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Oh wow! I bet you are so proud. I can't even imagine how painful that must be to have someones name inked on your butt.
NT, how do you know when she's the "one"?
Oh wow! I bet you are so proud. I can't even imagine how painful that must be to have someones name inked on your butt.
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Was the baby his?
Jokes aside, age isnt such a factor as its made to be. Love has no age limits.
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There is no rush iblink. You just got to college dude, why you trying to get married. And if you know your not making a mistake but that is not true. Mostpeople who get married think that but you have to try and live with that person first before I would get engaged to anyone.
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There's no such thing as "the one" just the one for right now.
I also agree that you wouldn't need answers from other people for this type of question.
1 yr and some change is def not enough time to get to know someone well enough to marry them no matter how well you think you know the other person.
I also agree that you wouldn't need answers from other people for this type of question.
1 yr and some change is def not enough time to get to know someone well enough to marry them no matter how well you think you know the other person.
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I would say congratulations to her. Not to be a downer though, but 11 years really isn't that long to be married but I wish her the best. Ialso wouldn't base your decision off of one example.
I'm sure if you asked her, she would say that she made a lot of sacrifices by getting married so young. Just figuring out where to live based off of joboptions requires sacrifices and a lot of compromise. It isn't easy when you are both just starting your professional career. But if you are ready to dothat, good luck, I just hope you are both completely on the same page.
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[color= rgb(204, 153, 0)]but damn, kudos to you if you really want to marry this girl blink.... Ihaven't even met a girl who I've wanted to tolerate being around for more than a few hours on a consistent basis without being sexual untilnow....[/color]
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a year...is really NO time at all. you cant even finish school in a year (college degree). I honestly think you are too young as well. but if you feel its theright move...by all means.
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You'll know man....You'll know!
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Is she alright with you posting her pictures on NT?
If so, she's the one.
But seriously, if you think you both are ready... Do what you gotta do.
If so, she's the one.
But seriously, if you think you both are ready... Do what you gotta do.
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But wait bro. What are the negatives of waiting?
Unless she begging Don't do it.
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it's not really about being too young to get married; it's more about being stable. at this age, are you ready to support her and possiblya family? money problems are the main cause of failed marraiges. you're studying law and she's studying med right? you gotta put in a few yrs for bothof those majors before you can start working. it's just a thought. if you decide to do it anyway, i wish you the best.
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Personally, I don't think a year is long enough to really make such a life changing decision. I was with my ex for close to 5 years and now we don'teven speak. Hell, I don't even know if there is such a thing as the "one". You're doing the school thing trying to better yourself which isgreat. I think you should just focus on that for now. Marriage is something that you should be looking into once you've already established a foothold inthis crazy world around us. No matter what people say if you think you're ready then go for it. If you really thought this girl was the "one" Idon't think this thread would even be here.
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I wouldn't know because I don't get girls.
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duke is lovestruck.
(Frank Vincent in Casino) "Smarten Up" (Frank Vincent)
(Frank Vincent in Casino) "Smarten Up" (Frank Vincent)
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this man speaks the truth
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3000*"Too soon! Dont do it! Reconsider!*3000
Keep your heart 3 stacks. These girls are smart.
Keep your heart 3 stacks. These girls are smart.
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Thats called branding my man.
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20 is pretty young...if she is "the one" she'll be there after you two finish school and get established...
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this is straight non-sense,�
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when ure in bed with her and she farts and you two laugh it off and cuddle... u know shes the one
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Do you know her family well?
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Originally Posted by geminifly
I wish my girl would do this
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There are a lot of things, but here are my main few:
-When you love waking up next to this person and can see yourself doing this for the rest of your life
-When you can see yourself with this person with the rest of your life, in general
-The feeling you have when you're with this person
-Overall, it's just a feeling you have, when you know, you'll definitely know
-Especially, when you know you're on the same page with that person, it's
-When you love waking up next to this person and can see yourself doing this for the rest of your life
-When you can see yourself with this person with the rest of your life, in general
-The feeling you have when you're with this person
-Overall, it's just a feeling you have, when you know, you'll definitely know
-Especially, when you know you're on the same page with that person, it's
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