what are the benefits for a man to get married?

[younghollywood]

Well then, to answer your og question then, it's been 3 years and no I'm not bored. One look at my IG (sig check

)and you can see I'm a collector. There's plenty of stuff I buy that I eventually become bored of owning but I don't think I can ever get bored of an actual person. You say you need variety but me and mine find variety in a lot of other things in life. Different cultures, food, even something as simple as watching different tv shows. Then, you can still have your own hobbies and friends to keep you happy on a more personal level, etc. There's a lot more to life than trying to rack up Chamberlain #'s with skeezers and in a relationship, you're only gonna last as long as you guys can keep things fresh and interesting together and I'm positive I found that and perhaps, you will too some day.

But then again, I would NEVER knowingly sleep with a married chick but like you said, we're all different

hey if its working for u good for u.  Haven't peeped ur IG but aren't most collectors like hoarders?  

 

[jaypesoz]

hey if its working for u good for u.  Haven't peeped ur IG but aren't most collectors like hoarders?  

There you go assuming, based on you being around reality show life I presume, but nope. And I'm only speaking for myself.

 

[ninjahood]

My own MOMS put me on game on how these chicks

Be when their husbands aint around from when she

Used to do hair on da side and would da latest

chatter from da salon talk...these broads is ruthless



ZERO benefits from marriage this day & age...

Bro your momma damaged you, being an only child she succeeded in making you fall in love with her....you really don't see it huh?...lulz

Its called she instilled standards i hold broads

Accountable to if imma spend da rest of my life

With em. Marriage isnt in da cards if she aint

Worth it. Seen too many ****** get railroaded

**** aint happening to me eff that.

 

[younghollywood]

If I remember correctly, you said you managed reality stars/models for a living. Judging by what I've seen on reality shows, those sorts of women are not the type that I would want to spend time with let alone get involved sexually/romantically. Do you think having to work around attention-seeking women influences your thoughts on the subject at all? I'm sure you interact with plenty of more normal women in your personal life, but I'd imagine that having to interact with the attention-seeking reality star type could influence your thoughts on the subject. The whole parental relationship status as an indicator of one's views towards marriage has been thrown around, but I think also the type of women one interacts with on a daily basis both professionally and socially definitely influences how one feels about marriage. It could also just be a personality thing. Your thoughts? Apologies in advance if I'm off base on my character judgement of female reality stars.

There's so many females that are attention-seeking period I would say.  I'll say that most of my clients and former clients are crazy, which is why there's very few men out there that can do what I do, you pretty much have to be a psychologist because your managing personalities which is just as if not more important than dealing with the business side of it.  They get plenty of attention though, even the glamour models I manage you wouldn't believe the amount of dudes that are constantly trying to offer them the world.  

I definitely deal with a lot of these women that are in magazines/tv/internet etc. on a social basis as well since a lot of them are my friends with benefits or just platonic friends.  I don't think it's influenced my view on marriage because like I've said many times I don't subscribe to the institution of marriage.  It's definitely a personality/just the way I'm wired thing.  

I'm just who I am, I've said nothing but the truth here, lol I don't know if I've ever wrote this much on any thread but it's been fun since these last couple days I'm mostly in my home office doing bookings/emails before going to the fight tomorrow.  

 

[laokratwr]

My moms never been with another man before

Or after my father..she truly is from a different era.

yeah.thats the right way.Women should only have sex after they are married.And have only one sex partner in their life.ALL OTHER WOMEN THAT DON'T LIVE LIKE THAT ARE **** AND *******.And don't even get me started on the voting thing.LETTING WOMEN VOTE?CMON..!

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[ksteezy]

Monogamy is definitely a social construct, that's a fact that can't be debated.  You can do some research on the invention of it if you'd like.  If different parties choose a monogamous agreement, only the parties that made that agreement should feel anything about it.  If i'm not one of the parties involved why should I feel anything.  

Now for my own personal situations, I was never with either of my baby mamas like that.  I met my first baby mama as a freshman at UCLA before I dropped out later that school year and moved to Salt Lake city and then later to Atlanta.  She got pregnant while I was living in Atlanta, we never made an agreement of monogamy so she was free to do whatever she wanted as was I.  My 2nd baby mama I met in Paris, in a lot of ways she's like a female version of myself, we have the same mindset on a lot of things.  We never made an agreement on monogamy either.  Like I already said earlier, we have agreements that they won't play house with any man but I don't care if they have their fun

So let me ask you this?...why have children with women at no point in life or relationship you even had the slightest intention of being with?...why have children when in reality you have little to no time to actually spend with them?...why not be a playboy for the rest of your life smashing different women every week without kids being involved?...

 

[SoleByThePound]

crimes of passion should go unpunished....like a dude should have every right to chop up his wife and the dude she laying with if they are caught in the act

That would be sweet.

 

[ksteezy]

Its called she instilled standards i hold broads

Accountable to if imma spend da rest of my life

With em. Marriage isnt in da cards if she aint

Worth it. Seen too many ****** get railroaded

**** aint happening to me eff that.

No bro she did what alot of single moms tend to do with their boys, she put the blinders over your eyes and told you no woman will ever be good enough, be alone and live with me forever....never leave me....

