Got deaded by this chick after 2 messages on facebook smh. I want to send her another message but don't want to ruin the slight chance I might stand with her.
Here's some background info on how I got to this position. I saw her at a basketball tournament in July. Found her facebook profile like 2 months later because she liked a photo that had some of my friends tagged in it but none of my friends know her, she must have known some of the other people tagged in the pictures. Anyways so I messaged her asking if she was at the tournament because she looked really familiar. I told her I thought she was interesting and I wasn't able to say wassup at the tournament so i decided to say hi through facebook. She replied saying yeah she was there and that she is curious in how I found her interesting. Then I replied back and probably creeped her out a lil bit because I said she knew a lot about basketball which is impressive for a chick and I threw in a couple jokes and also said that she seemed intriguing. So after that she never replied. I think in large part because I wrote a mini-paragraph in response to her 1 or 2 line message.
I have no mutual friends with her and no real way of finding out her whereabouts. The only reason why I am interested in her in this way is because she was cute and seemed like a good person overall at least how she carried herself. Plus she showed interest at the tournament I felt with her body language.
I'm going to message her again but need some advice on how to get her attention enough to increase my chances of getting some sort of reply and conversation out of it.
It's been like 2 months since I got deaded btw haha I was cleaning out my inbox a few days ago and saw the conversation with her and said that I need to put some effort into this and so I decided to not care so much and to hit her up one last time. The situation can't get worse than it is so I guess I have nothing to lose.
Youre 21, breh?? You got deaded two months ago and you still trying to put in effort? Delete the message and forget about chick.. From the way you started off it sounded like you actually had a conversation with the girl at the tournament, but from my understanding you was looking at her from a distance the whole time? You didn't spit on sight so you awkwardly hit her up on FB, with the "I thought you were interesting.." line.
If you didn't say a word to her that line will never work, just tell her you thought she was cute, point blank and that you were compelled enough to 'creep' on her via FB.. Make it less creepy by figuring out who you two know in common, if anyone at all.
so many lulz 
. Girls have short term memories, if you don't add a girl within a week after you talk to them, don't bother at all, too many white knights/betas/simps out there that can inflate her ego x 100, nom sayin'. Third, whenever a girl shows any doubt, you better step up your game, it helps that you already spit some game when you met her before, which you didn't 
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