So my Ex decides to text me out of the blue after not hearing from her in almost a year. *CLOSURE*

[chino905]

 

[chino905]

 

[drunken cow]

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[drunken cow]

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[veezyv]

she wanna smash. end of story.

 

[veezyv]

she wanna smash. end of story.

 

[noblekane]

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

I say meet up with her.

When you meet, make sure it is fresh in your mind that this is the woman that you were good to, that you gave your all to, but that simply wasn't good enough for her. You have to put an emotional barrier up.

When you meet make sure you look good, and you look to her like you are genuinely happy. Don't act like you have a grudge against her for what she did, but rather act like she did you a favor. She will HATE to see that your life has gotten better without her. Take her to lunch... even pay.

Now more then likely throughout this past year she has been played and smutted out by other men, and she finally realizes that the grass isn't greener on the other side... and she wants you back. Don't give in... Not on the first meetup anyway. You have to remember this woman is the source of your heartbreak(I can tell you are hurt op) so you can't just let her come back into your life whenever she wants. Be nice to her, but respectfully decline any proposition she offers... even if you want her.

Now if after this meeting she is consistent and genuine and she really seems like she wants you back, I would say let her back in VERY slooooowly. People do make mistakes, so maybe she realized it and can make up for it. But don't just give yourself all back at once, and run the risk of getting your heart broken again.

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

 

[noblekane]

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

I say meet up with her.

When you meet, make sure it is fresh in your mind that this is the woman that you were good to, that you gave your all to, but that simply wasn't good enough for her. You have to put an emotional barrier up.

When you meet make sure you look good, and you look to her like you are genuinely happy. Don't act like you have a grudge against her for what she did, but rather act like she did you a favor. She will HATE to see that your life has gotten better without her. Take her to lunch... even pay.

Now more then likely throughout this past year she has been played and smutted out by other men, and she finally realizes that the grass isn't greener on the other side... and she wants you back. Don't give in... Not on the first meetup anyway. You have to remember this woman is the source of your heartbreak(I can tell you are hurt op) so you can't just let her come back into your life whenever she wants. Be nice to her, but respectfully decline any proposition she offers... even if you want her.

Now if after this meeting she is consistent and genuine and she really seems like she wants you back, I would say let her back in VERY slooooowly. People do make mistakes, so maybe she realized it and can make up for it. But don't just give yourself all back at once, and run the risk of getting your heart broken again.

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

 

[furrell]

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[furrell]

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[limegreen95s]

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later...�

 

[DeadsetAce]

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[limegreen95s]

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later...�

 

[DeadsetAce]

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Originally Posted by FDUB

I Just text her and pretty much told her to call me, so I will give you guys the Full details later... 

 

[rodrigo23]

Pourin my Jack D right now, Heating up the Pizza.. Suspense is killin me ...

#TEAM THATBABYAINTMINE

 

[rodrigo23]

Pourin my Jack D right now, Heating up the Pizza.. Suspense is killin me ...

#TEAM THATBABYAINTMINE

 

[rolaholic]

Originally Posted by LimeGreen95s

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Amazing execution 

@ #Team Thatbabyaintmine 

 

[rolaholic]

Originally Posted by LimeGreen95s

Originally Posted by Furrell

Originally Posted by Drunken Cow

Amazing execution 

@ #Team Thatbabyaintmine 

 

[ricky409]

Originally Posted by NobleKane

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

I say meet up with her.

When you meet, make sure it is fresh in your mind that this is the woman that you were good to, that you gave your all to, but that simply wasn't good enough for her. You have to put an emotional barrier up.

When you meet make sure you look good, and you look to her like you are genuinely happy. Don't act like you have a grudge against her for what she did, but rather act like she did you a favor. She will HATE to see that your life has gotten better without her. Take her to lunch... even pay.

Now more then likely throughout this past year she has been played and smutted out by other men, and she finally realizes that the grass isn't greener on the other side... and she wants you back. Don't give in... Not on the first meetup anyway. You have to remember this woman is the source of your heartbreak(I can tell you are hurt op) so you can't just let her come back into your life whenever she wants. Be nice to her, but respectfully decline any proposition she offers... even if you want her.

Now if after this meeting she is consistent and genuine and she really seems like she wants you back, I would say let her back in VERY slooooowly. People do make mistakes, so maybe she realized it and can make up for it. But don't just give yourself all back at once, and run the risk of getting your heart broken again.

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

i'm all for positivity... shid.... CHECK MY SIG...

but i like to be extremely honest when i say this...

