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why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
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why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
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Can't let too many in due to some people being sketchy underneath.Originally Posted by mytmouse76
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %#!% i AM NOT talking about with them
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
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Can't let too many in due to some people being sketchy underneath.Originally Posted by mytmouse76
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %#!% i AM NOT talking about with them
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
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Originally Posted by mytmouse76
why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
What do you mean how does that work? LolJust like you saying you stay 99.9% to yourself but have close friends.... Even though you broke it down it's just hard for me to grasp you being to yourself 99% of the time and can maintain a good friendship with those people. Cus what I get from that is that when a friend of yours calls or texts you about going somewhere you'd often turn it down just to chill at home to yourself... But with you that"s prob not the case.I explained why one can be social and have no friends.....people grow apart, others move to other locations, etcSo if I have a friend that's bleeds jealousy and I decide to cut them off that means something is wrong with me? Or that I can't maintain a friendship? Now ask me who would want to maintain a friendship with a jealous individual? You saying I should mess with this person for the sake of saying I have a friend?And also alot of these folks in here that saying they can't see how you can have no friends need to give their definition of a loner, I think we have different definitions.Cus a loner to me is not having no one you can hang around including your family...or someone that hasn't had a friend in a loooooong time.I can't call someone a loner that has stated that they had a fallen out with a close friend 5 months ago now they're just doing their thing.....but if I ask someone when the last time they had a friend and they tell me 6th grade then yeah they could fall into that category.And why can't family be an example of having friends? I hang with fam now more than ever.
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Originally Posted by mytmouse76
why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
What do you mean how does that work? LolJust like you saying you stay 99.9% to yourself but have close friends.... Even though you broke it down it's just hard for me to grasp you being to yourself 99% of the time and can maintain a good friendship with those people. Cus what I get from that is that when a friend of yours calls or texts you about going somewhere you'd often turn it down just to chill at home to yourself... But with you that"s prob not the case.I explained why one can be social and have no friends.....people grow apart, others move to other locations, etcSo if I have a friend that's bleeds jealousy and I decide to cut them off that means something is wrong with me? Or that I can't maintain a friendship? Now ask me who would want to maintain a friendship with a jealous individual? You saying I should mess with this person for the sake of saying I have a friend?And also alot of these folks in here that saying they can't see how you can have no friends need to give their definition of a loner, I think we have different definitions.Cus a loner to me is not having no one you can hang around including your family...or someone that hasn't had a friend in a loooooong time.I can't call someone a loner that has stated that they had a fallen out with a close friend 5 months ago now they're just doing their thing.....but if I ask someone when the last time they had a friend and they tell me 6th grade then yeah they could fall into that category.And why can't family be an example of having friends? I hang with fam now more than ever.
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these introvert threads pop up so often now lol.
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these introvert threads pop up so often now lol.
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I agree with OP. I've got certain friends for certain things like watching UFC, drinking, going to shows, etc. But for the most part, when I'm not going OUT, I fly solo... Travis Bickle status
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I agree with OP. I've got certain friends for certain things like watching UFC, drinking, going to shows, etc. But for the most part, when I'm not going OUT, I fly solo... Travis Bickle status
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Originally Posted by Dmvbatman
for the folks that just are comfortable with going to the movies, playing games, going out by themselves...do you ever get irked when someone asks you "wow, you have NO friends, i love my friends, i don't know what to do without them" what do you usually tell people that does that?
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Originally Posted by Dmvbatman
for the folks that just are comfortable with going to the movies, playing games, going out by themselves...do you ever get irked when someone asks you "wow, you have NO friends, i love my friends, i don't know what to do without them" what do you usually tell people that does that?
