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i feel you but i wouldnt even waste my time with someone like that from jump. i dated an italian chic whos family was beyond racist and it was a big deal for her that i meet her parents.we went to dinner and the first thing out of her dads mouth was "'wow ur actually very lightskin for a dominican"" and kinda laughed.i gave him the ice grill look. but after that day it broke the ice for them and we got along great till i cheated on her.Originally Posted by wHo NicE as HiM
Originally Posted by tim teufel
i agree. i understand everyone has a certain prefference but why would prefference ever relate to a certain race? makes no sense to me.i can understand if u like em tall short skinny fat but race tho kinda stupid.Originally Posted by wHo NicE as HiM
i think everyone is entitled to preference, if it's your preference you can't FORCE someone to like you.
but sometimes it's social pressure which makes people not date a certain people, that's what gets me upset
because it just reminds me i'm good enough, but not good enough to out weigh the majority consensus as
it persuades your reason not to like someone.
social pressure to "fit in" ...it's easier to conform than to "stick out"
i've dated and know people who've spent more time defending their relationship than enjoying it.
even though you may not have a bias, they may have friends or family who don't accept you...this makes it hard to be invited places, and just enjoy little things in life.
most people myself include have scarified relationships because the headache is just not worth it if you guys aren't serious enough to defend it.
every girl isn't gonna be your wife, it's just dating...dating is suppose to be fun, not hard work
Originally Posted by pookieman
It's just plain ignorance, if you ask me. I always ask the question "why?" when I hear someone say "I don't like *insert race* guys/girls" And it's always the most dumb answer (i.e - I don't find any of them attractive).
Or on the reverse...when I hear people say...he/she's attractive for a *insert race* person....I feel like straight up slapping them. There is a difference between personal preference and being a moron,
Originally Posted by Wilroc
I dont find the majority of black women I see outside to be attractive. On the internet/celebrities is a different story though.
Originally Posted by Forgot About Jae
Originally Posted by CarlosZilla
too many essays
Reported..
Originally Posted by Supremacy
Originally Posted by Wilroc
I dont find the majority of black women I see outside to be attractive. On the internet/celebrities is a different story though.
So much truth in this. When I go out I rarely see a black woman that would make me look twice, but some of the ones in the cute girl thread
Originally Posted by RJSims
Originally Posted by TeamJordan79
Originally Posted by Freeze
if you'regood lookingcaking, your skin color generally doesn't matter.
This!! I was just about to say the same thing...
Originally Posted by AntonLaVey
Never had this, at least not to my face-they prolly just don't find you attractive
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
^ What they said, if you are getting bread you can literally pull ANYTHING! Pull up to a white girl from Alabama in a Rarri, Lambo, Bent or whatever and she will atleast be cooperative. I was driving a Rarri around Hollywood one time solo and I was getting so much love from white and Asian women it was funny. White dudes were sooooo pissed to see a young black dude past by them in a $260,000 car. They would just look t me with so much malice. Racism is so damn silly and such a joke. I honestly am one of the only people I know that is completely blind to stereotypes and some form of prejudice. I seriously don't care about peoples ethnicity, we are all seriously the same, we just say things differently. Everyone wants the same things.
Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
^ What they said, if you are getting bread you can literally pull ANYTHING! Pull up to a white girl from Alabama in a Rarri, Lambo, Bent or whatever and she will atleast be cooperative. I was driving a Rarri around Hollywood one time solo and I was getting so much love from white and Asian women it was funny. White dudes were sooooo pissed to see a young black dude past by them in a $260,000 car. They would just look t me with so much malice. Racism is so damn silly and such a joke. I honestly am one of the only people I know that is completely blind to stereotypes and some form of prejudice. I seriously don't care about peoples ethnicity, we are all seriously the same, we just say things differently. Everyone wants the same things.
I know what you're saying but then these women aren't after you cause of you, they're after you cause of your money and your car.
I'm sure if I drove around the city in a fire red Ferrari 458 alone I could get a lot of looks and numbers. And I'm just an average guy, nothing special, just someone you'd see everyday without a thought from the outside. But I'd still get alot of looks and chances just cause of my car.
Then, watch me get out of my car, walk over a block and try the same game. You think anyone is going to take a second look at me when I don't have that ride?
A ton of people change the moment they see that you have money. I want to be the guy with the nice cars, but I also want to be the guy who doesn't need the nice cars to charm people.
And to address your second part... older people, especially white people seem to HATE when minorities are doing it. Grown men hating on young Hispanics, Asians, Blacks in Aston Martins and Maseratis just to get back into their '03 Camry
Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH
^ What they said, if you are getting bread you can literally pull ANYTHING! Pull up to a white girl from Alabama in a Rarri, Lambo, Bent or whatever and she will atleast be cooperative. I was driving a Rarri around Hollywood one time solo and I was getting so much love from white and Asian women it was funny. White dudes were sooooo pissed to see a young black dude past by them in a $260,000 car. They would just look t me with so much malice. Racism is so damn silly and such a joke. I honestly am one of the only people I know that is completely blind to stereotypes and some form of prejudice. I seriously don't care about peoples ethnicity, we are all seriously the same, we just say things differently. Everyone wants the same things.
I know what you're saying but then these women aren't after you cause of you, they're after you cause of your money and your car.
I'm sure if I drove around the city in a fire red Ferrari 458 alone I could get a lot of looks and numbers. And I'm just an average guy, nothing special, just someone you'd see everyday without a thought from the outside. But I'd still get alot of looks and chances just cause of my car.
Then, watch me get out of my car, walk over a block and try the same game. You think anyone is going to take a second look at me when I don't have that ride?
A ton of people change the moment they see that you have money. I want to be the guy with the nice cars, but I also want to be the guy who doesn't need the nice cars to charm people.
And to address your second part... older people, especially white people seem to HATE when minorities are doing it. Grown men hating on young Hispanics, Asians, Blacks in Aston Martins and Maseratis just to get back into their '03 Camry
Originally Posted by Nikekidwonder
Originally Posted by scshift
I know what you're saying but then these women aren't after you cause of you, they're after you cause of your money and your car.
I'm sure if I drove around the city in a fire red Ferrari 458 alone I could get a lot of looks and numbers. And I'm just an average guy, nothing special, just someone you'd see everyday without a thought from the outside. But I'd still get alot of looks and chances just cause of my car.
Then, watch me get out of my car, walk over a block and try the same game. You think anyone is going to take a second look at me when I don't have that ride?
A ton of people change the moment they see that you have money. I want to be the guy with the nice cars, but I also want to be the guy who doesn't need the nice cars to charm people.
And to address your second part... older people, especially white people seem to HATE when minorities are doing it. Grown men hating on young Hispanics, Asians, Blacks in Aston Martins and Maseratis just to get back into their '03 Camry
I don't agree
You can say the same thing about attractive people in general
An attractive girl will get a a lot of attention just because she's good looking but if she didn't have the looks no one would look her way
The human mind works like this "the more you have to offer the more your liked/desirable " and this is true for the "don't date/find black guys attractive" discussion the main reason why most girls feel this way is really because society tells them black guys don't have much to offer them