WHAT THE #%@@ FANTASY WORLD ARE YALL LIVING IN? THIS AINT NO SOAP OPERA... THIS AINT A FUGGIN MOVIE... CREDITS AINT GONNA ROLL, AND THERE'S NO HAPPY ENDING.

talkin about "oh... she wanna get back w/ you... she was STARING in some other guy's eyes while he was diggin' in them loins... and AFTER A YEAR... suddenly thought 'oh.... i made a mistake'... oh... and while you're at it... pay for it. that will REALLY show her"

that's the most ridiculous crap i ever heard.

then have the nerve to say "show up, swagged up like its the best decision you made" . you really think OP has that kinda poker face? you think ANYBODY that hasnt dealt with heartbreak a few times has that kind of poker face??

lets be real, OP... the other guy either CHEATED OR DISRESPECTED HER TO THE FULLEST...

sorry to be so blunt, but that's the way it is...

she was NOT expecting it... and didnt have ANOTHER GUY on lock to ease the blow... so she turned to you.

point blank period, fambs.

ignore it... save yourself about 6 more months of bull... cuz she's going to eventually flip it on you, make you feel like crap, get freaky w/ the same guy, and do it ALL OVER AGAIN.

then have to nerve to say folks have crazy imaginations...

walkin around w/ some of yall's mindframes... yall bound to get fugged over time and time again until you realize that the majority of these girlies aint #*%%...

its hard, but you gotta go thru alotta bull before you can find someone that IS #*%%...

i've been thru it, fambs... this aint no bitter, alone guy talkin, or some renegade cat that curse girls out at the club and then have them butt up at the end of the night.

i'm a regular guy, just like the majority of NTers, that realizes that games are CONSTANTLY being played.

 

[ricky409]

Originally Posted by NobleKane

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

Originally Posted by Classy Freshman

I say meet up with her.

When you meet, make sure it is fresh in your mind that this is the woman that you were good to, that you gave your all to, but that simply wasn't good enough for her. You have to put an emotional barrier up.

When you meet make sure you look good, and you look to her like you are genuinely happy. Don't act like you have a grudge against her for what she did, but rather act like she did you a favor. She will HATE to see that your life has gotten better without her. Take her to lunch... even pay.

Now more then likely throughout this past year she has been played and smutted out by other men, and she finally realizes that the grass isn't greener on the other side... and she wants you back. Don't give in... Not on the first meetup anyway. You have to remember this woman is the source of your heartbreak(I can tell you are hurt op) so you can't just let her come back into your life whenever she wants. Be nice to her, but respectfully decline any proposition she offers... even if you want her.

Now if after this meeting she is consistent and genuine and she really seems like she wants you back, I would say let her back in VERY slooooowly. People do make mistakes, so maybe she realized it and can make up for it. But don't just give yourself all back at once, and run the risk of getting your heart broken again.

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

i'm all for positivity... shid.... CHECK MY SIG...

but i like to be extremely honest when i say this...

WHAT THE #%@@ FANTASY WORLD ARE YALL LIVING IN? THIS AINT NO SOAP OPERA... THIS AINT A FUGGIN MOVIE... CREDITS AINT GONNA ROLL, AND THERE'S NO HAPPY ENDING.

talkin about "oh... she wanna get back w/ you... she was STARING in some other guy's eyes while he was diggin' in them loins... and AFTER A YEAR... suddenly thought 'oh.... i made a mistake'... oh... and while you're at it... pay for it. that will REALLY show her"

that's the most ridiculous crap i ever heard.

then have the nerve to say "show up, swagged up like its the best decision you made" . you really think OP has that kinda poker face? you think ANYBODY that hasnt dealt with heartbreak a few times has that kind of poker face??

lets be real, OP... the other guy either CHEATED OR DISRESPECTED HER TO THE FULLEST...

sorry to be so blunt, but that's the way it is...

she was NOT expecting it... and didnt have ANOTHER GUY on lock to ease the blow... so she turned to you.

point blank period, fambs.

ignore it... save yourself about 6 more months of bull... cuz she's going to eventually flip it on you, make you feel like crap, get freaky w/ the same guy, and do it ALL OVER AGAIN.

then have to nerve to say folks have crazy imaginations...

walkin around w/ some of yall's mindframes... yall bound to get fugged over time and time again until you realize that the majority of these girlies aint #*%%...

its hard, but you gotta go thru alotta bull before you can find someone that IS #*%%...

i've been thru it, fambs... this aint no bitter, alone guy talkin, or some renegade cat that curse girls out at the club and then have them butt up at the end of the night.

i'm a regular guy, just like the majority of NTers, that realizes that games are CONSTANTLY being played.

 

[rodrigo23]

 

[rodrigo23]

 

[carver]

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by NobleKane

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

i'm all for positivity... shid.... CHECK MY SIG...

but i like to be extremely honest when i say this...

