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Well I agree with you for the most part that screening is important and women aren't perfect. Sure unpredictable things happen and women do irrational things, but I don't think it's too difficult to get a good sense of a woman's motives and ambitions prior to sleeping with her. Do you not have conversations with women prior to sleeping with them re: birth control etc? Sure, lying happens (a lot) but do you think that women are perfect liars? Can you not tell when they are lying?I'm not saying all women are trying to trap men fam, there are plenty of good women in the world and yeah, you gotta do your best to screen them
All I'm saying is a lot of these chicks are not the angels that dudes make them out to be, and don't think it's that easy to tell. Highly educated women with good careers are not exempt from craziness .
I'm sure you can find plenty of dudes that never saw it coming from the woman they were with. "No way, she's not like that"
I guess the paranoia is necessary if you aren't screening properly, but my main point is out of principle I avoid sleeping with women that I haven't established some level of trust and connection with. I don't see the appeal of sleeping with an unmotivated, manipulative girl who would actually benefit their own life by "trapping a guy."
I'm not naive enough to believe that highly educated women with good careers are exempt from craziness; however, in my experience, that craziness doesn't manifest itself in them tricking a man into impregnating them. I appreciate the counterpoint though; I wasn't expecting this thread to result in any actual conversation beyond the delusional posts re: taking condoms home with you.
I understand the sentiment you have, but, with all due respect, based on many of the stories you post on your "yamb" exploits, you put yourself in situations where this sort of paranoia about getting trapped etc. is necessary. My point is I avoid putting myself in those situations.this guy gets it.
If you have too much to lose, why do you associate yourself with the women who would be likely to trap you though? Doesn't make much sense...
For those of you with such a deep-seeded lack of trust in the women you sleep with: who are you sleeping with? And what sorts of efforts are you putting into a) "screening women" prior to sleeping with them and b) actually establishing a connection and some level of trust prior to sleeping with a girl. I don't see how having such a delusional impression of sex would be fulfilling at all.
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