Originally Posted by
LDJ
Orfiyus wrote:
LDJ wrote:
I bet the majority of these dudes either were raised by single moms who were jumpoffs in the past, or have simp $$*% daddies and they are just keeping the tradition alive. Probably more of the 1st one. See those dudes arent men they are a image a fascade. Dudes who simp like that like ive said arent men because they werent raised to be a man, because they were raised by a women, who raised there kids in a image of what they think a man should be. So being simp/sucker etc... is what they mold them to be because they have no idea what a real man is because one they never had one thus being a single mom in the first place, and two because they arent a man so how can they teach you something they dont know?
This is true. But its not the whole story. I think the son that mother raises has to be a weak minded individual to begin with and actually listen to his mom. Not like the moms mean their kids any harm. The moms generally love their sons to death. Its just they dont know any better.
I was raised by a single mom. Followed her advice got pissed that it didnt work then completely stopped listening to her and did my own thing and now Im better off. My anger and the fact that Im a huge hater is what has gotten me through life. Im at a point in my life that if I get the 1st date I can pretty smash the chick on the first date.
The father figure thing is overrated. Any father figure I had just annoyed me. I ended up just figuring out things on my own.
Like I said before its all some kind of brainwashing that causes simp behavior in guys. I dont think it comes only from the parents.
What we need is a bunch of scientists at a university to actually study and research this.
Yea thats true but you had to take your lumps and learn through life and you also discovered that she was wrong. The having a real man not a simp, father figure would maybe completely eliminate that. Its like touching a hot stove, you can learn by seeing someone else get burned that it burns its hot and will hurt you aka have the father, or you can slap your hand on it and learn that way to. Yea you still got the lesson, but one would be incline to believe that you rather learn from watching then first hand experiences in this instance. Its like any other avenue aspect in learning development in life. You would greatly learn more about being an mechanic from a mechanic who is great at what they do, and been doing it for years, versus a person who never worked on a car, only watched someone work on it from afar, and just giving you there perspective/interpretation of what a mechanic is and does am i not right? Sure you could learn something from the latter, but will it be all right? How accurate would the info you recieve be? And which party would you gain a better perspective on working on cars/ being a mechanic?
And you right so many factors go into being a trick/mark/simp etc.. lack of confidence, lack of knowledge of self-worth. Seeking validity/love adornment in others. Not wanting to end up like there parent. Uncomfortable with speaking interacting with the mate. Obsession. Over infatuation with the other party. Placing to much value into a person who isnt worthy of it? I could go on and on but I think you catch my drift.
Like it was said a couple pages back. Everyone has simped at least once. Otherwise how would you know not to do it?
Unless your dad is/was a huge player and is whispering in your key pieces of strategy I dont see how you can just know everything.
But I agree with the rest of what youre saying.