Originally Posted by
Hazeleyed Honey
Originally Posted by wawaweewa
We haven't really evolved much to be honest. I'd think all the killing, lying, stealing just in the past century is evidence of that.
Most men couldn't care less whether you believe this or that. Frankly, the exact reason behind it doesn't matter. All that matters is that it's common enough to not be the exception (but it isn't the rule either).
It wasn't about the grass begin greener. It was just about sex. Sex isn't sacred. It's sex. Is peeing sacred? Women have a hard time understanding this because they're emotional feelings are linked to their sexual activity. For men, it's different. It can be about love if shared with someone you love but it doesn't have to be. I've had sex with chicks who I wouldn't' even hang out with even if I got paid for it.
What I meant by evolving is that there is a difference between humans and animals. Humans will still act out of primary human nature instincts, but if they are full capable as a human, then they can make that RATIONAL and LOGICAL choice to not commit those acts. That's the difference in how we evolved beyond primal instincts.
Just sex? If I am in a monogamous relationship, any kind of intimacy I share with my man is sacred, even a kiss. Intimacy only shared between both of you provides that feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together only. It strengthens your bond,doesn't it? In a monogamous relationship, we made a pact and boundaries of an exclusive and committed relationship. Any kind of emotional or physical embrace and affection my man shares with another women is not sacred to me then anymore. As partners in a monogamous relationship, what's so unique and special about our intimacy if you and I are banging others on the side?
So if a girl you loved had sex with another man, you'd say, oh it's just sex?