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Not critiquing interracial marriage. I have dated women of all shades and shapes and will continue to do so until someone locks me down. I just think Dyson uses a lot of word salad and cultural bird whistles to seem hyper intelligent and in touch with a complicated issue that is more of a debate than a monologue. Also just like Jordan Peterson he will monetize this issue if he see’s a market it for it with books and speeches.. It’s a style critique not a content one…. Well mostly
With that said I think he is missing the point of successful black women dating men who are not black . I say this as someone who is in that dating pool of high earning black men (in relations to my Race/Gender) and date those women myself . Dark skinned black women are loved and pursued just like light skin women and vice versa based on gender at most economic levels. The real critique is the lack of black men in general at the higher economic level where the majority of black women are who are more likely to participate in interracial dating and having interracial marriages. There isn’t a rejection by either side, just a lack of access and economic compatibility of the majority of Black men with high economic earning black women. Look at Kamala Harris.
The issue (if you think there is one) is more black men don’t have financially viable jobs to realistically approach that group of women unless those women settle for relationships where they will be the breadwinners. Honestly something some will do, some will find black men who can match financially, some will marry men who can match them and don’t focus in race. It’s not color based, it’s financial compatibility.
It’s a issue that he is catering to one side (black women) but it’s a painful issue for everyone involved. Is he looking to profit off of it as a public intellectual? We’ll see if he writes a book about it. That video is a swipe at black men, he’s done it often when intergender issues arise. The black men who critique these relationships are a drop compared to the whole. Just like black women who critique black men who date or marry nonblack women. Most people are too busy to care. However it is a REAL issue in relations to love and relationships among black people that very few people can discuss without being provoked into blaming the other side.
With that said watch what I think is one of the greatest conversations ever recorded.
I didn't think you were critiquing interracial marriage
I thought you were critiquing Peterson vs Dyson
And I think that it is a horrible comparison
I don't rock with everything Dyson says but he is not the equivalent of Peterson. To do that, you have to really be charitable to what Jordan Peterson does
Their rhetorical styles are different and Dyson willingly admits his views represent a more progressive arm within the world of black thought, he admits there is not a consensus around how he sees things within the black community. Peterson presents himself are representing the mainstream view of people that is somehow being suppressed by illiberal forces on the left.
Peterson makes up cultural forces and ideologies to rant against. Dyson doesn't
Say you don't rock with either of them but I think the comparison you bad is plain and simple