Difference between loving your momma and being in love with your momma.

 

[ksteezy]

Family values out the door in this thread...borderline feel bad for some of you, may be all gravy now, hope that it remains that way 20 years from now.

 

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[htg designs]

levals doh

 

[al audi]

Whoa.

 

[younghollywood]

So let me ask you this?...why have children with women at no point in life or relationship you even had the slightest intention of being with?...why have children when in reality you have little to no time to actually spend with them?...why not be a playboy for the rest of your life smashing different women every week without kids being involved?...

I have kids for the same reason millions if not more of other people in the world do, I want to have someone to pass everything I've acquired down to.  Not just my monetary assets but also the knowledge I've gained in business, social dealings, strategy etc.  Plus, I have an older and younger sister I'm the only son in my family I do want to pass the family name down.  It's also no point for anyone else to assume how my kids are doing because I know they're more than good like I've said.  Theres older dudes I personally know in their mid 40s that had arrangements similar to mine and their kids have turned out well.  

 

[Sir San Diego]

If you aren't there a lot to help them develop, then how much of the material wealth you pass on to them will be used in a way that you think will benefit them or make your work worth the time?

What if they have a completely different view of money/wealth because you weren't there to instill certain values?

 

[ksteezy]

I have kids for the same reason millions if not more of other people in the world do, I want to have someone to pass everything I've acquired down to.  Not just my monetary assets but also the knowledge I've gained in business, social dealings, strategy etc.  Plus, I have an older and younger sister I'm the only son in my family I do want to pass the family name down.  It's also no point for anyone else to assume how my kids are doing because I know they're more than good like I've said.  Theres older dudes I personally know in their mid 40s that had arrangements similar to mine and their kids have turned out well.  

So they were planned?...planned to live in a split home?...also planned to be from two different women?...I mean if what you said stands you could have just had them by the same woman...any reason why you had such an agreement with 2 women?


Making no sense to me....so..

Yeah I will never see eye to eye with you, best to leave it at that bro.

 

[younghollywood]

So they were planned?

Yeah I will never see eye to eye with you, best to leave it at that bro.

Thats the beauty of it, we don't need to see eye to eye on anything.  I'm definitely not someone anybody needs to feel bad for though.

 

[cedric ceballos]

You dudes are crazy and some fools for knowingly smashing the married broads. So much easy box to go around these days that knowingly smashing a married girl just isn't worth it to me. Dudes think way to irrational and will go in a pysotic rage over the thoughts of someone smashing their loving wife. Most these dudes who's wives cheat married birds and have terrible judgement in character and to be honest that's on them when their wife cheats but at the same time dudes are willing to go to jail and kill over someone smashing their wife and having that potential headache just isn't worth it to me. No matter how soft or not about that life a dude may seem, something like that is bound to push them over the edge and it just takes 1 bullet to take you out. Aside from that, most these broads that cheat aren't that smart and eventually get caught up and find a way to involve you in it. I really could care less about the guy that gets cheated on because most the time he ignored all the potential warning signs and put a ring on it anyways but with so much easy box out there id rather be spared the potential headaches that could come with smashing someone's wife and potentially ruining his family, kids lives from his irrational but somewhat justified potential reaction.

 

[al audi]

levals doh

This

 

[ksteezy]

Thats the beauty of it, we don't need to see eye to eye on anything.  I'm definitely not someone anybody needs to feel bad for though.

Yeah I think we got it by now, you a self made millionaire bro..

 

[krazy88s]

Y'all are some weird *** creep dudes bruh

 

[ksteezy]

If you aren't there a lot to help them develop, then how much of the material wealth you pass on to them will be used in a way that you think will benefit them or make your work worth the time?

What if they have a completely different view of money/wealth because you weren't there to instill certain values?

FaceTime brah.

 

[younghollywood]

Yeah I think we got it by now, you a self made millionaire bro..

 thats what pops in ya mind first.  I'm just not someone that anyone should feel bad for, nothing more to it.  I live life by my rules and that's that.  There's really nothing more to be said besides that so best of luck to every man in this thread getting what they want.

 

[ksteezy]

The nerve of me to believe in commitment, the fundamentals of a family, the social construct of monogamy...I'm a fool to have missed there arw levels to this ****

 

[ksteezy]

 thats what pops in ya mind first.  I'm just not someone that anyone should feel bad for, nothing more to it.  I live life by my rules and that's that.  There's really nothing more to be said besides that so best of luck to every man in this thread getting what they want.

I think that's the first thing that pops
Into anyone's head when they see you post...you've made it quite clear...ain't eem mad, you are proud...you should be.

But yeah...good luck.

 

[al audi]

The nerve of me to believe in commitment, the fundamentals of a family, the social construct of monogamy...I'm a fool to have missed there arw levels to this ****

Me personally I agree with your point of view but with a certain level of success things are just gonna have to be different. What's so hard to get about that? An I know you made the facetime joke.....but believe it or not.......that's real. I forgot who it was,.I was listening to Sway on the Mornin Sirius radio an yea dudes have to do that. Also who wouldn't want to pass their success down with their name? It's always deeper than money.