.So I'll edit that: Flamboyant people tend to be annoying in themselves, so being around a flamboyant person would annoy me. Same goes with most other attention grabbers.
You should find happiness in your son's happiness. If my son found a happier lifestyle, I'll have positive emotions towards it.
So basically whatever makes your son happy is what should make you happy as a father as well. So if your son wants to stay home from school because that's makes him happy, you as the father should just be happy with that as well then for example?? There's a difference between being a father (teaching/mentoring/being of guidance) versus just going along with the flow of whatever which is what it appears some people in here are trying to advocate.
What makes you think a gay kid is happy that he is gay? You see it all the time, when the most homophobic people are actually sexually confused on the inside, and take it out on others. Hence, the reason why i call it a mental disorder. It causes alot of people who are sexually confused, mental distress, which can also lead to suicidal ideation.