Black Men- Its 2009, why do lightskinned girls get so much preference?

[mytmouse76]

Originally Posted by airmissionretro

What responsibilities do black men have to our race as far as this post is concerned?

At the end of the day....

Standards > preferences

What do standards have to do with this?

 

[produccionfrescos]

 

[selfmadepimp]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Originally Posted by selfmadepimp

i hate this stuff. if you like light skin girls more power to ya, if you like dark skin girls more power to ya. but to say one is better looking based on the color of the skin is silly. if you take am ugly dark skin girl and make her light she is still an ugly girl no matter the color of her skin. everyone has something they like no problem with that but to bash a group as a whole is hurtful. i hate that "oh youre pretty for a darkskin girl" grinds my gears.

You can't have a discussion on NT w/o coming at black girls...

thats what it seems like at times :/

 

[superantigen]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by Uptempo kid

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Light skin gets preference because it is closer to white skin, which is a status symbol.

thats not really da case either...its more of gettin da thickness of black women..with da refineness, REAL long/good hair, and cute face of a light skinned chick.

you might be the biggest fool I ever read a post from. How the hell a darkskinned woman can't have real long hair, or a pretty face, or look "refined"?

most dont...

ya act like i harlem isn't right around da corner from da heightz...da difference is night and day.

yea and Harlem represents all the dark skin women in the world

as a major historic african american neighborhood...its pretty much a good representation of whats out there....

i heard from my southern friend though that Atlanta had higher quality black women....i can see that seeing as though mostly all da black pornstars come from ATL

Where does one even begin with you...i mean really, you're such a silly little boy...really...

You pretty much just correlated and relegated "higher quality black women" to porn actresses...+%$ is wrong with you...

Real talk, whatever Mod/Admin that unbanned you, needs to be put on administrative leave...

...

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

^that means that YOU just can't get the dome don't generalize them like that.

never said I couldn't get it, juss that a dark skinned girl doesn't see herself pretty compared to a light skinned girl, if u see she is pretty or sexy n she doesn't u juss wasting your time with her.

oh... well low self-esteem perpetuated by the urban medias portrayal lightskinned women being the best of the best FTL

that's the problem, n its foolish, cause all that urban media is the headache u have to deal with when u with a dark skinned girl self esteem. yo I lovemy dark skinned girls still over the red ones but anyone who wanna gimmie, I'm killin it.

blurry pics=moblie phone
see the red girl, too much attitude cause she feel she too nice, the rest dont feel they r pretty but I do, if I didn't I wouldn't kill them

 

[milestailsprowe]

I was thinking about making a thread like this but all my threads are Fail

Seriously If you close your eyes its all the same excepte for Tightness.

Your Ugly or Cute no matter what your skin color is and if NTers dont like Dark ones and More for the rest of US

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Originally Posted by cycopth

any girl that wanna gimmie I'm takin it. but for real dark skinned girls juss cry bout foolishness to much. no matter who they r with they not happy, n that is not attractive.

What foolishness do they cry about? I'm curious

singing on the mic

What the hell are you talking about? Actually no don't explain, you will probably only make youself sounder dumber then you already do.

yeah ehhh?.............

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by Uptempo kid

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Light skin gets preference because it is closer to white skin, which is a status symbol.

thats not really da case either...its more of gettin da thickness of black women..with da refineness, REAL long/good hair, and cute face of a light skinned chick.

you might be the biggest fool I ever read a post from. How the hell a darkskinned woman can't have real long hair, or a pretty face, or look "refined"?

most dont...

ya act like i harlem isn't right around da corner from da heightz...da difference is night and day.

yea and Harlem represents all the dark skin women in the world

as a major historic african american neighborhood...its pretty much a good representation of whats out there....

i heard from my southern friend though that Atlanta had higher quality black women....i can see that seeing as though mostly all da black pornstars come from ATL

Dude...

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by SuperAntigen

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by Uptempo kid

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Light skin gets preference because it is closer to white skin, which is a status symbol.

thats not really da case either...its more of gettin da thickness of black women..with da refineness, REAL long/good hair, and cute face of a light skinned chick.

you might be the biggest fool I ever read a post from. How the hell a darkskinned woman can't have real long hair, or a pretty face, or look "refined"?

most dont...

ya act like i harlem isn't right around da corner from da heightz...da difference is night and day.

yea and Harlem represents all the dark skin women in the world

as a major historic african american neighborhood...its pretty much a good representation of whats out there....

i heard from my southern friend though that Atlanta had higher quality black women....i can see that seeing as though mostly all da black pornstars come from ATL

Where does one even begin with you...i mean really, you're such a silly little boy...really...

You pretty much just correlated and relegated "higher quality black women" to porn actresses...+%$ is wrong with you...

...

its not my fault da sexi black women of atlanta just end up doing pornoz, stripp, or become video vixens.....*shrugs*

i mean shoot let's not get it twisted...

this my babi right here....ahh oops... actually she don't count...she light skinned...

 

[mdotte]

Yellow and Red Bones just look better than Dark Skinned girls....and Dark skin girls just have bad attitudes like its my fault she dark skinned....smh

 

[ramzs8906]

GIVE ME CHOCOLATE OVER YELLOW/ RED BONES ANY DAY!

