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I know being polygamous is natural, at our core we are still animals with instincts, being monogamous is a conscious choice, not a natural one....animals don't get married...animals don't plan families, animals don't make choices based on conscious decisions, they act on instinct.
Love is a human trait, something we made up, is not instinctual, so don't mix up love with the instinctual urge to be polygamous....it really isn't that complicated....you love a woman, you be true to her, if ya both agree on a polygamous Union, I can see that as love, is still strange to love a woman and consciously bang other women and allow her to bang other men....but I'll repeat it again, no deceit, no lie, no hurt...guess you can claim that as love because that's what you BOTH interpreted YOUR love to be.
Nobody is being forced into a monogamous relationship, you can be monogamous without emotionally involving someone else, is called being SINGLE