Dating a stripper???

[itshlittt]

i say cut all ties, you already caught simphilis who knows what else you can catch being in a strip club

 

[futuremd]

Bruh, if she stops stripping, shes doing it FOR YOU. 

That means you'll have to supplant whatever lifestyle change she is going to make.

Unless she's the one, then you're not going to change her.

Thats like dating a lawyer who stops practicing law to be with one of her boyfriends....the hell else is she just gonna do, homie?

She makes it sound like stripping was just a hobby when in fact, it pays her bills. No need to be ashamed of it, but she sounds foolish to make it seem like she can just "quit" while forgetting that she started stripping for a reason. 

 

[aveezythebeast]

She just told u what she didnt want to and she not tryna Be about that life. And u cant tell me u weren't relieved she wasn't down for the party. I dont see ur case...

 

[rusty shackelford]

Why date a very expensive prostitute?
I'm sure if we were in a private room and I had $1000 I could hit.

 

[DPancakes]

Realtalk OP, you need lay a load on her forehead and bounce with the quickness. Nothing good can come from this.

 

[dropten]

Bruh, if she stops stripping, shes doing it FOR YOU. 

That means you'll have to supplant whatever lifestyle change she is going to make.

Unless she's the one, then you're not going to change her.

Thats like dating a lawyer who stops practicing law to be with one of her boyfriends....the hell else is she just gonna do, homie?

She makes it sound like stripping was just a hobby when in fact, it pays her bills. No need to be ashamed of it, but she sounds foolish to make it seem like she can just "quit" while forgetting that she started stripping for a reason. 

Yep, and if something happens she'll blame me for making her stop
But from what she tells me, its her second go at stripping. Says its one of the easiest ways to get her $XXX+ a day that works with her school schedule.

 

[dropten]

She just told u what she didnt want to and she not tryna Be about that life. And u cant tell me u weren't relieved she wasn't down for the party. I dont see ur case...

Nah I wasnt relieved. Women make emotional decisions, and they will do things they say theyll never do because of some emotional set back.

 

[futuremd]

Bruh, if she stops stripping, shes doing it FOR YOU. 

That means you'll have to supplant whatever lifestyle change she is going to make.

Unless she's the one, then you're not going to change her.

Thats like dating a lawyer who stops practicing law to be with one of her boyfriends....the hell else is she just gonna do, homie?

She makes it sound like stripping was just a hobby when in fact, it pays her bills. No need to be ashamed of it, but she sounds foolish to make it seem like she can just "quit" while forgetting that she started stripping for a reason. 

Yep, and if something happens she'll blame me for making her stop
But from what she tells me, its her second go at stripping. Says its one of the easiest ways to get her $XXX+ a day that works with her school schedule.

So you already know the deal.

She already doesn't sound responsible for her OWN life and is looking to offload guilt.

"You made me do this."

"You said I should pursue this."

"I did this for you!"

Plus, I'm always weary of girls who strip to go to school...no diss, I just am. What is she really majoring in and what does she think she'll get out of it? 

 

[wavy bone]

Troll of the year

 

[dropten]

So you already know the deal.

She already doesn't sound responsible for her OWN life and is looking to offload guilt.


"You made me do this."

"You said I should pursue this."

"I did this for you!"

Plus, I'm always weary of girls who strip to go to school...no diss, I just am. What is she really majoring in and what does she think she'll get out of it? 

Honestly, I never asked her. I think I heard her metion something about forensics or something. I try to keep personal info to a minimum for various reasons. One of them being I dont want to get that close to her, cause thats when some women unleash a ish load of stress on you, like issues with work, school, friends, family and what ever. I not her man so I dont need that in my life.
For her to say she would stop stripping for me is kind weird to me. Maybe shes not proud of it and is trying to find a reason to stop. But im not trying to supplement that like you said. If I do make her stop, that places me closer and closer to "higher expectations"

 

[jjs07]

@ u dudes in here giving legit advice. 

Yall gettin' played. 

 

[nicelikechrist]

[Chappelle]Nah man, I'm cool[/Chappelle]

 

[futuremd]

So you already know the deal.

