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This is possibly the best advice you could get. Something I never got and I made a mistake so listen to this.
If she TRULY loved/loves you, she'll want you back. Whether it be now, 2 weeks, 2 months, however long it may be, this won't be the last you'llhear from her.
Here's where you'll be faced with a tough decision because it's an easy smash and after that, it's even easier to catch feelings, again.
You could either go back to her and start another vicious cycle of break ups because lets face it, if she did this to you now, it will take a while for her tochange her ways. Unless something drastically changes, you will be stuck at square one if you do decide to get back together.
Or you could
Stand up for what you feel is right, think about yourself first and say to yourself that she did you dirty and you are no longer willing to go through it withher even though you still may have those feelings for her. You will have to make this decision now, and not when you're faced with it because if you cometo terms with it now, it will be easy for you to say no to her when she tries to come back. Also, you'll either already have someone else or have gottenthat much closer with your friends or have something important going on in life, enough to not think about her as such an vital part of your life.
I can't give you advice on how to handle this current period, because everyone is different but I was in her shoes before. I did dirt and I did everythingto get her back. This was 2 years ago and we're still on and off after a total of 5 years together. I should've cut it off earlier but I know for afact that she's the best girl I'll ever have and I can't risk losing her over my wrongdoings.
In your case though, you gotta put your foot down and make sure she doesn't come back around you for a long time, long enough for her to grow up andrealize what she did and change that about her and chances are, by that time, you'll find someone better.
Trust me, I've been through this. Thank me later.
If she TRULY loved/loves you, she'll want you back. Whether it be now, 2 weeks, 2 months, however long it may be, this won't be the last you'llhear from her.
Here's where you'll be faced with a tough decision because it's an easy smash and after that, it's even easier to catch feelings, again.
You could either go back to her and start another vicious cycle of break ups because lets face it, if she did this to you now, it will take a while for her tochange her ways. Unless something drastically changes, you will be stuck at square one if you do decide to get back together.
Or you could
Stand up for what you feel is right, think about yourself first and say to yourself that she did you dirty and you are no longer willing to go through it withher even though you still may have those feelings for her. You will have to make this decision now, and not when you're faced with it because if you cometo terms with it now, it will be easy for you to say no to her when she tries to come back. Also, you'll either already have someone else or have gottenthat much closer with your friends or have something important going on in life, enough to not think about her as such an vital part of your life.
I can't give you advice on how to handle this current period, because everyone is different but I was in her shoes before. I did dirt and I did everythingto get her back. This was 2 years ago and we're still on and off after a total of 5 years together. I should've cut it off earlier but I know for afact that she's the best girl I'll ever have and I can't risk losing her over my wrongdoings.
In your case though, you gotta put your foot down and make sure she doesn't come back around you for a long time, long enough for her to grow up andrealize what she did and change that about her and chances are, by that time, you'll find someone better.
Trust me, I've been through this. Thank me later.