NT black men come in sitdown and persuade me

[nikekidwonder]

I think the reason black chicks get a bad rep is simply because of the "hoodrats" there are more ugly and loud %!+#%$% black girls than there are beautiful and respectful ones but i think because of the mass number of hoodrats that are out there most dudes unfortunately ended up running into them and then thinking every black girl is like that but that's not the case

A lot of black guys are attracted to white girls because white girls are "know" to be soft and sweet in terms of personality and that type of personality is very attractive to black men and men in general

But people not just black men need to understand that EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT just because the girls you meet are not attractive or is a hoorat don't mean every black woman in the whole world is the same because that's not true period

MY Advice

Get the stereotypes out your head and give black girls a chance ,stop assuming every black girl you meet is ghetto and actually talk to them and get to know them if there are no black girls your interested in your area GO SOME WERE ELSE to find some if you so please to do so but stop this foolish idea that black girls are not attractive and ghetto and loud and aggressive because the reality is NOT every black girl is like that just like not every black man is ghetto or a thug

 

[nikekidwonder]

I think the reason black chicks get a bad rep is simply because of the "hoodrats" there are more ugly and loud %!+#%$% black girls than there are beautiful and respectful ones but i think because of the mass number of hoodrats that are out there most dudes unfortunately ended up running into them and then thinking every black girl is like that but that's not the case

A lot of black guys are attracted to white girls because white girls are "know" to be soft and sweet in terms of personality and that type of personality is very attractive to black men and men in general

But people not just black men need to understand that EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT just because the girls you meet are not attractive or is a hoorat don't mean every black woman in the whole world is the same because that's not true period

MY Advice

Get the stereotypes out your head and give black girls a chance ,stop assuming every black girl you meet is ghetto and actually talk to them and get to know them if there are no black girls your interested in your area GO SOME WERE ELSE to find some if you so please to do so but stop this foolish idea that black girls are not attractive and ghetto and loud and aggressive because the reality is NOT every black girl is like that just like not every black man is ghetto or a thug

 

[kilojules64]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

  

All I meant by that was that it's wild to me that race has this type of prevalence in other peoples' minds whereas to me it's kind of just there. I guess it's because I was raised in such an interracial household? Maybe because I look very racially ambiguous? I really don't know what it is, it's just an interesting thing that I've noticed.

 

[kilojules64]

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

  

All I meant by that was that it's wild to me that race has this type of prevalence in other peoples' minds whereas to me it's kind of just there. I guess it's because I was raised in such an interracial household? Maybe because I look very racially ambiguous? I really don't know what it is, it's just an interesting thing that I've noticed.

 

[dynamics82]

smh straight sellout

 

[dynamics82]

smh straight sellout

 

[dt43]

Originally Posted by Nat Turner

Originally Posted by SaintVitus07

If you think most white chicks are "sweet" and "square" (whatever that really means in this context) then 1) you haven't been around enough white chicks or 2) you haven't been in a serious relationship with a chick who isn't black.

There it is!

I'd like for him to date an Italian from Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, or an Irish chick from Staten Island....see what he thinks then!

no one is saying all white women are perfect. well if he was, then he needs to come off that.

but the truth is that the combative and ignorant attitude is more popular among black females because it's perpetuated in the culture and reinforced through the media.. so on top of the issues the average women typically have, men dating black women have to deal with that *+%% as well. its not a good look..

 

[dt43]

Originally Posted by Nat Turner

Originally Posted by SaintVitus07

If you think most white chicks are "sweet" and "square" (whatever that really means in this context) then 1) you haven't been around enough white chicks or 2) you haven't been in a serious relationship with a chick who isn't black.

There it is!

I'd like for him to date an Italian from Bensonhurst, Brooklyn, or an Irish chick from Staten Island....see what he thinks then!

no one is saying all white women are perfect. well if he was, then he needs to come off that.

but the truth is that the combative and ignorant attitude is more popular among black females because it's perpetuated in the culture and reinforced through the media.. so on top of the issues the average women typically have, men dating black women have to deal with that *+%% as well. its not a good look..

 

[kix4kix]

 

[kix4kix]

 

[proper english]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

You should stop putting women in categories and look at them as a whole. So you wouldn't have to say you lost faith in one particular race of women.

