You've been given advice, it's up to you if you want to take it. No such thing as a gender specific lift, also all the programs I've listed are not gender specific either. My advice was to have her seek a trainer, simply because this is going to be frustrating and might lead to futility on both ends. It's going to take away from your workouts, because you have to focus your attention on the person you are training. So you're throwing your routine out the window Your gym sessions are going to be longer, that doesn't mean they are going to be more effective, just frustratingly longer.
I train people, six days out of the week: one on one, group, strength and conditioning for a local HS football team and program for another HS football team in the area. The one on ones are usually beginners, and it takes TIME, lots of time and PATIENCE, lots of patience. My entire concentration is focused on getting them to move correctly. I'm not working on them in between sets, so I can get my workout in too.
I'll also leave this little nugget: I DON"T TRAIN MY GF.
Even though I know what I'm doing, I always tell her to take a class IM NOT teaching. Why? When I push, she pushes back. When she's in another class, she gets **** done. Do I give her pointers now and then and work on form from time to time? Yes. However, I don't let her take my classes. That's just life advice.