She already doesn't sound responsible for her OWN life and is looking to offload guilt.


"You made me do this."

"You said I should pursue this."

"I did this for you!"

Plus, I'm always weary of girls who strip to go to school...no diss, I just am. What is she really majoring in and what does she think she'll get out of it? 

Honestly, I never asked her. I think I heard her metion something about forensics or something. I try to keep personal info to a minimum for various reasons. One of them being I dont want to get that close to her, cause thats when some women unleash a ish load of stress on you, like issues with work, school, friends, family and what ever. I not her man so I dont need that in my life.

You sure about that?

For her to say she would stop stripping for me is kind weird to me. Maybe shes not proud of it and is trying to find a reason to stop. But im not trying to supplement that like you said. If I do make her stop, that places me closer and closer to "higher expectations"

Maybe you should ask her what her plans are? 

...what do ya'll even talk about besides her showing you what she learned at work that day?

 

[gllahone84]

I just came back from picking her up from the SClub. Decided to take her home, cause she got rear ended this weekend and her cars in the body shop.
So we're sitting in the front of her crib and shes acting like she aint just come from shaking her *** for dollas, having old dudes smaking her rump.
I then realized shorty is running the ultimate game on me. Shes trying to have me accept her ways and still have me treat her the way I do its almost like nothing ever happened, clear conscience and all. It was like another routine day for her while she picks up the washingtons of the floor.
One thing she doesnt know is I stalk her twitter from time to time. She doesnt know I.know about her twitter, and some of the ish she says is starting to make sense now. Shes slick, trying to have me accept what I normally wouldnt so she can trap me. Im not going to bring it up though, just keep my cool and play along with the game whilst controlling the situation unknowning to her
Btw, im on oxys and have been drinking. Pardon my sentence structure

That's why your judgment is clouded...

 

[dropten]

@ u dudes in here giving legit advice. 

Yall gettin' played. 

How so? You think im making this up?
Im legitimaly asking for advice. Im not going to sit here an pretend I know how to handle every situation, especially situations ive never been in.

 

[Bert.]

meh id date a stripper

 

[BigDanes89]

I would date a stripper if she gettin HELLA money.

 

[solo polo]

dated one stripper AND another chick that did online porn, respectively...

both were good girl at the heart of it all..BUT they are not to be trusted...

anything flashing cash will and can get them!!!

there in that business for a reason...cash

 

[young thundercat]

meh id date a stripper

sucka


along with alot dudes in here.


looking for love in a strip club...if you gonna keep her at a distant do that. Smoke, drink whatever you do and smash. Not going to the strip club to watch her dance, what type of crap is that.

OP im sure your old enough to realize you have to put every women you meet in a category, and not let them out of it once they are placed there.


your number 1 mistake was going to watch her dance.

 

[cj863]

OP instead of falling in love with the ***** you need
to be trying to turn a profit on her dumbass. She's already
begging for you to take command, so man up and pimp her
***

 

[Peep Game]

Stalking her twitter thou, sound like she got you hooked son...

 

[gllahone84]

Look at the texts man...

"Had me worried cause you always let me know when you get home..."

Talking bout the meds knoced her out...ok if you believe that then I got the Lebron X's already on deck.

Cut her loose...

DIGNITY...that's what it's about.

 

[futuremd]

Look at the texts man...

"Had me worried cause you always let me know when you get home..."

Talking bout the meds knoced her out...ok if you believe that then I got the Lebron X's already on deck.

Cut her loose...

DIGNITY...that's what it's about.

Aren't the received messages on the left hand side?

 

[young thundercat]

Look at the texts man...

"Had me worried cause you always let me know when you get home..."



Talking bout the meds knoced her out...ok if you believe that then I got the Lebron X's already on deck.

you got it wrong...OP was on the Meds and she was worried about him...still game tho.

 

[toughmoney]

Usually i say no, but for you? absolutely, go ahead.

I agree with this 100%. OP definitely find out what she plans to do after stripping. Future Housewife?