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Nope. He'll be drinkin, I'm sure he'll try to get her to drink and deflower my little girl. Not happenin
Would you let your daughter spend the night with her BF on his birthday?
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she is 20. leave the girl alone
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Originally Posted by Seymore CAKE
Rilla,
Yea that @+$! sounds all good and well coming from your side because of course you're her mate and YOU want her to be with you. But say you're daughter came to you and proposed this. You wouldn't have any qualms with it???
right off the bat if you say you wouldn't YOU'RE A $%+%!%# LIAR!
Yeah, I'd be nervous but the thing is, I DON'T have a daughter. So my logic is pure and unfiltered. I'd trust a boyfriend hell bent on spending therest of his life w/ my daughter over the possibility that she could be having one nighters just to be rebellious. You know how these "porn again" Christian girls get bro. That's from years of no, stop, and don't. You KNOW this Dre.
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all girls are virgins at one point - what im saying is there is good a chance the virgin will still become a slew... once she has sex and realizeshow much she likes it and how much she has missed out on she gonna startt making up for lost time and end up aheadOriginally Posted by bangtcg
damn where are all the nice girls at. give me a virgin that knows how to handle herself and not give it up at the "decent age."
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I took my girl's virginity. That was my present for my 18th birthday.
Sounds kinda creepy now that I think about it.
Sounds kinda creepy now that I think about it.
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Damn right. Just like every other drunk boy on campus tries to.Big whoop. She's had BF's on campus before. Isn't that way scarier? As a parent, you're gonna lose that battle anyway. You might as well letthe good guy win instead of the Varsity basketball team.
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DAMN! Prom night?!?!? Shooooooooooot, __ did they make you take notes and a chapter quiz after the lecture?Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Right. Just like the rest of us did. We all waited to pay bills before we got the idea to do what we wanted. Right...... where do you women get these unrealistic mantras from? She's 20 years old!
%*%% Umma go? Prom Day FTL
im just giving you the parents perspective which is what you initially inquired about correct? as a parent would say...do as i say not as i do.
and no i dont have kids
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Don't start with me today PHAN... you've been on a roll today. Meanwhile, I've been building spike strips. Drive slow homie.
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never
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Nope.
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Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Originally Posted by Seymore CAKE
Rilla,
Yea that @+$! sounds all good and well coming from your side because of course you're her mate and YOU want her to be with you. But say you're daughter came to you and proposed this. You wouldn't have any qualms with it???
right off the bat if you say you wouldn't YOU'RE A $%+%!%# LIAR!
Yeah, I'd be nervous but the thing is, I DON'T have a daughter. So my logic ispure and unfilteredBIAS. I'd trust a boyfriend hell bent on spending the rest of his life w/ my daughter over the possibility that she could be having one nighters just to be rebellious. You know how these "porn again" Christian girls get bro. That's from years of no, stop, and don't. You KNOW this Dre.
1st thats my sentiments exactly, you don't have a daughter so you can only look at it from what you know and your experiences which are limited to thesignificant other. You've never had to worry about your child making a mistake that can potentially ruin or severely derail her future. How many girls doyou know that had kids waaaaaaaaaaaaaay before they could ever have a mature thought of conceiving? How many girls do you know that have been taken advantageof, whether through extreme gullibility or forced into some !*## that they couldn't imagine themselves doing?
Case in point my girl was telling me about how a girl used to be cool with that she went to grammer and high school with. They went to see her"boyfriend" and to kick it with some people. the girl goes into the room with dude then about 10 mins later one of the guys out there kickin it withthem gets a text and gets up and goes into the room. 10 mins later my girls having a convo with gets a text and just gets up and goes in the room. A few minsafter that another dude who was chillin on the couch looks at his phone gets up and goes into the room. So shes sitting there talking to the 3rd girl theycame with when she realized they were the only people there. So she gets up and goes into the room to see the girl who brought them with one in her merch, onein her mouth, one in her hand and the other dude with his just whipped out. She proceeded to scream take me home now.
I'm not saying that you're that type of dude at all Rilla, because we've chopped it up quite a few times and you do seem to have morals, I'mjust saying its the fact that things like this happen all the time. and as a father theres no way in the hell that you want to present an opportunity for yourdaughter to veer off onto a path that few come back from. I would consider myself a #$!%$+# failure if Karma turned out to be a bussa/runna/slide/loose ashell. You do not want to open up that lane, so I fully understand where they are coming from, and being a dude in your shoes I understand where you'recoming from. But I'd have to say I identify with the parents more these days, I'd rather error on the side of caution and she be upset now andrespect/love me for it later.
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ignorance is blissful
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How am I biased Cake? There's only me and my GF's relationship that is affecting my judgment. If anything, her mom is biased because she shares aspecial relationship aside from the one between me and my GF, and it's that relationship that is affecting her judgment, not the one in question.But since you my __, I'll read your essay anyway
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nope but whatever they gonna do what they want
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...aight G. Low key, I feel you for that. And since you know where I'm coming from, we can agree to disagree on the grounds that I just cannot relate tothose fears as much as you. While I see where you're coming from, I just can't see myself triggering those fears. Me?! Naaaaaah.....
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Ahhhh Player of the Year... THATS WHATS HOOD RIGHT THERE
and yea, I'm not saying that you're that type of guy or you give off that vibe, but as a father (which I can only speak of and I'm intrigued atthat SPECIAL relationtionship you hinted at) you can never be 100% certain... NEVER! So the thought of just allowing her to go stay the night is like givingthe impression that you don't give a @%%* about what she does anymore she's on her own. You don't have a vested interest anymore.
but as that boyfriend I fully expected my girl to stay over when we turned a certain age
... which leads me back to my thoughts of yester years. Carry mefather through what is sure to be a difficult and testing road
and yea, I'm not saying that you're that type of guy or you give off that vibe, but as a father (which I can only speak of and I'm intrigued atthat SPECIAL relationtionship you hinted at) you can never be 100% certain... NEVER! So the thought of just allowing her to go stay the night is like givingthe impression that you don't give a @%%* about what she does anymore she's on her own. You don't have a vested interest anymore.
but as that boyfriend I fully expected my girl to stay over when we turned a certain age
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I ain't going.
So she gets up and goes into the room to see the girl who brought them with one in her merch, one in her mouth, one in her hand and the other dude with his just whipped out. She proceeded to scream take me home now.
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Who says that the "good guy" isn't a part of that varsity bball team
Edit: Rilla just face it, YNS
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maybe after she's 18 n i kno that its her boyfriend.
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Due to my extraordinary parenting my daughter would be a fully matured responsible woman by that time so, absolutely yes.
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Eh. You should have faith that she wouldn't put herself in a situation she can't handle and that even if she were to be doing thingsyou'd rather she not, she'd do it with someone who was worth her time and doing it in a safe manner. You can't shield them from the world. Youdon't want to. You want to prepare her for the times you aren't there.
At some point their daughter has to grow up and she has to be the one to let them know she's growing up since they don't seem like they'll push herto do that any time soon. If she's not ready to face her parents though, you're gonna have choices to make.
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Originally Posted by Dathbgboy
Who says that the "good guy" isn't a part of that varsity bball team
Edit: Rilla just face it, YNS
And yes I am.. boy you they just have no idea just how muchIAS.
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that's not true...i know at 22 my mom wouldn't want my bf and i sleeping in the same bed in her house...i respect that so it wouldn't happen...
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lol this dudes hoping to get some for his bday, can't blame you.
