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a lot of these stupid posts really stem from how much u dudes care about how other dudes perceive you.
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a lot of these stupid posts really stem from how much u dudes care about how other dudes perceive you.
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there has to be balance with everything. i think being naturally laid back has always worked for me. no girl likes a push over or a dude that always compliments her. there is no challenge in knowing that u are head over heels for her,she will go on to the next challenge
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there has to be balance with everything. i think being naturally laid back has always worked for me. no girl likes a push over or a dude that always compliments her. there is no challenge in knowing that u are head over heels for her,she will go on to the next challenge
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1. Simping is ok if the chick is worth it.
2. Most chicks aren't worth it.
3. If you're going to simp, don't overdo it, and come off looking like a lame.
2. Most chicks aren't worth it.
3. If you're going to simp, don't overdo it, and come off looking like a lame.
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1. Simping is ok if the chick is worth it.
2. Most chicks aren't worth it.
3. If you're going to simp, don't overdo it, and come off looking like a lame.
2. Most chicks aren't worth it.
3. If you're going to simp, don't overdo it, and come off looking like a lame.
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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
we like you until you become too clingy, then when you don't show us any attention, we want you to be clingy. get used to it
thytkerjobs wrote:
No but seriously, though....had to come back in here and say...moderation is key. Every girl likes the sweet stuff from time to time, but nothing is worse than a clingy dude. Makes you look desperate, and we don't feel special if we feel like you're desperate to have a girl. Make her think you're wanted by many and you chose her, even if that's not the case.
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
we like you until you become too clingy, then when you don't show us any attention, we want you to be clingy. get used to it
thytkerjobs wrote:
No but seriously, though....had to come back in here and say...moderation is key. Every girl likes the sweet stuff from time to time, but nothing is worse than a clingy dude. Makes you look desperate, and we don't feel special if we feel like you're desperate to have a girl. Make her think you're wanted by many and you chose her, even if that's not the case.
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
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Originally Posted by Boi
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
once again, who are you?? why do you follow me around threads, use my government name, etc. get off my ##%!
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Originally Posted by Boi
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
once again, who are you?? why do you follow me around threads, use my government name, etc. get off my ##%!
U
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bingo.
U
User 37837
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bingo.
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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
Originally Posted by Boi
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
once again, who are you?? why do you follow me around threads, use my government name, etc. get off my ##%!
dude is on creep mode.
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Originally Posted by thytkerjobs
Originally Posted by Boi
@ actually contributing to a thread.
Who didn't already know this tho?
once again, who are you?? why do you follow me around threads, use my government name, etc. get off my ##%!
dude is on creep mode.
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Ago Boi, I challenge you to a duel.
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Ago Boi, I challenge you to a duel.
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I love how cats like Dirtylicious and such go out of their way to question and shoot down their fellow male-brothers when simping is mentioned
When the truth is, as men we are correct in NOT wanting to simp. The reason for that is because simping is considered to be excessive waste of time, stress, and money with no benefit. Why in the world should we willfully simp in order to satisfy some outdated template for dating that may not suit either party?
Simping involves taking an emotional L, and unlike women, it isn't beneficial for us to take L after L after L in the dating world in order to find what we like. It's not the same. IT IS NOT THE SAME
Simping is leading yourself on, not actively pursuing a realistic romantic goal.
Simping isn't being nice or being courteous. It is wasted action on your behalf that is spent on a woman who does not return the same interest. It is blind hope in the imaginary future scenario of love or sex with the person in front of you. It is NOT doing nice/costly things with a person who genuinely feels the same way and will show it. If she's your girlfriend or wife, a good deed is NOT simping at all, and for you to call it simping just makes it disrespectful to what yall have. Simping is at a much lower level than regular romantic interaction.
When the truth is, as men we are correct in NOT wanting to simp. The reason for that is because simping is considered to be excessive waste of time, stress, and money with no benefit. Why in the world should we willfully simp in order to satisfy some outdated template for dating that may not suit either party?
Simping involves taking an emotional L, and unlike women, it isn't beneficial for us to take L after L after L in the dating world in order to find what we like. It's not the same. IT IS NOT THE SAME
Simping isn't being nice or being courteous. It is wasted action on your behalf that is spent on a woman who does not return the same interest. It is blind hope in the imaginary future scenario of love or sex with the person in front of you. It is NOT doing nice/costly things with a person who genuinely feels the same way and will show it. If she's your girlfriend or wife, a good deed is NOT simping at all, and for you to call it simping just makes it disrespectful to what yall have. Simping is at a much lower level than regular romantic interaction.
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Simping is a part of every man's life. At one point we all go through it, get burned, get heart broken, whatever, but the difference between the men and the children is how you learn from it and move on. Yes, a while back I got caught up, simped, and today I just say I charged it to the game, a lot more experience now.
