Originally Posted by
iM COOL C
Originally Posted by
DatZNasty
iM COOL C wrote:
Damn homie..
Wait till you have your own kids to do that with..
Snitching on young girls to they parents?? What's wrong son? You never had no girls show you nothing from a young age & now you mad.
I mean I see how your "looking out", but honestly if the parents are good parents they'll get on their daughters & punish them yadda yadda,
but they're going to say to themselves Wow DatZNasty.. Has nothing better to do then look at these pictures & worry about little kids lives. You
think as a father one day you going to feel comfortable with another man looking at your daughters pics.
You trying to do stop the unavoidable. They aint young hoodrats they just young'ns having fun. I say get on ya little mans' talk to him & thats
that. What you want him to grow up & be a virgin till marriage or turn out gay. Chill out you wouldn't now annoying %#$ gorwn man getting involved in
your business.
Sometimes the right thing to do isn't really the right thing to do. You going to mess up a parents perception of their daughters just because your a
rake.
Not Cool...
at the idea of not having sex before 14 turning someone gay. I'm not looking at her pics either. Of course I wouldn't want a grown dude seeing
pics of me 14ish daughter naked, wouldn't want her sending it to boyfriends and other dudes either.
Shame on me for worrying about little kid's lives. I hope none of you have
kids. Going to be a bunch of little heathens running around doing whateverthe**** they want because their parents think that them !+@*@@% up is a good thing
and some sort of path to self realization.
%#%! out of here with that Ghandi..
Ok the gay thing was an my going over the top trying to prove a point. Because it won't turn him gay.
But i'm going to have kids & I plan on worrying about my kids lives, but then again its going to his/her life.. not mines.
So if my little mans got chicks sending him pictures thats his problem not mines. He's not going to run around having sex and all that, but clearly if he's getting pictures he's just getting to know whats good with the female species. If he was having sex in the crib then yeah... you can say there's a problem.
Your a bored individual.. Trying to do the "right thing" trying to get involved in his life like how your doing won't lead to anything, but having your nephew or whatever not trust you.. have the girl totally go through shame with her parents & being seen as a #$@ by her parents when in reality she's doing nothing wrong. Oh and the parents are going to see you as umm Malique's uncle you know the guy that sent us the pictures he saw of our daughters !#@#!.
If I was you I'd leave the issue alone make your kids raise them as %#%!'d up as you want and let me know how it works.
Because I'm 20 years old only, but trust me I know that part of parenting well good parenting is looking the other way in harmless situations & keeping an open mind.
Don't get that confused for letting your kids go out and have sex, smoke, drink or whatever... But realize youngn's are youngn's and they going to go through things that mold them & are going to do stupid things that help them learn.
Sorry if I'm ranting, but DatZNasty you pulling a serious loser move..
And just to put the shoe on the other foot... Part of my good parenting would be that if I had a daughter she
A. wouldn't have a cell phone until she's atleast in high school or
B. I'd find out what she's doing on my own cause that's what a parent does.
And obviously it changes when you have a son, but please believe I wouldn't +#$# block like you doing I'd just talk to em like yo this is what it is..
move on stop being involved in little kid drama cause your bored.
Your kids are going to be all kinds of @%+%** up. He
is having sex, smoking, skipping school, getting expelled, getting in trouble with the law,and all of that. Again, when you and your girlfriend whomyou actually see daily or sending each other naked pics, that's much different than say if you caught a young boy with like a Playboy or going toAssesInTheGrass or some other site.
Your B doesn't even make sense. I did find out about it on my own. He's not smart enough to get away with all the stuff he does on the sly. Forexample, the day we caught him smoking (New Year's by the way), it was because his +$%**%+ smoked a black upstairs in the attic then gonna come backdownstairs smelling like cigarette smoke when there's like 20 people in the house as if nobody's going to know, and then the whole upstairs smells likecigarette smoke. I never smoked, but please believe if I did I would at least be smart enough to do it outside, then come back inside and change clothes.
And I don't HAVE pictures of her naked. Y'all are acting like I got it on my desktop and printed out wallet copies that I take around with me andforwarded it to myself. It's on his phone. His phone is in my house right now, his phone is always here though since he lived(s) here anyways. I'msorry, but teenage sex (or drugs, or getting kicked out of school) is not harmless, that's why $#*# like that is on the rise now. Everybody thinks it'scute, and normal, and harmless. Then they're 16 yr old daughters and sons make a decision and get a consequence they can't undo, like an STD (againrising) or teenage pregnancy (also rising). Call me a cockblocker because I'd rather not see that happen to people, particularly my nephew.
If I had a daughter and somebody knew she was out hoing, I'd really like to know. Obviously then I could adjust my approach to parenting, sit her down andhave a talk, spend more time with her, take away some of her freedoms, pay more attention and maybe not let BET and Myspace raise her, whatever needs to bedone.
No doubt growing up I had some female classmates in middle and high school who I'd like to see naked and did, but I know damn well
1) their parents would have not been happy if they knew about it and rightfully so
2) nor would my parents and
3) was smart enough to not take it any further than that and risk again the possible consequences of sex.
Skipping school once, getting in trouble, and not doing it again is more a "typical kid move," or sneaking food in your room when you're notsupposed to, getting caught and getting extra chores for the week or something, throwing away your progress report or intercepting calls from the school andhaving your parents find out later; all generally things that you do maybe once or twice, learn from, get the negative reinforcement, and move on from. Alsonone of them have consequences as potentially expensive, long lasting, or serious as sex, drugs, and legal trouble.
But I should just chill and stop being bored.
Or the seniors and college freshman who dated HS freshman. 