And I'm dark skin if that matters...

 

[selfmadepimp]

what do you guys think is dark skin? im feeling like im thinking of something diff. then most of you.

 

[lifelessons]

ninjahood you're a mexican and darker then most african americans on this site smh...and then got the nerve to diss dark skin females?

that'slaughable and most females wouldn't want a bum like you with that closet space !!# room....you like 20 somethin messin with 16/17 yr old hoodrats...bum

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

^that means that YOU just can't get the dome don't generalize them like that.

never said I couldn't get it, juss that a dark skinned girl doesn't see herself pretty compared to a light skinned girl, if u see she is pretty or sexy n she doesn't u juss wasting your time with her.

oh... well low self-esteem perpetuated by the urban medias portrayal lightskinned women being the best of the best FTL

that's the problem, n its foolish, cause all that urban media is the headache u have to deal with when u with a dark skinned girl self esteem. yo I love my dark skinned girls still over the red ones but anyone who wanna gimmie, I'm killin it.

blurry pics=moblie phone
see the red girl, too much attitude cause she feel she too nice, the rest dont feel they r pretty but I do, if I didn't I wouldn't kill them

What nationality are they?

 

[produccionfrescos]

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

ninjahood you're a mexican and darker then most african americans on this site smh...and then got the nerve to diss dark skin females?

that's laughable and most females wouldn't want a bum like you with that closet space !!# room....you like 20 somethin messin with 16/17 yr old hoodrats...bum

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

ninjahood you're a mexican

 

[1cy s0ul]

Originally Posted by ProduccionFrescos

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

ninjahood you're a mexican and darker then most african americans on this site smh...and then got the nerve to diss dark skin females?

that's laughable and most females wouldn't want a bum like you with that closet space !!# room....you like 20 somethin messin with 16/17 yr old hoodrats...bum

 

[miketysonthekiller]

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

ninjahood you're a mexican

He ain't mexican.

 

[ninjahood]

darker then most african americans on this site smh

and just for da record da dominican hood rats around my way is top notch

but ya already know that...

highbridge pool just opened...i'll see ya all there

 

[airmissionretro]

You see it dosent matter what you prefer in someone, that is usualy a physical trait----but what does matter is holding a person accountable for how theyconduct themselves and treat you in the end.

This goes along all colors of the racial/ethnic spectrum.

Well for me it does...

Preferences is LAST in my book, I value having standards and holding women accountable on certain measurable intangible qualities that makes up theirpersonality more than choices of physical features.

Like MLK said its not the color of your skin, but the content of your character.

You can prefer a certain type of color of a person from a single race all you want but at the end of the day, if that person don't treat you a certain waythat you want to be treated or if neither of you don't have any standards, what good does it comes out of the situation?---preferences becomes irrevelant.

Physical attraction goes such a short distance man...

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by cycopth

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

^that means that YOU just can't get the dome don't generalize them like that.

never said I couldn't get it, juss that a dark skinned girl doesn't see herself pretty compared to a light skinned girl, if u see she is pretty or sexy n she doesn't u juss wasting your time with her.

oh... well low self-esteem perpetuated by the urban medias portrayal lightskinned women being the best of the best FTL

that's the problem, n its foolish, cause all that urban media is the headache u have to deal with when u with a dark skinned girl self esteem. yo I love my dark skinned girls still over the red ones but anyone who wanna gimmie, I'm killin it.

blurry pics=moblie phone
see the red girl, too much attitude cause she feel she too nice, the rest dont feel they r pretty but I do, if I didn't I wouldn't kill them

What nationality are they?

one closer to you (my baby) jamaican yo, I believe the other is from antigua (sp?)

 

[id walk a mile for a camel]

Originally Posted by airmissionretro

You see it dosent matter what you prefer in someone, that is usualy a physical trait----but what does matter is holding a person accountable for how they conduct themselves and treat you in the end.

This goes along all colors of the racial/ethnic spectrum.

Well for me it does...

Preferences is LAST in my book, I value having standards and holding women accountable on certain measurable intangible qualities that makes up their personality more than choices of physical features.

Like MLK said its not the color of your skin, but the content of your character.

You can prefer a certain type of color of a person from a single race all you want but at the end of the day, if that person don't treat you a certain way that you want to be treated or if neither of you don't have any standards, what good does it comes out of the situation?---preferences becomes irrevelant.

Physical attraction goes such a short distance man...

stop it.

it might not be what makes a relationship last, but sexual attraction is what first connects to members of the opposite sex.

we are animals who act on instinct. i don't care if a chick is mother theresa, if she looks like her i'm not interested.

 

[vprbullet]

I'm a dark skinned brother who loves a dark skinned sister. Light skinned girls are cute yea, but so are dark skinned women. The light skinned girls themedia expose to you are pretty, but not all of them are. I've seen some goat looking Halle Berry colored girls out there...

 

[raptors29]

Doesn't matter to me. If she can get it, she can get it. I guess cuz I'm dark myself.

 

[myhandstank]

I see why a lot of NT has girl problems

Y'all just look at how good a girl looks but not her personality

####%$% be fine as hell with a horrible attitude