I don't think opening doors, pulling chairs out, or saying "you look beautiful today" is simping. I think any act where you sacrifice your dignity or self worth for another human being is simping. It can be in the form of money, time, or morals, whatever it may be, if you have to change who you truly are for another person or act a certain way outside of your normal character in any circumstance where it isn't at least mutually beneficial to you, you are simping/being taken advantage of.
Relationships/dating can be complex but the root of it is pretty much give and take and balancing between the two. In the end your own self interest should be at the forefront or at least be in line with hers, if then, no matter what, you will be OK.
I don't think opening doors, pulling chairs out, or saying "you look beautiful today" is simping. I think any act where you sacrifice your dignity or self worth for another human being is simping. It can be in the form of money, time, or morals, whatever it may be, if you have to change who you truly are for another person or act a certain way outside of your normal character in any circumstance where it isn't at least mutually beneficial to you, you are simping/being taken advantage of.
Relationships/dating can be complex but the root of it is pretty much give and take and balancing between the two. In the end your own self interest should be at the forefront or at least be in line with hers, if then, no matter what, you will be OK.
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Simping is a part of every man's life. At one point we all go through it, get burned, get heart broken, whatever, but the difference between the men and the children is how you learn from it and move on. Yes, a while back I got caught up, simped, and today I just say I charged it to the game, a lot more experience now.
I don't think opening doors, pulling chairs out, or saying "you look beautiful today" is simping. I think any act where you sacrifice your dignity or self worth for another human being is simping. It can be in the form of money, time, or morals, whatever it may be, if you have to change who you truly are for another person or act a certain way outside of your normal character in any circumstance where it isn't at least mutually beneficial to you, you are simping/being taken advantage of.
Relationships/dating can be complex but the root of it is pretty much give and take and balancing between the two. In the end your own self interest should be at the forefront or at least be in line with hers, if then, no matter what, you will be OK.
I don't think opening doors, pulling chairs out, or saying "you look beautiful today" is simping. I think any act where you sacrifice your dignity or self worth for another human being is simping. It can be in the form of money, time, or morals, whatever it may be, if you have to change who you truly are for another person or act a certain way outside of your normal character in any circumstance where it isn't at least mutually beneficial to you, you are simping/being taken advantage of.
Relationships/dating can be complex but the root of it is pretty much give and take and balancing between the two. In the end your own self interest should be at the forefront or at least be in line with hers, if then, no matter what, you will be OK.
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I love how cats like Dirtylicious and such go out of their way to question and shoot down their fellow male-brothers when simping is mentioned
When the truth is, as men we are correct in NOT wanting to simp. The reason for that is because simping is considered to be excessive waste of time, stress, and money with no benefit. Why in the world should we willfully simp in order to satisfy some outdated template for dating that may not suit either party?
Simping involves taking an emotional L, and unlike women, it isn't beneficial for us to take L after L after L in the dating world in order to find what we like. It's not the same. IT IS NOT THE SAME
Simping is leading yourself on, not actively pursuing a realistic romantic goal.
Simping isn't being nice or being courteous. It is wasted action on your behalf that is spent on a woman who does not return the same interest. It is blind hope in the imaginary future scenario of love or sex with the person in front of you. It is NOT doing nice/costly things with a person who genuinely feels the same way and will show it. If she's your girlfriend or wife, a good deed is NOT simping at all, and for you to call it simping just makes it disrespectful to what yall have. Simping is at a much lower level than regular romantic interaction.
When the truth is, as men we are correct in NOT wanting to simp. The reason for that is because simping is considered to be excessive waste of time, stress, and money with no benefit. Why in the world should we willfully simp in order to satisfy some outdated template for dating that may not suit either party?
Simping involves taking an emotional L, and unlike women, it isn't beneficial for us to take L after L after L in the dating world in order to find what we like. It's not the same. IT IS NOT THE SAME
Simping isn't being nice or being courteous. It is wasted action on your behalf that is spent on a woman who does not return the same interest. It is blind hope in the imaginary future scenario of love or sex with the person in front of you. It is NOT doing nice/costly things with a person who genuinely feels the same way and will show it. If she's your girlfriend or wife, a good deed is NOT simping at all, and for you to call it simping just makes it disrespectful to what yall have. Simping is at a much lower level than regular romantic interaction.
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Sometimes its like these females don't even deserve us being nice to them or simping as yall call it if there mindset is "he's being nice to me, its a turnoff"
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Sometimes its like these females don't even deserve us being nice to them or simping as yall call it if there mindset is "he's being nice to me, its a turnoff"
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Sometimes its like these females don't even deserve us being nice to them or simping as yall call it if there mindset is "he's being nice to me, its a turnoff"
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