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I went out with 3 coworkers last night. All 3 had wedding bands on, and all 3 had rubbers in their pockets
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I went out with 3 coworkers last night. All 3 had wedding bands on, and all 3 had rubbers in their pockets
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I really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, respect you for understanding this concept. It is so hard for females to get this and you might be one of the firsts that I have seen verablize it. I commend you Big Mouse.
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I really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, respect you for understanding this concept. It is so hard for females to get this and you might be one of the firsts that I have seen verablize it. I commend you Big Mouse.
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I mean you could see how they couldn't understand that tho right?
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I mean you could see how they couldn't understand that tho right?
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Keywords you said was you would be hurt and your feelings wouldnt just magically go away. And thats basically what i was saying. Its ppl in here and life in general who really would just go from so called loving someone to hating them, and do something irrational like kill them, wish death upon them have a personnal vendetta. Ypu said you would have bitterness and love would fade away. Which is the same thing I said.
And like i said before i dont see understand how you put well ppl in general put more emphasis and faith into essentially whether you married them or not a stranger. I mean im sorry but i would feel much more hurt from a betrayal by a family member etc then a woman. To me like ive said previous times i view blood alot closer to me and a stronger bond then a companion.
I just find it weird not particular you but ppl have this mindset like my mom could lie to me, could steal from me, could killed my dad, etc be on some casey anthony steez, i would hate her but eventually accept it because she is my mom, yet a person who have absolutely no ties to outside legally and emotionally, does something like lie and/or cheat, ppl go off the deep end be ready to go out and murder committ suicide etc..
Im sorry but i dont think i could ever love a person non related to the point where i would do something detremental to myself like kill them suicide, or go crazy. Woman cheats on me id accept it and move on. Why would i spazz out, act irrational, how would that change the situation any? If anything it would make it worst for me depending on mhy actions. I guess i just dont give ppl that much power over me, where they can do something and change the very person i am with their actions.
I agree with you right there.
Like my ex, don't love him like I used to. But, if something happened to him, I would feel empathy, I think I do. If he reached out to me now and needed help in a dire situation and I am the only one that can help him...Hmmmm...I don't know.
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Keywords you said was you would be hurt and your feelings wouldnt just magically go away. And thats basically what i was saying. Its ppl in here and life in general who really would just go from so called loving someone to hating them, and do something irrational like kill them, wish death upon them have a personnal vendetta. Ypu said you would have bitterness and love would fade away. Which is the same thing I said.
And like i said before i dont see understand how you put well ppl in general put more emphasis and faith into essentially whether you married them or not a stranger. I mean im sorry but i would feel much more hurt from a betrayal by a family member etc then a woman. To me like ive said previous times i view blood alot closer to me and a stronger bond then a companion.
I just find it weird not particular you but ppl have this mindset like my mom could lie to me, could steal from me, could killed my dad, etc be on some casey anthony steez, i would hate her but eventually accept it because she is my mom, yet a person who have absolutely no ties to outside legally and emotionally, does something like lie and/or cheat, ppl go off the deep end be ready to go out and murder committ suicide etc..
Im sorry but i dont think i could ever love a person non related to the point where i would do something detremental to myself like kill them suicide, or go crazy. Woman cheats on me id accept it and move on. Why would i spazz out, act irrational, how would that change the situation any? If anything it would make it worst for me depending on mhy actions. I guess i just dont give ppl that much power over me, where they can do something and change the very person i am with their actions.
I agree with you right there.
Like my ex, don't love him like I used to. But, if something happened to him, I would feel empathy, I think I do. If he reached out to me now and needed help in a dire situation and I am the only one that can help him...Hmmmm...I don't know.
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Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
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Hmmm.. Idon't know. If a man cheats on a woman, he can still love her, but we can agree he is not respecting. Ok, I will rethink the love part, but it definitely means he doesn't respect her. I would probably put respect above love as a virtue in a relationship.
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Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
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Hmmm.. Idon't know. If a man cheats on a woman, he can still love her, but we can agree he is not respecting. Ok, I will rethink the love part, but it definitely means he doesn't respect her. I would probably put respect above love as a virtue in a relationship.
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If I were to cheat on my man I can honestly say I don't love him like how I thought I did.
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If I were to cheat on my man I can honestly say I don't love him like how I thought I did.
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I agree with you right there.
Like my ex, don't love him like I used to. But, if something happened to him, I would feel empathy, I think I do. If he reached out to me now and needed help in a dire situation and I am the only one that can help him...Hmmmm...I don't know.
Exactly like if they were on the deathbed or something, or was about to be raped etc, i just couldnt go off mel gibson style i be like oh you cheated on me so ill turn the other cheek you deserve it. As far as kids concern i dont think i could stay because one eventually they would see that we was faking it and was pretending having this cookie cutter life for image reasons, and two because of the life long effects it would have on the kids and the example it would lead them. Like oh ok ppl can walk all over you disrespect you and you should allow this or hide behind this if you have kids, and just live a lackluster life, full of lies, deception and fraud just so you can have your kids view the world from rose tinted glasses, and give off this happily ever after image for others but really slowly dying on the inside.
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I agree with you right there.
Like my ex, don't love him like I used to. But, if something happened to him, I would feel empathy, I think I do. If he reached out to me now and needed help in a dire situation and I am the only one that can help him...Hmmmm...I don't know.
Exactly like if they were on the deathbed or something, or was about to be raped etc, i just couldnt go off mel gibson style i be like oh you cheated on me so ill turn the other cheek you deserve it. As far as kids concern i dont think i could stay because one eventually they would see that we was faking it and was pretending having this cookie cutter life for image reasons, and two because of the life long effects it would have on the kids and the example it would lead them. Like oh ok ppl can walk all over you disrespect you and you should allow this or hide behind this if you have kids, and just live a lackluster life, full of lies, deception and fraud just so you can have your kids view the world from rose tinted glasses, and give off this happily ever after image for others but really slowly dying on the inside.
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Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
i was just asking...relax broham
& i know you didnt ask me but depending on what he needed help w/i might or might not help him
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Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
i was just asking...relax broham
& i know you didnt ask me but depending on what he needed help w/i might or might not help him
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Females: If you have a man in your life
Name some common situations in which you would AND wouldn't help your ex.
Would and wouldn't
What about loaning $$
Name some common situations in which you would AND wouldn't help your ex.
Would and wouldn't
What about loaning $$
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Females: If you have a man in your life
Name some common situations in which you would AND wouldn't help your ex.
Would and wouldn't
What about loaning $$
Name some common situations in which you would AND wouldn't help your ex.
Would and wouldn't
What about loaning $$
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Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
i was just asking...relax broham
& i know you didnt ask me but depending on what he needed help w/i might or might not help him
What MyT said. Depends on what it is.
This is of course knowing he would do the same if it were me who needed help and he would be the only one able to help me.
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Originally Posted by mytmouse76
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Of course I see how most don't understand it, which is why I am complimenting you. Damn take the compliment in peace man.
@HoneyNuts, say if you got in a relationship with a new dude, and your old dude called you up asking for "help" how do you act?
i was just asking...relax broham
& i know you didnt ask me but depending on what he needed help w/i might or might not help him
What MyT said. Depends on what it is.
This is of course knowing he would do the same if it were me who needed help and he would be the only one able to help me.
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You 2 are utterly delirious.
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You 2 are utterly delirious.
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nah he ain't gettin no money
how so?
Originally Posted by ShadyKay NT
You 2 are utterly delirious.
how so?