WHAT THE #%@@ FANTASY WORLD ARE YALL LIVING IN? THIS AINT NO SOAP OPERA... THIS AINT A FUGGIN MOVIE... CREDITS AINT GONNA ROLL, AND THERE'S NO HAPPY ENDING.

talkin about "oh... she wanna get back w/ you... she was STARING in some other guy's eyes while he was diggin' in them loins... and AFTER A YEAR... suddenly thought 'oh.... i made a mistake'... oh... and while you're at it... pay for it. that will REALLY show her"

that's the most ridiculous crap i ever heard.

then have the nerve to say "show up, swagged up like its the best decision you made" . you really think OP has that kinda poker face? you think ANYBODY that hasnt dealt with heartbreak a few times has that kind of poker face??

lets be real, OP... the other guy either CHEATED OR DISRESPECTED HER TO THE FULLEST...

sorry to be so blunt, but that's the way it is...

she was NOT expecting it... and didnt have ANOTHER GUY on lock to ease the blow... so she turned to you.

point blank period, fambs.

ignore it... save yourself about 6 more months of bull... cuz she's going to eventually flip it on you, make you feel like crap, get freaky w/ the same guy, and do it ALL OVER AGAIN.

then have to nerve to say folks have crazy imaginations...

walkin around w/ some of yall's mindframes... yall bound to get fugged over time and time again until you realize that the majority of these girlies aint #*%%...

its hard, but you gotta go thru alotta bull before you can find someone that IS #*%%...

i've been thru it, fambs... this aint no bitter, alone guy talkin, or some renegade cat that curse girls out at the club and then have them butt up at the end of the night.

i'm a regular guy, just like the majority of NTers, that realizes that games are CONSTANTLY being played.

See this.. the people saying listen to Classy Freshman

OP this past year you telling me you ain't met one chick? You foreals really gotta deal with this female again? You gonna go back and she's gonna do it again when another dude comes running in like the first time..

But OP seems fragile.. he will go back and we will see another thread from him in a few months

 

[carver]

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by NobleKane

Originally Posted by Dmvbatman

 

hilarious!

OP you listen to this, and when it happens again, I hope not to see another thread of you getting the same treatment.


then again i'm not surprised this many dudes on here that would get BACK with an Ex that cheated on them....

  would your Ex would have done the same if you cheated on her? so all of you co-signing this post above is basically saying "yeah i'll play with her and show her im in control then eventually get back with her".

for what?

i know right?

 what he posted was basically what i said only the simp version

 he treatin and he taking her back? and you got people co signin it too

i'm all for positivity... shid.... CHECK MY SIG...

but i like to be extremely honest when i say this...

WHAT THE #%@@ FANTASY WORLD ARE YALL LIVING IN? THIS AINT NO SOAP OPERA... THIS AINT A FUGGIN MOVIE... CREDITS AINT GONNA ROLL, AND THERE'S NO HAPPY ENDING.

talkin about "oh... she wanna get back w/ you... she was STARING in some other guy's eyes while he was diggin' in them loins... and AFTER A YEAR... suddenly thought 'oh.... i made a mistake'... oh... and while you're at it... pay for it. that will REALLY show her"

that's the most ridiculous crap i ever heard.

then have the nerve to say "show up, swagged up like its the best decision you made" . you really think OP has that kinda poker face? you think ANYBODY that hasnt dealt with heartbreak a few times has that kind of poker face??

lets be real, OP... the other guy either CHEATED OR DISRESPECTED HER TO THE FULLEST...

sorry to be so blunt, but that's the way it is...

she was NOT expecting it... and didnt have ANOTHER GUY on lock to ease the blow... so she turned to you.

point blank period, fambs.

ignore it... save yourself about 6 more months of bull... cuz she's going to eventually flip it on you, make you feel like crap, get freaky w/ the same guy, and do it ALL OVER AGAIN.

then have to nerve to say folks have crazy imaginations...

walkin around w/ some of yall's mindframes... yall bound to get fugged over time and time again until you realize that the majority of these girlies aint #*%%...

its hard, but you gotta go thru alotta bull before you can find someone that IS #*%%...

i've been thru it, fambs... this aint no bitter, alone guy talkin, or some renegade cat that curse girls out at the club and then have them butt up at the end of the night.

i'm a regular guy, just like the majority of NTers, that realizes that games are CONSTANTLY being played.

See this.. the people saying listen to Classy Freshman

OP this past year you telling me you ain't met one chick? You foreals really gotta deal with this female again? You gonna go back and she's gonna do it again when another dude comes running in like the first time..

But OP seems fragile.. he will go back and we will see another thread from him in a few months

 

[josebronx]