Being the guy that smashes chicks in relationships knowingly.

[aaronpayumo]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

you're not really stopping the cycle though by not telling dude

 

[mr jordan04]

Pics of the girl?

 

[mr jordan04]

Pics of the girl?

 

[loveofthegame916]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

Im in L.A and yea L.A. chicks are different than any other chick. L.A. chicks are lost in the sauce.

you aint never lied homes

 

[loveofthegame916]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

Im in L.A and yea L.A. chicks are different than any other chick. L.A. chicks are lost in the sauce.

you aint never lied homes

 

[rawse]

I mean, if you ain't gonna smash.. the next man will, right?

 

[flahustler1024]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

You did right by not saying anything to the broad ole man. Even if you smashed, what good would it do you (or the bf) to say something about it?

 

[flahustler1024]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

You did right by not saying anything to the broad ole man. Even if you smashed, what good would it do you (or the bf) to say something about it?

 

[rawse]

I mean, if you ain't gonna smash.. the next man will, right?

 

[retro23j]

Originally Posted by General Johnson

I even had this one braod contact me years after we had been together. She found me on the internet, was married with kids talking bout "I think about you all the time/I'm not happy."

This girl I used to date is doing that now. She'll message me to see how Im doing every now and then and then instantly get in her feelings about how her marriage is horrible, how often she wonders what if about me, asks how I felt about her and asks if she were to divorce would there be a chance for us.

Every time I have to explain to her that she's married NOW and I can't just go expressing feelings(that I don't even have anymore) to a married woman all willy nilly. I won't be that guy

 

[retro23j]

Originally Posted by General Johnson

I even had this one braod contact me years after we had been together. She found me on the internet, was married with kids talking bout "I think about you all the time/I'm not happy."

This girl I used to date is doing that now. She'll message me to see how Im doing every now and then and then instantly get in her feelings about how her marriage is horrible, how often she wonders what if about me, asks how I felt about her and asks if she were to divorce would there be a chance for us.

Every time I have to explain to her that she's married NOW and I can't just go expressing feelings(that I don't even have anymore) to a married woman all willy nilly. I won't be that guy

 

[wisepharoah]

One thing about females though chief is ther is always "that guy." Whether they had a crush on them in elementary, highschool or from afar girls will let that dude in no matter there situation. I've been that dude and I've seen girls do it all the time. Hell a 50 yr old women I know is dating a guy because she had a crush on him in junior high. Women hold on to things and the emotion of attraction is strong for them.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by tyisny

Originally Posted by ILL LEGAL OPERATION

Was in this situation a couple months ago - shortie had a man and would actually try to talk to me about him - I chopped that convo off every trip just off the thought of, ''How would I feel if my wifey is laid up with the next N' talkin' bout me?

Ended up smashin' though, and it got kinda sticky cuz she caught feelings - don't know why girls can't figure out that the dude you're creepin' out with will never be with you - he knows that if you cheat with him, then you'll cheat on him...

...Common's ''Faithful'' randomly poppin' up off the shuffle mid-stroke is NOT what's poppin'.

Can't front though, being older I realized that creepin' #@%% ain't for me anymore - flirtin' and talkin' is one thing, but smashin' is a totally different ball game - I felt kinda bad after it...

...I could only imagine the dude findin' out, plus I gotta homie doin' life cuz he popped the dude that smashed his girl - ''!$%!'ll get you sidetracked and clapped from close feet'', you can literally lose your life behind that #@%%.

Here's the million dollar kicker though: imagine how many times that #@%% has happened to you and you've been none the wiser, because rest assured...it's happened to you...

...putting your trust in a specific female is one of the most challenging and important decisions a grown man has to make.

This can't be said more, its like shorty your in my bed 3 days after speaking to you why would you think i'm gonna say oh ofcourse she wont do that to me

Because you got sucka @@+ dudes who actually make them their girl.

 

[wisepharoah]

One thing about females though chief is ther is always "that guy." Whether they had a crush on them in elementary, highschool or from afar girls will let that dude in no matter there situation. I've been that dude and I've seen girls do it all the time. Hell a 50 yr old women I know is dating a guy because she had a crush on him in junior high. Women hold on to things and the emotion of attraction is strong for them.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by tyisny

Originally Posted by ILL LEGAL OPERATION

Was in this situation a couple months ago - shortie had a man and would actually try to talk to me about him - I chopped that convo off every trip just off the thought of, ''How would I feel if my wifey is laid up with the next N' talkin' bout me?

Ended up smashin' though, and it got kinda sticky cuz she caught feelings - don't know why girls can't figure out that the dude you're creepin' out with will never be with you - he knows that if you cheat with him, then you'll cheat on him...

...Common's ''Faithful'' randomly poppin' up off the shuffle mid-stroke is NOT what's poppin'.

Can't front though, being older I realized that creepin' #@%% ain't for me anymore - flirtin' and talkin' is one thing, but smashin' is a totally different ball game - I felt kinda bad after it...

...I could only imagine the dude findin' out, plus I gotta homie doin' life cuz he popped the dude that smashed his girl - ''!$%!'ll get you sidetracked and clapped from close feet'', you can literally lose your life behind that #@%%.

Here's the million dollar kicker though: imagine how many times that #@%% has happened to you and you've been none the wiser, because rest assured...it's happened to you...

