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DoubleJs07 wrote:
You may not be "worried" per-say, but there are PLENTY of trust issues in your relationship if at this point you aren't 100% sure the child is yours. That's gotta be the worst feeling in the world if you look at your kid everyday and wonder if it's actually yours. That's has to burn.Originally Posted by ponson02
Mister DoItNice- nah my family loves the baby. That just makes it harder.
Nyota de la star- yeah I've seen the whole family. her mother is real light skin. She is 1/4 white. Her father is creole. He is very light too. I know what your saying about black families not all looking the same. It sounds cliche to say this but I have been around black families all my life for real.
DoubleJs07- I don't suspect her of stepping out. Weve never had an issue with that. We were together for about 1 1/2 years before she got pregnant. But I dont put nothin past nobody. We never had anything come up about that and Im not the type of dude that worries about that if nothing compels me to.
Personally I wouldn't be with anyone that I couldn't trust. This is a big issue, and for your own peace of mind, you need a resolution. She may get insulted that you are even going to ask her this...but if she's 100% telling the truth, maybe she can see past your insecurities and take the test.
you have a great girl and need to put a ring on that immediately if she can move on from that w/o giving you hell