How important is looks really?

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I see cats talking about they'd wife a chick bc she's fine, but that doesn't really mean anything outside of sexual stimulation.

I know my type and I'm picky but if it's a chick that I vibe with, I may be a little lenient on looks. I was in a similar situation a few years back but she just didn't do it for me looks wise. We messed around for like a year, were official for a few weeks but I had to cut it off because I just wasn't feeling her. We got along great and she looked out a lot but I just wasn't feeling her.
 
Not important.

All these females my age and older are out here settling. Even the fine ones. If they not chasing that life please believe they will lower their standards in the looks department for a man that can provide for his family and is loyal.

On the other side, it matters since I'm not looking to settle down or anything long term but I can make exceptions for specialists even if they're a 5 in the face.
 
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Depends how you define things, what is beautiful to you? Do you believe there’s a difference between someone beautiful and someone who is fine? I do, but it’s all subjective.
 
It's one thing to fall in "love" with someone and for whatever reason they become less attractive over time because you've already established a deeper bond with them.

But straight out the gate you're not attracted to them? I don't see how that works or why you would want to do that to yourself.
 
Depends on your personality. I'm an INFP on the Myers-Briggs test. I need someone I can talk to about metaphysics while we drink rooibos tea. Your typical alpha dog who is obsessed with his career might live happily with a trophy wife. He need nothing more. I would never partner up with a pretty woman, who might even be out of my league, if we cannot vibe on a metaconscious level.
 
OP you take the cats in here that say they would drink ____ bath water seriously when they say they would "wife" strictly off looks?
 
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