Pursue them all. W/e the color you end up with and truly love is the one. In between time just keep smashing. Maybe you should move out of your current environment and see if you feel the same way about black women.

Go to Africa %*@@#!

word.

 

[proper english]

Originally Posted by Master Zik

You should stop putting women in categories and look at them as a whole. So you wouldn't have to say you lost faith in one particular race of women.

Pursue them all. W/e the color you end up with and truly love is the one. In between time just keep smashing. Maybe you should move out of your current environment and see if you feel the same way about black women.

Go to Africa %*@@#!

word.

 

[cj863]

maybe black women just stray away from you OP and for good reason considering your comments towards them. It saddens me to see such strong self hate like this
frequently... with that said, my suggestion is to just leave black women alone. I'm sure there won't be a national uprising because you decided not to date them.

 

[cj863]

maybe black women just stray away from you OP and for good reason considering your comments towards them. It saddens me to see such strong self hate like this
frequently... with that said, my suggestion is to just leave black women alone. I'm sure there won't be a national uprising because you decided not to date them.

 

[dt43]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

Normal people? The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

NT is a valid place to talk about things that cannot be talked about in a "real-life" setting.

Thereason individuals post on subjects as these, is it's kinda hard todiscuss the real issue at hand-without emotion getting out of hand.Personally I find it hard to discuss on topics such as these- becausehonestly alot of my friends have girlfriends that are black, and at thevery least have sisters who share the same traits that irk individualslike myself and OP. 


  

I didn't assume jules was black if u thought i did.

I'mnot referring to this topic specifically. The sentiments brought up inthis thread are very real. In my own experience there are othersituations on NT were race is brought up  that would never be in reallife.

Maybe its the anonymity?
  

it's not the anonymity.. its more likely the fact that your "normal" life is not other people's "normal" life.

i'll be hanging with one group of friends and race won't even come up.but with other friends, they've grown up to be so race conscious thatour conversations always have a racial tinge. no one group of friendsis better than the other, they just come from different environmentsand see life differently.

so consider that not everyone lives in your "race-free" environment,some people are just naturally conditioned to inject race into thingsbecause thats what they know.

 

[dt43]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

Normal people? The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

NT is a valid place to talk about things that cannot be talked about in a "real-life" setting.

Thereason individuals post on subjects as these, is it's kinda hard todiscuss the real issue at hand-without emotion getting out of hand.Personally I find it hard to discuss on topics such as these- becausehonestly alot of my friends have girlfriends that are black, and at thevery least have sisters who share the same traits that irk individualslike myself and OP. 


  

I didn't assume jules was black if u thought i did.

I'mnot referring to this topic specifically. The sentiments brought up inthis thread are very real. In my own experience there are othersituations on NT were race is brought up  that would never be in reallife.

Maybe its the anonymity?
  

it's not the anonymity.. its more likely the fact that your "normal" life is not other people's "normal" life.

i'll be hanging with one group of friends and race won't even come up.but with other friends, they've grown up to be so race conscious thatour conversations always have a racial tinge. no one group of friendsis better than the other, they just come from different environmentsand see life differently.

so consider that not everyone lives in your "race-free" environment,some people are just naturally conditioned to inject race into thingsbecause thats what they know.

 

[wisepharoah]

Never once did I refer to black woman as hood rats or ghetto. I'm 25 years old and I've dealt with black women from every walk in life about from fatherless, rich, dads a professional athlete, famous, pornstar, stripper, scientist, new age guru, rapper,singer, nerd, cheerleader, %+!@%%% you name it I've probably dated or associated with it. I am not saying that all black women are trash by any means. I'm simply saying that the mental makeup of alot black woman and black men no matter their background is always seeded in some form of negativity or dysfunction not ALL but alot. Maybe because I'm a city boy I have experienced a lot of everything but in my walks but it seems the subliminal identification of being treated as a second rate citizen and being a product of alvery along with dysfunctional male and female archetypes has caused a massive rift in the psyche of the black woman. Now in the modern age the images and sounds of the media propel self hatred and materialism into the extreme with a severe lack of self love and acknowledgement. The soul is filtered trash and the personality is filthy. The gentle nature of a woman is vacant in a lot of our women. They wanna be loved and cherished but they have no clue what love is. Love is taught to be tangible and it isn't.

