So I went out with the fellas (7 deep) last night and on the way to our destination we stop in front of this Spanish bar that was pack from the inside on out. Myself as well as the 4 people I'm with wasn't old enough to get in so the other 2 people said they were going to hurry up and scope the scene out , get digits, then dip so me and my 3 other friends were just posted outside chillin and after a while my friend and I split from my 3 other friends. So me and my homie just chatting it up and I'm noticing from the corner of my eye that a group of chicks are staring at us but I didn't pay no mind to it but out of no where two chicks break out from that group and one of the chicks starts chatting it up with one of my homies so while she was asking him question I pulled the other one to the side and start chatting it up with her. She was about a 7-8 on a scale of 10, redbone, and a little taller then me but she was mad cool. I'm a short guy and she was a lil taller than me and tall chicks give ya boy a little intimidation but I still went in
Me: What's your name?
Her: Leah
Me: Hey I'm Ray nice to meet ya so you and your girl from round here?
Her: Yea we live in ******
Me: So what college u attend?
Her: *****
Me: Word, I use to go there but I'm trying to get into graduate school
After that it was a wrap, basically was asking her what she wanted to do in life and talked about more irrelevant things chicks like to talk about, gave her my digits and told her to hit me up and her and her friend dipped. My confidence was high after that.
As you can see my mouthpiece is mad rusty, there was even one period of silence because I simply didn't know what to talk about and I try not to have long awkward pauses in a conversation so any tips on what to talk about to close up the silent gaps????
But anyways shortly after that we walk off and my confidence is mad high so I see another group of chicks outside and I start chatting it up with one of the girls in the group, that mass was too fat to pass up. They were looking at us mad hard so I said **** it might as well. The ***** I talked to was so stuck up bruh but I know where I ****** up at when I was talking to her
Me: Hey I'm Ray , this my homie ****** and your name is?
The girl and all her girls were just looking at us ******ed
Her: *******
I can already tell she wasn't interested plus her friends kept making slick comments from the side of there mouth.
Me: You and your girls look nice tonight, what yall getting in to?
The girls in her group give me a weird look while she proceeds to talk
Her: Thanks and I don't know (she said it in the lowest mono-tone voice ever)
Me: So u from around this area
Her: Yea
Me: What school you go to
Her: I graduated from ******** High School
Me: I meant what college you go to?
Her: None
Me: *I gave here the "*****" face* So you not in school? (I'm still giving her a stupid face for the simple fact that she could have said she's not in school instead of saying "none" like I'm a ******g facebook profile she's answering to.)
Her: I go to **********
In the back of my head I'm like "***** stop wasting my time with that dumb ****"
Me: Cool well I'm bout to go see whats poppin tonight , talk to ya later
Her: Nice meeting you Ray
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The moment I knew I ****** up in that convo was when I complimented her and her girls
never put the P on a pedestal. Plus I can guarantee if she was by herself or with at least one other chick I would have got the digits cause her girls was making slick comments the whole time probably because they weren't getting any play from anyone around smh. I learned a lesson yesterday, don't go off hollering at a pack just go after the 1s and 2s or sometimes 3 in a group.
Sidenote: Twitter and Instagram is playing a big factor in gassing these garden tools up, they need to learn there place
Sorry for that long read.
. We have chemistry we work in different parts of the building but we always end up working by each other. She's knows I have a girl and never really flirts but I know she's feeling me. Like we just kinda gravitate to each other, hell our FedEx delivery guy asked her why she's always looking at me the way she does, she turned red and said "he has a girlfriend, I can't do anything with him"
