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Originally Posted by BK201
To the people saying they have 3 or more "real" friends how did you guys get so close?
My definition of real friend is if you got shot this person would carry you in their arms for miles in order to get you to the hospital. That's a real friend to me. I know ppl and hang around a group of "friends" but in actuality I keep them at a distance because I don't like them that much. The things I like would probably ostracize me from the incrowd as it has in the past due to me being an atheist. I've know this one guy for 10 years and our friendship is kind of strong but this one time I was stranded at Walmart because I locked my keys in my car so I called this dude up to pick me up.... He didn't come through... SMH You would think if someone you've known for 10 years would drop what they were doing to get you out of a sticky situation. Guess I was wrong.
Originally Posted by BK201
To the people saying they have 3 or more "real" friends how did you guys get so close?
My definition of real friend is if you got shot this person would carry you in their arms for miles in order to get you to the hospital. That's a real friend to me. I know ppl and hang around a group of "friends" but in actuality I keep them at a distance because I don't like them that much. The things I like would probably ostracize me from the incrowd as it has in the past due to me being an atheist. I've know this one guy for 10 years and our friendship is kind of strong but this one time I was stranded at Walmart because I locked my keys in my car so I called this dude up to pick me up.... He didn't come through... SMH You would think if someone you've known for 10 years would drop what they were doing to get you out of a sticky situation. Guess I was wrong.
for me it was partying, I turned acquaintances into true friends.we started hitting parties and realized our differences made a good combination. weekend after weekend we got closer to the point wed all stay the night at my boys house just to hang out , we ddint need to go out cuz we had more fun amongst each other.(i dont see a problem with it since theres more females than males in our group). I think now were to the point nothn gonna happen in our life w/o others in the group knowing cuz were that close now, and i think if I were to die today all f them would cry for me, were like a fam amongst friends, and I feel blessed cuz i remember just a yr ago I was a loner with almost no one to talk to....Originally Posted by BK201
To the people saying they have 3 or more "real" friends how did you guys get so close?
My definition of real friend is if you got shot this person would carry you in their arms for miles in order to get you to the hospital. That's a real friend to me. I know ppl and hang around a group of "friends" but in actuality I keep them at a distance because I don't like them that much. The things I like would probably ostracize me from the incrowd as it has in the past due to me being an atheist. I've know this one guy for 10 years and our friendship is kind of strong but this one time I was stranded at Walmart because I locked my keys in my car so I called this dude up to pick me up.... He didn't come through... SMH You would think if someone you've known for 10 years would drop what they were doing to get you out of a sticky situation. Guess I was wrong.
for me it was partying, I turned acquaintances into true friends.we started hitting parties and realized our differences made a good combination. weekend after weekend we got closer to the point wed all stay the night at my boys house just to hang out , we ddint need to go out cuz we had more fun amongst each other.(i dont see a problem with it since theres more females than males in our group). I think now were to the point nothn gonna happen in our life w/o others in the group knowing cuz were that close now, and i think if I were to die today all f them would cry for me, were like a fam amongst friends, and I feel blessed cuz i remember just a yr ago I was a loner with almost no one to talk to....Originally Posted by BK201
To the people saying they have 3 or more "real" friends how did you guys get so close?
My definition of real friend is if you got shot this person would carry you in their arms for miles in order to get you to the hospital. That's a real friend to me. I know ppl and hang around a group of "friends" but in actuality I keep them at a distance because I don't like them that much. The things I like would probably ostracize me from the incrowd as it has in the past due to me being an atheist. I've know this one guy for 10 years and our friendship is kind of strong but this one time I was stranded at Walmart because I locked my keys in my car so I called this dude up to pick me up.... He didn't come through... SMH You would think if someone you've known for 10 years would drop what they were doing to get you out of a sticky situation. Guess I was wrong.
Originally Posted by Wr
I really honestly believe I'm too good a friend to have best friend. Like i have set the standard to high because I would do a lot for my friends let alone best friend and i'm pretty sure I wouldn't get anything comparable in return. My thing is I have a lot of people that tell me I'm their best friend and I'm like "really, because I don't feel the same way about you." People take my common courtesy as being friendly, when I'm really at the core just a golden rule kinda guy ( do unto others as you would have them do to you).
Originally Posted by Wr
I really honestly believe I'm too good a friend to have best friend. Like i have set the standard to high because I would do a lot for my friends let alone best friend and i'm pretty sure I wouldn't get anything comparable in return. My thing is I have a lot of people that tell me I'm their best friend and I'm like "really, because I don't feel the same way about you." People take my common courtesy as being friendly, when I'm really at the core just a golden rule kinda guy ( do unto others as you would have them do to you).