Married NTrs how common is this in your circles?

I think next year I'mma try to set something up with my wife and see if it'll be something I'll want in the future
 
Grine Grine

Great insight on the lifestyle. Being committed to a lifelong traditional marriage, I have a few questions...

Are you two intimate one-on-one more frequent than you are in a 3ife?

Do you ever sense that your wife must have another woman present in order for her be intimate with you, And on the other hand, Is it a must that for you to have another woman present in order for you to be intimate with your wife?

Do you foresee at any point that this could be the case, and that your entire sexual relationship could hang in the balance based on an individual outside of your marriage?
 
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What would happen if your wifey fell in love with one of these women y'all hotline blinging with? And she got tired of you and left you for her? You never worry about that?
 
@marmourjr

Great insight on the lifestyle. Being committed to a lifelong traditional marriage, I have a few questions...

Are you two intimate one-on-one more frequent than you are in a 3ife?

Do you ever sense that your wife must have another woman present in order for her be intimate with you, And on the other hand, Is it a must that for you to have another woman present in order for you to be intimate with your wife?

Do you foresee at any point that this could be the case, and that your entire sexual relationship could hang in the balance based on an individual outside of your marriage?
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Nope. My wife truly has a man mentality when it comes to these women.  She used to run an escort service for years.

If anything, she's worries that I might get up caught up. 

Side note: She's was my best friend before we got married. Just like one of the homies. So we established a solid friendship for a long time before taking it to the next level. Then the marriage came later.
That's dope.  Hope you guys continue to flourish together. 
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She is used to this lifestyle and it's new to me.

Yes we are more intimate one on one.  And we enjoy it so much.

My wife is very honest with me about everything, and first thing she told me that we don't ever have to bring a woman into our sex life.  I wanted to try it and that's how it began.  We're at a point where going out and finding someone is so time consuming hence the whole ideal of a live-in girlfriend.  Personally, I don't care. (laughing) 

We are extremely happy. Take in mind that we are older (35 and she's 40) and been married before.  A lot of maturity and trust has been developed throughout the years for the this to take place. 

But to answer the 2nd sets of question, No and No.  We put ourselves and marriage first before anything including our sex lives.
Interesting. From one husband to another, I wish your marriage continuing success.
 
Im omw to smash a dudes wife for the 2nd time. This will be our 3rd time meeting with the 1st time being with my gf at the time. I have so much to say about the subject because its all so normal to me now
 
Don't hold out bruh^

Y'all gotta stop with the what of another dude gets brought in to the equation ****. That should be asked before any deal for bringing a woman in is made. Some women are just curious about being with other women. Then u got couples that's about that all out swinger life. We not about that life but I know a dude who is, I ain't mentally stable for that.
 
Im omw to smash a dudes wife for the 2nd time. This will be our 3rd time meeting with the 1st time being with my gf at the time. I have so much to say about the subject because its all so normal to me now
We'd love to hear it.

Shout out to @marmourjr for giving his experience, this is all very interesting. In my experience it has usually been the woman who wants a monogamous relationship, and men accept. Most women are cool with not having sex with someone else, but most guys have a hard time grasping that concept. There is definitely a double standard when it comes to needs in relationships.
If you provide, support, and care for a woman(which is essentially all they really want), you'd be surprised what they might be open to.
 
If you provide, support, and care for a woman(which is essentially all they really want), you'd be surprised what they might be open to.
This is true words spoken.  

Men are so afraid to bring the idea to the table. 
 
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I know some people with open marriages.  The one thing in common is they all have rules still that both side agreed to.  Can only work when both sides aren't the jealous and insecure types.
 
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