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Have you ever been cheated on?Originally Posted by wawaweewa
Suit yourself. You're gonna miss out on a lot of good dudes ( no mo) and end up getting with some simp who'll do you dirty in another way. Everybody's got their *@@* side.Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey
Originally Posted by wawaweewa
Scenario:
Say you can see the future. You get with a guy you really like and for 1 or 2 or 3 years you have the greatest time of your life. Then he cheats.
Knowing this, would you even start the relationship (say your memory of the future gets wiped at this point) ?
Nope.
If I get to knowing a guy and I think at first there is potential in a relationship...I ask him, did you cheat before in a serious relationship? If he admits and says yes, tt's done. I know not to get with that person. I know that once a cheater is not always a cheater, but most cheaters are serial cheaters. If you showed weakness in moral character like that in the past in a relationship and you cheated, you are more likely to do it again. Not taking that chance.
Part of this stems from individuals pride/ ego. "How can you cheat on me?". "I'm better than that". Getting cheated on is a serious blow to the ego if you choose to define cheating in that way.