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Think about it for a second. This question really pertains to people who are in the real world: out of college, working a job, probably away from home.
I'm not asking how to pick up a chick. That's the easy part. Rather, how do you manage the relationship before it's really a relationship?
I ask this question about women you never met before you got their number, you had never heard of them, and you have no mutual friends. A completely randomgirl. It seems like so often when you're younger things get initiated through mutual friends or more often, people you've been friends with, had classwith, etc.
Basically you have no way of knowing what this girl's real feelings are, what she wants, what she thinks you want, and all that other stuff.
So for those who know, share some advice. Because I've come to realize that I don't have a single friend who knows how to do this.
I'm not asking how to pick up a chick. That's the easy part. Rather, how do you manage the relationship before it's really a relationship?
I ask this question about women you never met before you got their number, you had never heard of them, and you have no mutual friends. A completely randomgirl. It seems like so often when you're younger things get initiated through mutual friends or more often, people you've been friends with, had classwith, etc.
Basically you have no way of knowing what this girl's real feelings are, what she wants, what she thinks you want, and all that other stuff.
So for those who know, share some advice. Because I've come to realize that I don't have a single friend who knows how to do this.