 

[wisepharoah]

Never once did I refer to black woman as hood rats or ghetto. I'm 25 years old and I've dealt with black women from every walk in life about from fatherless, rich, dads a professional athlete, famous, pornstar, stripper, scientist, new age guru, rapper,singer, nerd, cheerleader, %+!@%%% you name it I've probably dated or associated with it. I am not saying that all black women are trash by any means. I'm simply saying that the mental makeup of alot black woman and black men no matter their background is always seeded in some form of negativity or dysfunction not ALL but alot. Maybe because I'm a city boy I have experienced a lot of everything but in my walks but it seems the subliminal identification of being treated as a second rate citizen and being a product of alvery along with dysfunctional male and female archetypes has caused a massive rift in the psyche of the black woman. Now in the modern age the images and sounds of the media propel self hatred and materialism into the extreme with a severe lack of self love and acknowledgement. The soul is filtered trash and the personality is filthy. The gentle nature of a woman is vacant in a lot of our women. They wanna be loved and cherished but they have no clue what love is. Love is taught to be tangible and it isn't.

 

[wisepharoah]

Never once did I refer to black woman as hood rats or ghetto. I'm 25 years old and I've dealt with black women from every walk in life about from fatherless, rich, dads a professional athlete, famous, pornstar, stripper, scientist, new age guru, rapper,singer, nerd, cheerleader, $%%$$%% you name it I've probably dated or associated with it. I am not saying that all black women are trash by any means. I'm simply saying that the mental makeup of alot black woman and black men no matter their background is always seeded in some form of negativity or dysfunction not ALL but alot. Maybe because I'm a city boy I have experienced a lot of everything but in my walks but it seems the subliminal identification of being treated as a second rate citizen and being a product of alvery along with dysfunctional male and female archetypes has caused a massive rift in the psyche of the black woman. Now in the modern age the images and sounds of the media propel self hatred and materialism into the extreme with a severe lack of self love and acknowledgement. The soul is filtered trash and the personality is filthy. The gentle nature of a woman is vacant in a lot of our women. They wanna be loved and cherished but they have no clue what love is. Love is taught to be tangible and it isn't.

 

[wisepharoah]

Never once did I refer to black woman as hood rats or ghetto. I'm 25 years old and I've dealt with black women from every walk in life about from fatherless, rich, dads a professional athlete, famous, pornstar, stripper, scientist, new age guru, rapper,singer, nerd, cheerleader, $%%$$%% you name it I've probably dated or associated with it. I am not saying that all black women are trash by any means. I'm simply saying that the mental makeup of alot black woman and black men no matter their background is always seeded in some form of negativity or dysfunction not ALL but alot. Maybe because I'm a city boy I have experienced a lot of everything but in my walks but it seems the subliminal identification of being treated as a second rate citizen and being a product of alvery along with dysfunctional male and female archetypes has caused a massive rift in the psyche of the black woman. Now in the modern age the images and sounds of the media propel self hatred and materialism into the extreme with a severe lack of self love and acknowledgement. The soul is filtered trash and the personality is filthy. The gentle nature of a woman is vacant in a lot of our women. They wanna be loved and cherished but they have no clue what love is. Love is taught to be tangible and it isn't.

 

[my swag runz deep]

On behalf of all black women who don't fit your pea-brained stereotype: Shut the f up.

 

[my swag runz deep]

On behalf of all black women who don't fit your pea-brained stereotype: Shut the f up.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by DT43

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

Normal people? The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

NT is a valid place to talk about things that cannot be talked about in a "real-life" setting.

The reason individuals post on subjects as these, is it's kinda hard to discuss the real issue at hand-without emotion getting out of hand. Personally I find it hard to discuss on topics such as these- because honestly alot of my friends have girlfriends that are black, and at the very least have sisters who share the same traits that irk individuals like myself and OP. 


  

I didn't assume jules was black if u thought i did.

I'm not referring to this topic specifically. The sentiments brought up in this thread are very real. In my own experience there are other situations on NT were race is brought up  that would never be in real life.

