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looking for a baby mother is more important than looking for a wife, those terms aren't mutually exclusive to eachother,I believe that is because you and alot of other dudes on here have allowed yourselves to believe that there aren't any good woman out here...............which there are. The problem is most dudes are looking in the wrong places or attracting the wrong women from the get go, hence why I said for example you are what you attract.
marriage used to be about enhancing eachother, now its basically like a time bomb and you just sleeping with da enemy.
My point in asking that question whether that be directed to you or anyone else out here that as a man if you are seriously thinking about wanting a child and plan on having one, I think for various reasons that you should think about marriage and more importantly find the right woman to settle down with a raise a family.
especially in 2013. worst come to worst
i rather knock up a broad that i know would be a good mother VS looking for a "wifey material" because sharing a child IS permanent, marriage
isn't.