...putting your trust in a specific female is one of the most challenging and important decisions a grown man has to make.

This can't be said more, its like shorty your in my bed 3 days after speaking to you why would you think i'm gonna say oh ofcourse she wont do that to me

Because you got sucka @@+ dudes who actually make them their girl.

 

[mangudai954]

We pretty much all agree its a crapshot so my question is..what can we do? What do you do? Take that leap of faith and hope it all works out for the best? The odds often don't appear to be in your favor. I use to think it had to do with the kind of girls you found yourself around but lack of loyalty knows no race, creed or social status.

 

[mangudai954]

We pretty much all agree its a crapshot so my question is..what can we do? What do you do? Take that leap of faith and hope it all works out for the best? The odds often don't appear to be in your favor. I use to think it had to do with the kind of girls you found yourself around but lack of loyalty knows no race, creed or social status.

 

[solewoman]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

One thing about females though chief is ther is always "that guy." Whether they had a crush on them in elementary, highschool or from afar girls will let that dude in no matter there situation. I've been that dude and I've seen girls do it all the time. Hell a 50 yr old women I know is dating a guy because she had a crush on him in junior high. Women hold on to things and the emotion of attraction is strong for them.

sad but very true. and the fact that you know this is very interesting.

 

[solewoman]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

One thing about females though chief is ther is always "that guy." Whether they had a crush on them in elementary, highschool or from afar girls will let that dude in no matter there situation. I've been that dude and I've seen girls do it all the time. Hell a 50 yr old women I know is dating a guy because she had a crush on him in junior high. Women hold on to things and the emotion of attraction is strong for them.

sad but very true. and the fact that you know this is very interesting.

 

[general johnson]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by tyisny

Originally Posted by ILL LEGAL OPERATION

Was in this situation a couple months ago - shortie had a man and would actually try to talk to me about him - I chopped that convo off every trip just off the thought of, ''How would I feel if my wifey is laid up with the next N' talkin' bout me?

Ended up smashin' though, and it got kinda sticky cuz she caught feelings - don't know why girls can't figure out that the dude you're creepin' out with will never be with you - he knows that if you cheat with him, then you'll cheat on him...

...Common's ''Faithful'' randomly poppin' up off the shuffle mid-stroke is NOT what's poppin'.

Can't front though, being older I realized that creepin' #@%% ain't for me anymore - flirtin' and talkin' is one thing, but smashin' is a totally different ball game - I felt kinda bad after it...

...I could only imagine the dude findin' out, plus I gotta homie doin' life cuz he popped the dude that smashed his girl - ''!$%!'ll get you sidetracked and clapped from close feet'', you can literally lose your life behind that #@%%.

Here's the million dollar kicker though: imagine how many times that #@%% has happened to you and you've been none the wiser, because rest assured...it's happened to you...

...putting your trust in a specific female is one of the most challenging and important decisions a grown man has to make.

This can't be said more, its like shorty your in my bed 3 days after speaking to you why would you think i'm gonna say oh ofcourse she wont do that to me

Because you got sucka @@+ dudes who actually make them their girl.

Maaaaaaan...

I have a story to tell. But I can't.

 

[general johnson]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by tyisny

Originally Posted by ILL LEGAL OPERATION

Was in this situation a couple months ago - shortie had a man and would actually try to talk to me about him - I chopped that convo off every trip just off the thought of, ''How would I feel if my wifey is laid up with the next N' talkin' bout me?

Ended up smashin' though, and it got kinda sticky cuz she caught feelings - don't know why girls can't figure out that the dude you're creepin' out with will never be with you - he knows that if you cheat with him, then you'll cheat on him...

...Common's ''Faithful'' randomly poppin' up off the shuffle mid-stroke is NOT what's poppin'.

Can't front though, being older I realized that creepin' #@%% ain't for me anymore - flirtin' and talkin' is one thing, but smashin' is a totally different ball game - I felt kinda bad after it...

...I could only imagine the dude findin' out, plus I gotta homie doin' life cuz he popped the dude that smashed his girl - ''!$%!'ll get you sidetracked and clapped from close feet'', you can literally lose your life behind that #@%%.

Here's the million dollar kicker though: imagine how many times that #@%% has happened to you and you've been none the wiser, because rest assured...it's happened to you...

...putting your trust in a specific female is one of the most challenging and important decisions a grown man has to make.

This can't be said more, its like shorty your in my bed 3 days after speaking to you why would you think i'm gonna say oh ofcourse she wont do that to me

Because you got sucka @@+ dudes who actually make them their girl.

Maaaaaaan...

I have a story to tell. But I can't.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

bravo.

just about question how people justifying there actions based on the next man. thats some weak ##%$.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

bravo.

just about question how people justifying there actions based on the next man. thats some weak ##%$.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

bravo.

just about question how people justifying there actions based on the next man. thats some weak !@*$.

 

[smedroc]

Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

I thought about saying something when he was on speaker phone but me and her are good friends. I feel you on calling chicks out though that would be lovely. To my dudes saying," another dude would do it to you", so when has another mans decisions shaped yours? That logic of dog eat dog is the very reason honor is non existent. Everyone is worried about what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying,"you now what I'm not going to continue the cycle."

bravo.

just about question how people justifying there actions based on the next man. thats some weak !@*$.