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i swear this board is so extra at times...why would you think i mean for you to be friends with someone who is jealous of you or whatever?Originally Posted by Dmvbatman
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
What do you mean how does that work? Lol Just like you saying you stay 99.9% to yourself but have close friends.... Even though you broke it down it's just hard for me to grasp you being to yourself 99% of the time and can maintain a good friendship with those people. Cus what I get from that is that when a friend of yours calls or texts you about going somewhere you'd often turn it down just to chill at home to yourself... But with you that"s prob not the case. I explained why one can be social and have no friends.....people grow apart, others move to other locations, etc So if I have a friend that's bleeds jealousy and I decide to cut them off that means something is wrong with me? Or that I can't maintain a friendship? Now ask me who would want to maintain a friendship with a jealous individual? You saying I should mess with this person for the sake of saying I have a friend? And also alot of these folks in here that saying they can't see how you can have no friends need to give their definition of a loner, I think we have different definitions. Cus a loner to me is not having no one you can hang around including your family...or someone that hasn't had a friend in a loooooong time. I can't call someone a loner that has stated that they had a fallen out with a close friend 5 months ago now they're just doing their thing.....but if I ask someone when the last time they had a friend and they tell me 6th grade then yeah they could fall into that category. And why can't family be an example of having friends? I hang with fam now more than ever.
i already told you why my fam isn't my everything...i'm a girl...most of them are guys...some +!%% i'm not gonna talk to them about...
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i swear this board is so extra at times...why would you think i mean for you to be friends with someone who is jealous of you or whatever?Originally Posted by Dmvbatman
Originally Posted by mytmouse76
why should family be all that matters?
my fam and my friends aren't the same...as close as i am to them i have two brothers and the cousins i see the most are guys...some %%$$ i AM NOT talking about with them
last night instead of going out or even chillin by myself i watched a movie with my cousin and his girl...she's havin his baby right now so i'll probably be back down there a few times this week (i'm so excited) but its still nice to have that time with people who aren't my fam
if someone doesn't have at least 1 or 2 people they are close with IMO its more because they can't maintain those types of relationships for whatever reason rather than they don't want to be anyone's friend...
i too have a large social circle...i get along with most people so i'm cool with a lot of people...if you consider yourself a social person and you don't have any friends how the hell does that work?
like Grimlock said why not let people in if you have stuff in common and enjoy their time? not everyone of course but not even 1-2 people?
What do you mean how does that work? Lol Just like you saying you stay 99.9% to yourself but have close friends.... Even though you broke it down it's just hard for me to grasp you being to yourself 99% of the time and can maintain a good friendship with those people. Cus what I get from that is that when a friend of yours calls or texts you about going somewhere you'd often turn it down just to chill at home to yourself... But with you that"s prob not the case. I explained why one can be social and have no friends.....people grow apart, others move to other locations, etc So if I have a friend that's bleeds jealousy and I decide to cut them off that means something is wrong with me? Or that I can't maintain a friendship? Now ask me who would want to maintain a friendship with a jealous individual? You saying I should mess with this person for the sake of saying I have a friend? And also alot of these folks in here that saying they can't see how you can have no friends need to give their definition of a loner, I think we have different definitions. Cus a loner to me is not having no one you can hang around including your family...or someone that hasn't had a friend in a loooooong time. I can't call someone a loner that has stated that they had a fallen out with a close friend 5 months ago now they're just doing their thing.....but if I ask someone when the last time they had a friend and they tell me 6th grade then yeah they could fall into that category. And why can't family be an example of having friends? I hang with fam now more than ever.
i already told you why my fam isn't my everything...i'm a girl...most of them are guys...some +!%% i'm not gonna talk to them about...
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I spend a lot of time to myself, either working out, basketball, studying, watching TV and other stuff, but I also like to spend time occasionally with friends playing xbox, hooping or eating. I'm cool with lots of people in class, but I save most of the hanging out for the weekend.
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I spend a lot of time to myself, either working out, basketball, studying, watching TV and other stuff, but I also like to spend time occasionally with friends playing xbox, hooping or eating. I'm cool with lots of people in class, but I save most of the hanging out for the weekend.
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i have good friends i hang out with and such, but for some things...i end up going alone.
i go to a lot of concerts/shows together because my close friends aren't into that music too much...not a big deal.
i go to a lot of concerts/shows together because my close friends aren't into that music too much...not a big deal.
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i have good friends i hang out with and such, but for some things...i end up going alone.
i go to a lot of concerts/shows together because my close friends aren't into that music too much...not a big deal.
i go to a lot of concerts/shows together because my close friends aren't into that music too much...not a big deal.