Maybe its the anonymity?
  

it's not the anonymity.. its more likely the fact that your "normal" life is not other people's "normal" life.

i'll be hanging with one group of friends and race won't even come up. but with other friends, they've grown up to be so race conscious that our conversations always have a racial tinge. no one group of friends is better than the other, they just come from different environments and see life differently.

so consider that not everyone lives in your "race-free" environment, some people are just naturally conditioned to inject race into things because thats what they know.

I grew up in as many diverse environments (Racially and economically) as a human-being possible can. From all white, to all black to mixed....very wealthy to the poor. People have brought up race, just not as much as I've seen it on NT and not in completely unrelated situations. If NT were real life I would have one of these conversations daily, and that simply isn't the case. That's why I brought up anonymity, I guess race is a touchy subject and some may feel uncomfortable bringing it up or simply don't care.

NT is also serves as a constitutive audience for people to vent or voice their opinions or thoughts. I rarely bring up religion in real life unless someone asks. On NT with a click of the mouse anyone can bring it up for those who care to comment.

I guess you're right some people are conditioned to insert racially influences subjectivity into every human-interaction and into making every decision. I was lucky in that the people I surrounded myself with, white and black were not like this.


As far as this thread goes, I think people are misunderstanding what OP is saying to mean he thinks all black women are like that. The type of black women he's referring to are making normal, non-rambunctious, black women look bad.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by DT43

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kix4kix

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by kilojules64

Holy moly, I never even think about race in relation to the guys I meet, NT is like a whole different world or something.

There are so many situations were race is brought up on NT that most normal people do not think about.
  

Normal people? The funniest part is that I am sure Kilojules64 is not black.

NT is a valid place to talk about things that cannot be talked about in a "real-life" setting.

The reason individuals post on subjects as these, is it's kinda hard to discuss the real issue at hand-without emotion getting out of hand. Personally I find it hard to discuss on topics such as these- because honestly alot of my friends have girlfriends that are black, and at the very least have sisters who share the same traits that irk individuals like myself and OP. 


  

I didn't assume jules was black if u thought i did.

I'm not referring to this topic specifically. The sentiments brought up in this thread are very real. In my own experience there are other situations on NT were race is brought up  that would never be in real life.

Maybe its the anonymity?
  

it's not the anonymity.. its more likely the fact that your "normal" life is not other people's "normal" life.

i'll be hanging with one group of friends and race won't even come up. but with other friends, they've grown up to be so race conscious that our conversations always have a racial tinge. no one group of friends is better than the other, they just come from different environments and see life differently.

so consider that not everyone lives in your "race-free" environment, some people are just naturally conditioned to inject race into things because thats what they know.

I grew up in as many diverse environments (Racially and economically) as a human-being possible can. From all white, to all black to mixed....very wealthy to the poor. People have brought up race, just not as much as I've seen it on NT and not in completely unrelated situations. If NT were real life I would have one of these conversations daily, and that simply isn't the case. That's why I brought up anonymity, I guess race is a touchy subject and some may feel uncomfortable bringing it up or simply don't care.

NT is also serves as a constitutive audience for people to vent or voice their opinions or thoughts. I rarely bring up religion in real life unless someone asks. On NT with a click of the mouse anyone can bring it up for those who care to comment.

I guess you're right some people are conditioned to insert racially influences subjectivity into every human-interaction and into making every decision. I was lucky in that the people I surrounded myself with, white and black were not like this.


As far as this thread goes, I think people are misunderstanding what OP is saying to mean he thinks all black women are like that. The type of black women he's referring to are making normal, non-rambunctious, black women look bad.

 

[wisepharoah]

Simply how can our women be complete, whole and nurturing? From birth the lack of masculine energy is absent from her cipher. In this absence her heart broken and malnourished mother is bashing her father or simply not speaking of him. All the music movies and images she has of those she identifies with are refered to treated as and called a ***!# a %%%, %!%%*+% "angry black woman". The massive tear in the psyche and ultimately spirit is unrepairable after a series of men she was emotional attached to broke her heart. These women want love but have no clue what love is. The sweet nature and warmth has disenegrated by the time they are 21. Then when a real man comes around that is capable of loving them the right way he can't because in her subconscious he isn't gonna continue to perpetuate the pain she is addicted to. That's why the chicks love drama and like being victims they are addicted to that !*$!. I'm tired of playing therapist to these females I just want some semi sane !*$!!