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[gabbyflo]

Originally Posted by paegk

I've been with my girl for 12 years.  We got engaged 9 years ago and we've been living together for about 10 years.  If we get married that's cool but if we broke up it's nothing, on to the next.

Wow. There's absolutely no way in hell...

I noticed a lot of people are actually encouraging living together before marriage. Do you all feel it's a good thing to help truly determine the strength of a relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we've discussed the "what if's" as far as moving in together, but I've just always been wary of the idea.

 

[patrick bateman]

Originally Posted by gabbyflo

Originally Posted by paegk

I've been with my girl for 12 years.  We got engaged 9 years ago and we've been living together for about 10 years.  If we get married that's cool but if we broke up it's nothing, on to the next.

Wow. There's absolutely no way in hell...

I noticed a lot of people are actually encouraging living together before marriage. Do you all feel it's a good thing to help truly determine the strength of a relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we've discussed the "what if's" as far as moving in together, but I've just always been wary of the idea.

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'd love to move in with you. I'd cook, clean and have your slippers ready for you when you come home.[/color]

 

[patrick bateman]

Originally Posted by gabbyflo

Originally Posted by paegk

I've been with my girl for 12 years.  We got engaged 9 years ago and we've been living together for about 10 years.  If we get married that's cool but if we broke up it's nothing, on to the next.

Wow. There's absolutely no way in hell...

I noticed a lot of people are actually encouraging living together before marriage. Do you all feel it's a good thing to help truly determine the strength of a relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we've discussed the "what if's" as far as moving in together, but I've just always been wary of the idea.

[color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I'd love to move in with you. I'd cook, clean and have your slippers ready for you when you come home.[/color]

 

[ag 47]

Originally Posted by bijald0331

Originally Posted by Al Audi

Originally Posted by paegk

I've been with my girl for 12 years.  We got engaged 9 years ago and we've been living together for about 10 years.  If we get married that's cool but if we broke up it's nothing, on to the next.

This is just not the way to live. 

 How do you live with someone for 10 years and feel so little for her? 

Scary how cold hearted the world can be. Jesus H.

 

[ag 47]

Originally Posted by bijald0331

Originally Posted by Al Audi

Originally Posted by paegk

I've been with my girl for 12 years.  We got engaged 9 years ago and we've been living together for about 10 years.  If we get married that's cool but if we broke up it's nothing, on to the next.

This is just not the way to live. 

 How do you live with someone for 10 years and feel so little for her? 

Scary how cold hearted the world can be. Jesus H.